Why do woman take ur kindness for weakness?

[zayzay]

she left me is wit another guy,she knows I still love her alot..because I still have feeling she uses that to get me to do things for her.i watch her son whom I love as my own,i was there for the birth he's only 2 and half months old.she left me bout two weeks ago.we where a couple for about year and a half on and off.but it was real good for about 8 months.im confussed why she left.she don't ever want to talk about it.im hurt by what she's doing.and it seems like she never even loved me.

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well here I am 11 months later,i left but she would not let me go.but now shez got her x living with her.so now I'm done for sure.i love the baby but I don't have to put up with her crap to see the baby.i learned a lot from that rollercoaster.

[ArtistBboy]

Dont waste your breath dude - if she's using you - those red flags SHOULD be going off ... and I'm guessing they did or else you wouldn't be writing this.

With that being said - move on to someone more worth your time - with the kid only being 2-1/2 months old its better to leave now then to decide when the kid finally looks up to you and they are like 3-10... it could devistate this child..

Simply said - cut communication for now, if she changes her ways of course ; try it round 2... if it doesn't work out then - it never will. =( sorry it happened to you, a lot of us have been there and that's why some of the "best / nice" guys turn out to be the worst "Pricks / Jerks"

[ArtistBboy]

Thanks for the award man - wish you the best~

ArtistBBoy

[ArtistBboy]

Sorry to hear that things haven't changed; the best you can do is just wish her well and be done with the situation. I don't think she is worthy of such gifts, but it doesn't hurt to be a mature father; and there is nothing wrong with wishing her well.

All the same, she is someone else's concern now. Keep your mind strong and your chin up. I'm glad you learned from it man.

[thatplayer89]

womem take a mans not kindness because a man suppose to be kind he is suppose to be subtle and mysteryous. how the niceguy is in the movies you shouldnt be like that she left you because of your kindness basically a woman gets you to that kindness and if she sees she is not going to marry you she doent have any other reason to be with you..anyway if you were pursuing other women after the break up it wouldn't matter..i know you love her but you have to get past that. stop being a pushover or this will keep on happening to you

[Shlei3]

I am sorry this happened to you. She is not the one for you. Based on what you have said she knows she can get you to do what she wants. This kid was not yours? Yet you were with her for the birth and you loved him as if he were your own. I just think that she seems very...cold. It's time to heal, move on and take a stand for yourself.

[zayzay]

Thank you! yeah shez a real bizzy!

[ArtistBboy]

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[Baconbits]

Because they know that can get away with it.