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Many "incels" are like men without the expensive cars they want. They want to drive them but they aren't worth the expense of buying one. Since a cheap Kia won't do, they go without. They really aren't involuntary, they just don't sell in the market and don't want to buy what's available. But there's always high end rentals.
So go down to Budget and rent that Mercedes C-300 for the day. Kind of like an escort.
If you don't "want" a sexual partner, you can't be "involuntarily celibate", you're CHOOSING to be celibate. That's my obvious point. I don't know why people label themselves as such, because frankly, I don't buy it. All you have to do is form an "incel group" for males, and an incel group for females, and let have at each other !! You're bound to find someone !! LOL
Thanks for crediting my post normie, oh wait you didn t.
Also females can't be incel, the so called first female incel was not and is not incel.
If you are getting regular dates on dating websites you are either being taken for a fool by eggcell single mothers or you are in the top 10% of men.
"Involuntary celibacy". That doesn't exist, and if it does exist, it can only exist if you are extremely ill (physically or mentally), or if you are actually dead.
Nothing stops you from dating and having sex but yourself. Trowing the blame on others and calling it " involuntary celibacy" (without any physical or mental health problem that would compromise your capacity to date and have a sexual life) is quite frankly, absurd.
imagine being a poor 5'3'' Asian. no girl will want you. in fact about a third of millennials can't have sex
@iOoko height, ethnicity don't have anything to do with that.
incels tend to be short and non-white which isn't surprising given women's physical preferences
@iOoko Incels are egomaniacs that don't see their flaws and think women owe them something.
And I don't think anyone with the adequate physical and mental state "can't have sex". As a Millennial, my reason for not having sex voluntary is: it's not my priority and if I make it a priority everything I should focus on now will be a permanent problem... I will stay stuck with those, so better move them from my way before looking for a partner or sex.
not at all. imagine being a 5'3'' bald indian janitor. do you think you would be able to find a woman? not to mention the fact that 105 males are born every 100 females. there aren't enough relationships for all men and casual sex has been shown to only reward the top 5 to 10% most attractive men. this has led to a rise in celibacy rates and now about a third of millennials are celibate. is it by choice? hell no. nearly all single males accept random invitations for sex
*5 to 20%
@iOoko most incense Ik are white and average-good looking. their personalities make them ugly
@HoratioCaine polls on incel forums showed that they have a higher percentage of non-whites than the average population. also it's been proven that to the extent that personality matters, women prefer traits like narcissism, violence and "benevolent sexism"
@iOoko fuck off. you're not a woman so u can't say that. most of the time we just cater to a guys needs to avoid abuse
This nigga spitting fire... I'd never seen the term incel... Defined before... This guy's story is similar to mine... I've not generated any interest from females... In my whole damned life... Xcept for most of last year... But that was online... Only
Injustice makes people angry... The solution is to fix the injustice not sedate the anger. We need to stop teach young people they can have anything they want, the world is their ouster and other unrealistic tripe that sets them up to fail.
The great thing about not getting any pussy, in my opinion, is that you learn to treat women better, or at least do what you have to do to be intimate with them, and that's a very positive byproduct of not getting any.
I'm so blessed to have been born with a very small penis, and not getting any pussy just makes me so sweet and generous... all I want now is to serve a beautiful woman who will make me serve her and her boyfriends as a personal slave and obedient pay pig.
Well, the word "celibate" means not having SEX. It doesn't mean, not in a romantic relationship. So involuntarily celibate means that you want to have SEX but you can't. If the reason you're not having sex is that you only want it IF it comes with a romantic relationship, then you are NOT involuntarily celibate. In fact you are quite VOLUNTARILY celibate because you're choosing not to have sex due to a lack of romantic connection.
about a third of millennials men are incels in the sense that they can't have sex and about 22 percent have no friends which means if all incels are murderers a third of millennial men are murderers. wait, you need to identify as an incel to count as one? in that case elliot roger wasn't an incel either and the claim that incels are murders has no base
i tried helping one once. he was a lost cause because he was so stubborn...
you should ask yourself what it would take you to day a 5'3'' ugly Asian male before you can give valid advice
@iOoko date ugly Asian chicks that are between 4'7-4'11?
they are much fewer than Asian men 5'3''-5'7'' and they mostly hate them nonetheless
There is no such thing LMFAO if you want to go get laid go to the whorehouse LOL
Defining involuntary celibacy as anything other than or beyond "can't get laid" seems like it's attaching meaning to the term that isn't implied by either of the two words that comprise the term.
Dude you gotta be like disabled to not be able to get sex
Even they get sex though. My friend is paralyzed waist down and his girlfriend still gets joy from sucking his dick although he said he can't feel it 🤷♀️
Dude that’s my point 🤣 anyone can get sex if they really wanted it
The idea here is not about having sex it's about waiting to have sex with the right girl. So it's not just meaning for a one night stand it's meaning up for a simple date
So wouldn't that be celibate rather than involuntary
Well then that’s not involuntary, duh.
I believe they don't just want sex. They want a happy, enjoyable relationship. As for those who do want sex, they *enjoyable* sex.
Yes, virtually anyone who wants sex and/or a relationship can achieve it if they lower their standards. The problem is that for many, they would have to lower their standards to the point where the relationship and/or sex would not be enjoyable. Sex or a relationship with someone you're not into isn't enjoyable. In fact it's often repulsive.
^That wasn’t the question.
That wasn't the question at all. I was VOLUNTARILY celibate back then cause i was waiting for the right one @Bluemax
@DizzyDesii is it possible to want sex with a girl but only want it after dating her and not having the dating to ever happen... Let's make up a new term there Involuntarily "..." Something... what is it?
Wait so you want to date her, “do her”, and then be done with her... damn i’d call that term “voluntarily savage” lol
@DizzyDesii no... It's the idea where I want to date leading to that evenutally but it's the dating part to lead to that. Getting a date is supposed to be easier than getting sex right?
That's pretty judgmental for you to say. You are a self centered and materialistic and very shallow. You should see the movie, shallow Hal.
^Thank you. Not my fault if you fit the description 🤷♀️
about a third of millennial men can't have sex. think of what it would take you to consider dating a 5'3'' ugly Asian guy, then you're realize many guys can't even talk to girls without having the police called on them.
Nah young guys have sex all the time. That’s crap. And I’m not in Asia so idc.
polls have shown that about a third of millennial men are celibate and that's likely higher due to social desirability bias
It isn’t celibacy if it’s not by choice.
The amazing thing is that most women have the idea that a man can't oppose to premarital sex if she is willing to have premarital sex.
Good take.
Buh...
I'll die a loser and happy. Unlike these married fools.
INCEL 4 LYFE
The late Elliot Rodger is the poster boy or mascot for the incel community.
now it's used to attack men who says things that women don't like
the redpill community changed my perspective on this a lot
Another white people problems
Just be fucking happy that you have a right to not marry or you can have premarital relationship withwhoever you want. I dont have this option. It fucking hurts to move on and get over my crushes who also wants me really much. I had to reject them because of my parents. It is not funny seeing guys crying over me.
Where are you from? I thought you were Asian-American.
Well that sounds pretty extreme I'm sorry to hear you go through that. But I recently saw a person want to kill themselves on here because of lonelyness and she is a girl so it's not like it's not a real problem either
Ok i am sorry. I understand lonely people too because I also want a relationship so bad but the only option I have is to marry someone that my parents like. I mean they recommend some ideal partners and i can choose to marry with one of their recommended ideal partners. So I dont have that bad. At least I "can choose" and "not to marry" although you have an huge pressure on you if you dont marry but not marrying is not an option because i really can't endure being alone anymore. So you are indirectly forced to marry because my parents or in my culture you are not allowed any bf/gf.
Yeah, that does not sound fun at all... I'm sorry you have to go through that crap :(
Sorry if this sounds rude, but I think you mean “Another first-world problem”? Plenty of different races of people identify as incels, it’s by no means just a white people thing.
it's mostly a non-white male problem as women are most attracted to whites and being an Asian is the best indicator in the US for never having been kissed