Polls: Break Up & Divorce

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You are being offered $55K dollars to move into a place with your ex for 6 months. You guys will be filmed and must sleep together in the same room.
It is your most recent ex.

I'm black and she's white. We've been together for quite some time and have two kids together. A few months ago during a fight she called me the N word and I've thought about it every day since.
Edit: we were having a fight about taking care of things around the house. At some point our daughter wanted to leave and go to her grandmas (my mom's). Sol decided that we would leave and told my SO that. She told me I wouldn't be able to leave with "her" kid. She said if I left she would call the cops on me. My daughter still wanted to leave and I decided I would rather leave than fight. Daughter and I walked out and she ran out behind me calling me names and the dreaded N word.
It's not something I can cope with or get over. We are at the end of our relationship because of this final straw.
Eventually she apologized, but still had her reasons for saying it and defended her actions.

My ex-girlfriend broke up and ghosted me, she admits it's because she has some mental health issues. Now the issue is that we have a mutual friend so I can still get a message across. I want to tell her to delete all the pics I sent her of myself, some of them are NSFW, and also pics of my artwork (musical notations & paintings)? Any pics of us together she can do whatever she wants with it. I will also make it clear that I will do the same with all of her pics too.

Pretty satisfying after getting played

i know this varies for your exes but generally for any of them what is the emotion you usually feel? for me it depends on the memory i'm reflecting on

Liam Hemsworth has been dignified about the end of the relationship and didn't go on the attack like she did just to sell his career.

This is common for narcissistic women to trash their exs to anyone who will listen and as time goes on Miley will "reveal" more and more scandalous things about what a bad guy Liam is and how bad he supposedly treated her, he's supposed to be doing worse without her not better Sounds like Liam Helmworth ended the relationship because Miley is too much work with her substance abuse problems, mental health issues and behavioural problems. He seems a very grounded down to earth guy who doesn't want drama and drama is what miley is all about. He's not the first guy to be in a serious long term relationship and realise that he can't possibly marry her and have kids with her or it will be a train wreck.

Thing about narcissistic women is usually everything they trash their exs about is usually whats true about them. Miley is not the victim Helmsworth is. Helmsworth is handsome athletic charming guy who's career is taking off dating a younger hotter 25 year old model that he's very happy with and doesn't give him drama and has plenty of other dating options that's what's bugging Miley. Doesn't matter I'd he can win the court case but like Johnny Depp dealing with Amber what matters is that he proves she's a lying hoe

Would you stay friends with someone who you were seeing/talking to from work who is 9 years younger than you, who you hung out with outside of work and during Valentine’s Day (where you got each other gifts, cooked for her and kissed your way out the door) just to have her tell you that she wants to just be friends because she doesn’t feel independent enough/ready to continue seeing you in that way? Apart from the fact that she claims to be too busy to make time to see you what with going to school and working on the weekends?

Is it possible that she just lost interest and found someone else and is trying to “let me down easy?” Even though she was the one who wanted to get with me in the first place? She posts on her Instagram story a lot of crying HelloKitty posts and stuff like that sending the message that she is distressed about the situation.

My ex has diagnosed borderline and narcissistic personality disorders. That means that she feels the impulse to manipulate other people to get whatever she feels she is entitled to.

She will say that you are the most amazing person she ever met. Next she will harshly criticize and blame you for how poor thing she is, or how you talk to her.

The thing is that she won't stop constantly texting me all kind of stuff to convince me to get back. Stuff like "Alberto, when are we going to stop playing cat and mouse?"

And my reply is always the same: that I'm absolutely sure I won't be getting back, because of how bad she treated me and that she never changed that the slightness.

Even then she won't stop. Shall I just block her? I don't usually block people, but this sounds like the perfect candidate.

We’ve been married for over 8 years. I haven’t been the best husband all these years. I’ve gotten violent and verbally abuse at times. She’s been verbally abuse as well. You can say we’ve been toxic towards each other this whole time. She recently came to me saying she wasn’t in love anymore and wanted to separate. I couldn’t believe it, so I looked into our phone records. Found out she’s been seeing someone from work for the last 3 months. I forgave her because I still love her. She says she doesn’t want to work things out and wants to leave to her moms. I don’t want to give up on our marriage so I’ve changed my attitude and been doing nice things for her to win her back but she only get angry when I do. She also hasn’t apologized for her affair. Says she isn’t ready yet. So confused. We still live together and get a long. Sleeping in separate rooms. Asked her if she wants me to let her go. She said she’s confused is probably just used too me.