My girlfriend cheated on me but she denies the whole truth. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now. She has cheated on me during the second week I was with her because I went out with my friends biking instead of going out with her. It sounds so stupid doesn't but the worst part is that lately I found out that she had more than just kissing with the guy ( she told me she just kissed, no sexual intercourse). I messaged the dude and I ask him about that night and he told me he had sex with her. When my girlfriend knew about me talking to him, she started panicking. She started telling me what did he tell you and stuff. When I finally asked her the question about that night she denied everything and said she didn't have sex. She even swore to me on her grandpa who is very important to her, even more than her parents.I trusted her and believed her. In another occasion, I asked her again because something was telling she wasn't telling me the truth. So when I did, she hang up on me on Skype and started messaging on what's app telling me stop messaging, get away from me and sh**. She even told me, I'm gonna block you if you don't stop asking me this question. For 2 years she lied to me and never wanted to admit her mistake. She told me wait till we all meet together and if you have proof that I had sex I'll leave you alone and never talk to you again. I proposed to her to tell me the truth before I know it from someone else and everything will be fine but all she did was yell at me and tell me that my life with you is hell even though everything was going great. What should I Do ? I really love this girl, but I can't live with the fact that someone had sex with her while she was with me. Please help me.

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she admitted to me that she did more than just kissing and we got in a fight. she spit on me, hit me, insulted me while I was the one hurt. I couldn't control myself, I slapped which I felt really bad about. She started crying I tried to hug her, I started to cry like crazy but all she told me is I don give a fuck about how you feel. I have no one in the US, the reason I came to the US is for her.. The point is I wanted to make her my wife but I can't deal with knowing this fact.

[Anonymous]

Im sorry to hear she did that to you. I have never understand why if a woman or a man wants to have sex or be with another person, then why not just break up with the person their with, its harsh but at least they wouldn"t be cheated on. Obviously she did cheat because if she didn't she would of just been calm and said I didn"t do it and not be all panicky because she was telling the truth and their was no denying it. You deserve better, it's her problem and she is missing out on you. It sucks really bad that she did that too but she did you a favor because now you know the kind of girl she is and you don't want that kinda of girl. you want someone who is cool with you hanging out with your buds, while she goes and does her own thing and not cheat. Also, you want someone you can trust. It's going to hurt for a while but the pain will ease over time.This is her fault, not yours. Hope you feel better. :)

[Stacyzee]

If she isn't being honest with you then what do you expect out of the relationship ?

You can't gain anything or move forward if she keeps continuing those lies.

She has probably cheated on you more times than you know.

Someone thar is truly sorry wouldn't keep lying.

I think you should dump her because your relationship isn't based off much.

She doesn't even seem remorseful (like a sorry person should) but defensive.

[Aleera]

OMG-Dump her already! She has the nerve to threaten you?Anyone who cheats once will do it again! She doesn't worth it.She lied to your face and you're going to put up with that? No you're not!You have a self-esteem I believe and you want to be happy! :)

[Prof_Don]

You're gonna have to (as painful as it may be initially!), let go of this cheating girl. Let the principle go of "she has to admit what she did!", because frankly you are chaining yourself to this toxic relationship because of this principle.

Let go, dude.

[Prof_Don]

She spit on you? She deserved to get slapped in the face!

[LoneWolf21]

Just do your self a favor and dump the cheating b*tch.

[Princessxoxo]

Truthfully, you deserve better then that. if she can't own up to her doing that, and keeps denying it after you have heard from the guy that she did have sex with him. Any girl that cheats on a guy is worthless, no point in cheating leave, I understand that you love this girl but how you really sure that she isn't going to do it again. ? I have been in the same situation that you are in its really a sucky situation to be in , ://

[lananoel]

If you got direct information from the guy then that is what happened. You offered her to just tell the truth and it would be okay and she chose to continuously lie. Dump her.

[lananoel]

You can do better than a woman who would physically assault. you. You are looking for a wife. In other words a queen to your king. This lady ain't it.

[Anonymous]

Just dump her she really isn't worth it.

Any girl that cheats is worthless. And if you don't cheat you surely deserve better than that!

[Opinion Owner]

omg, screw her find someone new in the usa

[JamielovesKU]

Just point everything out to her then she can't deny it.

[PANDAmonium]

Move on she's not worth your time

[CrazynKinky]

Get rid of her