Awesome take. 6 years ago I met my boyfriend on this site and today we’re still going strong, despite the fact that I’m in Canada and he’s in the US. LDRs take SO much hard work, commitment, patience, and trust.
Write/say on video/audio call that several times (and truthfully) daily to each other. We do it here, feels like distant love. We also air-kiss on camera. :-)
Yes, it is. :-( But abuse does also happen with local people. Like it happened to me: 250 EUR gone "thanks" to one local woman... And you gays/trans out there, keep your penis away from me! I don't feel love to you! Very bad of a trans portraying her as a straight woman. :-(
Sorry due key pad mistake you found I'm is wrong ok. Impression in the sense he spend lots of money on you , or he is a rich , or he is very handsome. No everything ok but the things comes straight to heart or hurt or insult or anything you may feel bad you to tell this is wrong I can't tolerate.
@Giriaj I'm straight male and I look for straight woman only. Just to make myself clear. No offense against you but it is intolerable to me that a TS does state "straight woman" while there is a "he" between the legs. I know gay/TS feel like woman. But they aren't, simply because of their biological gender is NOT female, it is male. Wanna hear a true story of how much dishonest a TS was? I can paste it here.
I’ve already tried the long distance thing for a year. The guy cheated on me the whole entire time and on top of that, we never even met in person. Honestly, long distance relationships suck so much.
Of course, just mentioning it. What I mean is, when we distrust LDR then we can also distrust SDR (short-distance relationships) because the same cheating and abuse happens locally as well. I speak from my own experiences: 500 EUR lost to2 local people (250 each).
You have to trust the person. I much rather prefer someone near me so I can have their attention physically and I can connect with them mentally. It’s hard to do that online
@babyygirrll okay, your "choice" (heart-wish) then. I can somehow feel love for her. Sure I will end the distance, means one day let her come/fly here to me so we can start a family.
My experience is different. My ex cheated on me even though he lived 10 minutes away, but my current boyfriend is extremely faithful even though he lived across the country when we met. Distance doesn't necessarily mean you're more likely to get cheated on, it only makes the cheating easier to hide. Any guy could be a cheater, that's a risk you take with dating in general
Damn girl this is exactly what I wanted lol... I'm actually into a girl I found here. It happened after a conversation we had (publicly). Can you tell me more about this stuff please? Maybe in dms...
Best of luck to you both and lot's of love! Stick with honesty and avoid games/lies. Also say daily to each other how much you love each other and miss and long for kisses/hugs.
You will have multiple chances to meet new open-minded adult friend finders or singles in your area to realize your dream of one night hookup and NSA casual dating or serious dating on KinkDr.
Indeed but trust can be abused for e. g. money-grabbing from "richer" people. Bad things, glad mine is aware of it and says it openly that she is against such behavior of her own people.
@Lemia Keep saying that at least 1+n times daily (!) to her. That you miss her, long for her kisses and hugs and love her so much. We are saying that ~10* daily to each other and we keep chatting daily and update when someone is not "available" (reason to stay offline). It helps here a lot.
Good luck and all love for you both from my heart to your both'! :heart: :heart: :heart:
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That’s great myTake and I did enjoy to read your take 👏🏼👏🏼 I’m glad that worked out for you and good for you girl! Go girl!💪🏼🌸🤗💜
Thanks for sharing. Those are all good point and we had all that and more.
It wasn’t the distance that broke us apart.
Wanna share what happened?
Awesome take. 6 years ago I met my boyfriend on this site and today we’re still going strong, despite the fact that I’m in Canada and he’s in the US. LDRs take SO much hard work, commitment, patience, and trust.
3 good ingredients. Also words of affection help a lot.
@roland77 Yes they do.
Write/say on video/audio call that several times (and truthfully) daily to each other. We do it here, feels like distant love. We also air-kiss on camera. :-)
I'm very happy to hear that this worked out for you two. Congrats!
Congratulations, Miss pigtails of Missouri!
Yes. Dating people from anywhere is a huge risk.
Thank you
Yes, it is. :-( But abuse does also happen with local people. Like it happened to me: 250 EUR gone "thanks" to one local woman... And you gays/trans out there, keep your penis away from me! I don't feel love to you! Very bad of a trans portraying her as a straight woman. :-(
Sounds good. I'm all girls should follow you. This is your rights to be straight not keep self under anybodys else impression.
Sorry due key pad mistake you found I'm is wrong ok. Impression in the sense he spend lots of money on you , or he is a rich , or he is very handsome. No everything ok but the things comes straight to heart or hurt or insult or anything you may feel bad you to tell this is wrong I can't tolerate.
@Giriaj I'm straight male and I look for straight woman only. Just to make myself clear. No offense against you but it is intolerable to me that a TS does state "straight woman" while there is a "he" between the legs. I know gay/TS feel like woman. But they aren't, simply because of their biological gender is NOT female, it is male. Wanna hear a true story of how much dishonest a TS was? I can paste it here.
Hahaha
We also have to take care of these dating dates like any other dating, and then something fantastic can happen.
I’ve already tried the long distance thing for a year. The guy cheated on me the whole entire time and on top of that, we never even met in person. Honestly, long distance relationships suck so much.
Sorry to hear that it turns out bad for you. But same can apply for local people.
But she asked about long distance not people who are local
Of course, just mentioning it. What I mean is, when we distrust LDR then we can also distrust SDR (short-distance relationships) because the same cheating and abuse happens locally as well. I speak from my own experiences: 500 EUR lost to2 local people (250 each).
You have to trust the person. I much rather prefer someone near me so I can have their attention physically and I can connect with them mentally. It’s hard to do that online
@babyygirrll okay, your "choice" (heart-wish) then. I can somehow feel love for her. Sure I will end the distance, means one day let her come/fly here to me so we can start a family.
My experience is different. My ex cheated on me even though he lived 10 minutes away, but my current boyfriend is extremely faithful even though he lived across the country when we met. Distance doesn't necessarily mean you're more likely to get cheated on, it only makes the cheating easier to hide. Any guy could be a cheater, that's a risk you take with dating in general
@Idonthaveausername Also any woman can be a cheater, distance makes it, as you just said, only easier. Trust is key here.
Damn girl this is exactly what I wanted lol...
I'm actually into a girl I found here. It happened after a conversation we had (publicly).
Can you tell me more about this stuff please?
Maybe in dms...
You ask anything ill let you know. What you want to know !
@Giriaj really can I PM you?
I've a crush on gag lol
Alex sure.
i met a girl online last November she is from the ukraine we have been talking a year now
Best of luck
Best of luck to you both and lot's of love! Stick with honesty and avoid games/lies. Also say daily to each other how much you love each other and miss and long for kisses/hugs.
Open communication is vital in every situation even if it's uncomfortable. Tc
Yes, honesty always pays of. Lies just destroys trust.
Yep yep
This got me very emotional. I'm so happy for you! I had a very similar experience. Congratulations. <3
Damn.. sounds like a lot of time and work. Glad things worked out for you though
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@Giriaj Sexist!
Sorry but I don't believe in online long distance relationship.
Thanks for posting this!!!
You're welcome
Thanks for this post I really needed this
You're welcome
I dont do long distance period, unless she is on a long school or business trip
Beautifully Done, hun. xxoo
Trust is the key of it
Indeed but trust can be abused for e. g. money-grabbing from "richer" people. Bad things, glad mine is aware of it and says it openly that she is against such behavior of her own people.
Yes you are right, most of girls do that "money grabbing"
I guess there are still many left who find it shameful what others do. But doesn't this also apply to local people?
@Lemia maybe this will help you
Again We are not having trouble in the relationship. We are just missing eachother
@Lemia ok my bad
@Lemia Keep saying that at least 1+n times daily (!) to her. That you miss her, long for her kisses and hugs and love her so much. We are saying that ~10* daily to each other and we keep chatting daily and update when someone is not "available" (reason to stay offline). It helps here a lot.
Good luck and all love for you both from my heart to your both'! :heart: :heart: :heart:
@Lemia And don't play games or lie to each other. That messes up your relationship.