Days went by and I received less calls and "less" affection when/if I was around her. I found out that she has been seeing her ex and keeping in contact with him more. It seemed like he was trying to get her to go through memory lane and try to recindle their past. (While she was with me?) He knew I was with her and I have seen him before to. All she told me was that she wanted to be friends with him.. and I accepted the fact that she just wanted to be "friends" with him, but oh boy was I wrong.
It turns out that she has been telling him that she loves him and that he loves her as well. I was already shocked and devastated weeks before, that she told me that she doesn't love me... She told me not to worry that nothing will happen that I could trust her.. (Bull Monkey Shxt)It turns out that he has been going to her house and she has been sneaking out to go out with him.
One night we had a fight and I asked her if it's either me or him. She answered with "I don't know still thinking"... That same very night she called me and confessed that she had sex with him... I was so shocked that I don't even remember if she even said sorry... All I remember was my heart screaming and that she thought I was going to leave cause I confronted her about lying to me and seeing him.. I know I should have left her, but I didn't... After I pretty much showed her all the built of aggression over the week... (just vented I'm not violent.. yet I wanna kick the ex's ass) She replied.. and told me that it broke. Right at that instant.. I didn't care how mad I was... I was more concerned about her well being... I'm helping her through it, the ex even wants to help... but she told him GoodBye and that she chooses me... But as of now I'm really confused.. I really don't know how I feel and where my heart is at..
My girlfriend cheated on me and I don't even know if she even cared how I'd feel when she did this infidelity. I know the details, and rather not write them all out.. All that matters is that she cheated on me and she was going to leave me.. I know my head and my friends are telling me to leave her she doesn't deserve you.. She has been trying to win me back..
What should I do?
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she has caused you a lot of pain and she knows that. you don't even know if she apologized? that's insane. if she cared about you, she would be bending over backwards to show you how sorry she is. she does not love you, this is apparent from her actions both before and after her betrayal.
she obviously isn't worried about your well being, so you are going to have to look after yourself and end this. it will hurt to leave her, but it will hurt you so much more to stay with her. you deserve a woman that respects and loves you, that you can have 100% trust in. anything less is not worth your time. good luck.
I don't think I can trust her...
Everytime I talk to her I feel as if I'm interrogating her...
I've been in situations where I felt like that. chances are this is going to end anyway. she doesn't sound like the kind of person that is going to be patient with you. I hope you find a way to get out of this without getting hurt even more, but reality is that you probably won't :( sometimes we just have to suffer with a bad woman for a while so we can appreciate the good ones.