Guys, have you ever been wrongfully called "creepy" by a girl, just because you are shy and don't talk a lot? Or you like doing different things that that crush of your dreams doesn't like? Or because you've never had a girlfriend and you still haven't had your first kiss yet. Today, I'm creating a meeting on this my take to all the guys who are wrongfully called creepy so that we can share our experiences together and, maybe, piss off the stereotypical "hot" girls that call us creepy and have them rage at us on this take. So come, sit down, grab some of your favorite snacks, and lets experience this together. I'll start with my experience being labeled "creepy" first.
I have been labeled an "ugly creep" by girls beginning in middle school. And although some of these girls are pretty cool today, they still would never date me in a thousand years. Every time I have a crush on a girl they would find out and would go and tell their friends how much of a creep I am because I'm not blessed with amazing looks and an extroverted personality. It really sucks because girls categorize me in the same category as stalkers, rapists, and people who have pedophilic behavior. In my freshman year of high school, girls didn't want to associate with me at all. My guy friends who wanted to go and talk to girls didn't want to even tag me along for the ride because they knew that I would only scare the girls away by simply not talking to them.
As the years went by I got more comfortable with talking to girls and befriending them, but they still feel creeped out when I'm around them. They don't want me to sit next to them or talk to them for extended periods of time. The only time a girl texts me is to ask me if I did the homework. No "hey, I've been thinking about you" or "Hey, I'm bored, whatcha doing?", not even a simple "hey". They probably wouldn't even care if I existed. That's why as an 18 year old senior in high school, I have to go stag (which means go alone) to the prom, because no girl wants me to go with them. One girl almost threw up at the thought of going with me. This is all because I'm ugly and shy. All my friends are really good with women and the women at my school are magnetically attracted to them. But me, no. Never. Not in a million years. And just because I'm shy and unattractive, I get labeled a creep.
My message here to you guys that are wrongfully called creeps is to think about other things. Focus on a passion that you like doing and focus on that only. Forget about girls, they will only slow you down. Don't look to girls on GAG to help you out very much because most of them are either too young to give you advice on this matter, or they are one of the girls who wrongfully call guys creeps because of their appearance or personality. Focus on what makes you happy. My mistake, and it's still a mistake that i'm still doing today, is letting girls take away my happiness. Girls have only brought me disappointment and bitterness in myself and them. Stay away from toxic people. Thanks for reading, feel free to share your story in the comments!
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