Okay my ex girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago saying that she didn't love me anymore and that she didn't want to be in a committed relationship. She wanted to stay friends and I said OK under the condition that neither one of us says anything about new relationships/sex for a awhile. We exchanged our stuff a few days later. Then she started texting me to see how I was doing acting as if nothing happened. Then she told me how she was going on a date with her supposedly platonic friend. Upon hearing this I told her have a nice life and good bye. She sais she lied about dating her "friend"I then ignored her for almost a week. She texted that she didn't like the idea of not talking to me or me being with someone else. Then she tried to come by my house asking if we could please talk. I texted her a couple days later and she immediately called me. She said that she lied about not dating that guy and I asked why and she said she didn't know. She made references and then outright stated that she has begun a sexual relationship with the former platonic friend. She started reminiscing about our sexual encounters saying that she wanted me to go over. I told her no that I wasn't going to do that and that I didn't want to see or hear from her for a while. My question is this what exactly is her intentions? Just to deliberately hurt, make me feel jealous, use me for sex, or try and get back together. And post script is a girl that is playing these kind of games worth it?
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Sounds like she's playing you right now. She doesn't even make sense though. If she didn't love you, then she wouldn't care if you went with someone else. But like Zuzuka said, it's a case of wanting what she now can't have. If you paid attention to her again and begged for her back, she'd show no interest, I bet you. She sounds like a control freak.
I think she's lying about that friend too. She lied in the beginning to make you jealous, when it didn't work, she said she lied about it completely, almost so she could change tactics. Because you blanked her again, she's kind of punishing you with the idea that she's sleeping with someone already but I don't think this is true. She ignored the only rules you gave her and combined the two to get a reaction from you. It's not working so her games are all over the place.
She sounds quite immature tbh and not worth your time. I'd recommend not talking to her at all. Ignore her completely and you'll be able to move on quicker and easier. You should probably tell her that what she's been saying has made her look immature and you don't want anything to do with her anymore, before you stop all contact. She's not worth your time, seriously. I don't see any point in playing games with someone they claim they don't love.0