Would you stay friends with someone who you were seeing/talking to from work who is 9 years younger than you, who you hung out with outside of work and during Valentine’s Day (where you got each other gifts, cooked for her and kissed your way out the door) just to have her tell you that she wants to just be friends because she doesn’t feel independent enough/ready to continue seeing you in that way? Apart from the fact that she claims to be too busy to make time to see you what with going to school and working on the weekends?
Is it possible that she just lost interest and found someone else and is trying to “let me down easy?” Even though she was the one who wanted to get with me in the first place? She posts on her Instagram story a lot of crying HelloKitty posts and stuff like that sending the message that she is distressed about the situation.
Is it possible that she just lost interest and found someone else and is trying to “let me down easy?” Even though she was the one who wanted to get with me in the first place? She posts on her Instagram story a lot of crying HelloKitty posts and stuff like that sending the message that she is distressed about the situation.
What Guys Said
Go online and Google Rolo tomasi mixed messages. I think that article will sum it up better than I can. But basically you shouldn't be pursuing someone that is not head over heels for you. If you need to convince her to be with you, you will be convincing her your whole relationship to do things she is not fully into, whereas if you put your effort into a new girl you will find someone who is head over heels for you
It’s been almost 9 years. I’m not going to find someone who is head over heels for me.
Then you need to work on you bro... Are you overweight? Do you dress well? Do you have a good job? Make yourself the man you can be so women will pursue you rather than you purse them.
I’m not overweight, I dress fine, and I have a decent job. I don’t pursue women, and I haven’t by choice for almost 9 years. This girl was someone from work who liked me and I decided to give it a chance but as usual she cheated.
Sounds right.
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