Her friend then asked if I still had feelings for her, I did, but after that how could I still like someone who cheated. And you know what's funny, some of her good friends that day were asking me if I was gonna get her something for V-Day sure it is more then a few weeks away but they were curious. I was to, I wanted to get her the most romantic, beautiful, amazing gift ever for I girl I was really falling for. I had a feeling something was wrong because the past few days she has been ignoring me, and not answering my texts or IMs, we usually talk everyday just making sure you know I'm not a stalker. Well back to the point. So what should I do? I still really like her, but I feel betrayed beyond imaginable, and how could I look into her eyes again and tell her I really like her? How!? It's funy because because once we started dating, her friends kept telling me to treat her right and do anything I needed for her to be happy, and I believed I did, because they told me she had a string of very horrible relationships in the past year, and she really liked me and hoped that our's could be amazing and go far. Now I am depressed and angry that I let this happen to myself. I am really dissapointed in her, especially when we first started dating, the first thing she asked me was:
If I was only pretending to like her to get a** and I was honest, No I really liked her and she liked me. I Need Help! What should I do?
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It sounds to me as if her friend is making up stuff...the way she told you just sounds suspcious to me...
GirlFriends don't rat each other out to GUYS like that...They wouldn't risk losing a friendship with a girl over some random guy that is suddenly also going out with them.
I mean, a question to all the girls: would you tell your BEST friends Boyfriend that YOUR best friend cheated on him? While their only dating for 3 weeks? Friends don't do that. so there's obviously something wrong.
So I have a few theories:
1- Your Girlfriend and her friends have problems within their group and want mess eachothers lives up
2- Your GF's friends want to get rid of you (very likely)
3- Your Girlfriend made your friends send you that...a very cowardly way of braking up, which depending on her age and maturity level can be likely or just me being paranoid :P but it's totally normal for a 14 year old to pull stuff like that off lol.
Check out the rumor before you let one text message ruin your life...get the detials, confront her with them.
To me it sounds like the relationship should end anyway...since their's already so much drama and confunsion in the first few weeks...I can only imagine how a relantionship of 2 months would be hahah.,.you guys would end up on Jerry Springer show lol.