Men, Here Are 5 Red Flags You Should Look Out for When Dating a Woman (Page 2)
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Men usually go on how nice she seems and how much she’s into him more than looks
Maybe, but being “nice” is not the same as being a good person so I suppose these red flags also touch on that
That’s true, but It’s important to dispel the “guys only care about looks” myth
You’re right
1) Men are not as stupid as you think. It is true we are drawn to attractive women, but we don't stay long if she is high maintenance.
2) I would know very quickly if she is liberal before any date , so there would never be a date. However, she could hide that , but not for long. Example: Being for Trump would bring the liberal out of anyone.
3) Daddy Girls date guys like their dad, no to get free stuff.
Good list! Here's mine.
1. She never even offers to pay for anything
2. It's always you, not her, who has to compromise or change
3. She spends more than half an hour per day on social media
4. She aced Women's Studies and flunked Biology
5. She looks like Sarah Jessica Parker
Extremely materialistic, stays distant from you, make excuses for everything
I’ve had the displeasure of encountering 4 out of 5 of these types in the past. The phone girl is really disrespectful.
Red Flag #5Although I attract them like a magnet, I wouldn't ask any of them out.
So true! There are many more as well. If you get to know a woman well enough then you find a lot of them are walking red flags.
Looking at your phone and having it out on a date is considered impolite. But some people don't know this I think.
Everyone knows. The ones who you think don’t know, are fooling you.
I was never a daddy's girl me and my dad never even speak. I expect men to treat me like a princess and give me lots of affection so you wrong about that. Also I was never spoiled as a child but here I am wanting to be spoiled by men hahaha.
u are a red flag all around
''my dad never even speak'' girls ( or guys ) that dont hit it off well with their parents, tend to be awful partners
@AFellowWeeb too bad for you, I found a dominate man who treats me like a princess. I am not perfect but he teaches me to be a better person by teaching me boundaries and how I can improve myself and I love him and he loves me. You judging people because of how they mite not have good relationships with their dads says a lot about you not everyone deals with the same issues in the same way... also we all are broken in some way no one is perfect we all have flaws we need to work on... so stop trying to look for perfection and maybe try and be with someone who ain't perfect but who is willing to grow as a person. You also are not perfect so sit your arrogant Jugemental ass down.
I disagree with 4. I think number 4 is not daddy’s girl but a spoiled brat. Only child kids also are capable of the same characteristics. It’s most likely daddy issue women that most likely got problems
Yes I can agree. Never thought about the daddy girl syndrome. Have to keep that in mind for the future
I've never dated before and I've given up trying, it's wrecked my self-esteem and confidence so in a way I am lucky I won't ever have to worry about any of these types, or any female at all.
It was great reading this, thanks❤.
It's good that there are compassionate girls like you out there
Okay right.
But I've never seen a man writing 'Red flags if you're dating a man'.
Why are women so destructive about each other or care too much about men?
Men support each other's affairs and wrong doings and they HIDE THE TRICKS THAT they use to win the girl's trust just to use her.
How am I being destructive lol. I wrote this Take because men don’t really get a lot of these red flags, no one tells them how to pick a woman, but you can see everywhere that people tell women what the red flags are when choosing a man very clearly.
I also have a best friend who happens to be male and his recent experiences with his wife and the way he chooses girls inspired me to write this.
I think you have a destructive interpretation of my Take. I don’t think you got the message at all.
I used to hide a lot of my female friends’ bullshit and the things they’d do to their boyfriends. I never told someone how his girl (my friend) was cheating on him with 3 other guys. That was when I was like 17 and I of course feel terrible for not telling him.
A lot of girls do this, so pls don’t generalize.
Ohhh. But when someone is really wrong then I didn't hesitate to tell her boyfriend. I saw her flirting with other guys for money and stupid stuff. So when her boyfriend asked her I told him.
I've written and spoken about five types of destructive men and I'm a man so
SIX DIFFERENT TYPES OF MEN
Fast Food Workers- this is the type of guy that you never really take to anywhere formal. You're only with him because he's good at one temporary thing, but in the long run, he's bad for you and should be avoided at all cost. (I mean you wouldn't see anyone bringing Mcdonalds to the academy awards)
2. The tool man- This is the type of guy who will never truly love you. He is only with you because he has issues in his life, and he is using your kindness as a way to return to normalcy. you are the wrench, and his life is the pipes. Once the sink is fixed, the tool (you) is discarded and only taken out again when another problem arises. In short, get the hint, you're better than that!
3. Kleenex- Not trying to sound mean, but this is the type of dude that more emotional than any female out there. He will complain, and cry about the slightest thing. Ladies, I'm sure you have seen this dude before. Furthermore, he's terrible to be with because he doesn't know how to lead. If you ever encounter a person like this, tell him to get off the breast milk, and man the hell up.
4 The Ceo aka Mr. Mee too - ah yes the CEO. This is the guy that has money and wants every knows it. This man thinks that because he has money, every woman in the world should be on his like he's some kind of god. Not only that but he is extremely narcissistic. You could be talking about something that happened at your mama's BBQ, and some how he will bring the attention back on him. Last, he is probably an abusive person Shameless I tell you.
5. The Mastermind- The mastermind is the worse guy on here. He is extremely sly, witty and manipulative. Even the wisest of women have fallen prey to his charms. He will make you feel beautiful each and every day. Make love to you, and not just have sex, bring you flowers, and do what he can to make both your body and your heart sing. The problem is, he is doing this to every girl in town. He's also extremely controlling, and without you noticing, has taken away your independence and your freedom. You may think that he is building you up, but he is not. AVOID this guy
@Sparda20xx OMG SO ACCURATE. My ex is number 5. He was desperate and lonely but this LOCKDOWN saved me and I got to see his real face within 4 months of relationship and I kicked him out. Thanks for my mean, logical and blunt personality that's why I was able to figure it out. Other girls will be fooled by him forever.
Yea I used to write these a lot on fb.
I'm sorry your ex was number 5. You deserved better than him
I see an ultra-feministic one here
im a friend of a guy that is a fuckboy, guess what, we were all the time arguing and now we barely talk, our points of views are too different, we just have similar tastes in media/entertainment
You forgot to mention her body count and how imperative it is to know if she's had sex. If she has, she's not worth it.
Most men seem to want a woman who’s experienced sex at least once because sex with a virgin is kind of boring and awkward.
Because most men are garbage who don't want marriage and can't think past a month's span into the future. Same as the slutty women out there. Being a virgin is a good thing (I say that as a non virgin.) Genuinely wish I never had sex. Would've been different had I gotten married to the girl, slightly.
Most men are garbage? I think we’ve had very different experiences. I think you hold quite some resentment for them.
Regarding virginity, if you will love someone, this shouldn’t matter. You should see them as a person regardless of their virginity status. Promiscuity is another thing and I can understand why you don’t want a partner who fucks anything that moves (same here), but being a virgin or not doesn’t really affect the relationship unless you make a big deal out of it.
Of course I resent (most) other men. Men are supposed to lead and uphold society, protect women and their children. This generation has failed. It's very clear to see that this generation is among the worst. That is primarily man's fault.
Also, virginity does matter, inherently. Pair bonding is a powerful thing (moreso for women, but it does harm men as well to sleep with numerous partners.) Statistically, a man and woman who have pre marital sex (even if they get married!) are less likely to last as a couple and ever have successful relationships. People who have sex outside of relationships, even more the odds of failure. People who have more than 2 sexual partners in their entire life have less than a 50% chance of a long term relationship working.
I'm not taking my chances. I admit I was desperate once and dated a woman with a high body count, but I quickly saw the consequences. Both in her and myself having to put up with her.
I don't view non virgins as subhuman (I am one after all.) But I respect them much less.
It’s fine, that’s your opinion, but anybody can easily find a cherry picked “scientific study” that backs up their opinion. You can find countless of studies that also claim that premarital sex does not really affect your marriage negatively unless you’re the one who has that type of mindset. Remember that ultimately your own mindset is what determines your fate.
Anyway thanks for your input.
Relatively good in general. Biggest issue is you forgot the biggest red flag. Thats slut whore behavior. Girls who sleep around and have casual sex, as well as ones who equate money to sex like only fans, are generally going to make terrible girlfriends. So huge red flag 🚩
Nothing wrong with girls who sleep around, most of them are having fun whilst looking for a relationship. As long as you know where you stand with them.
agree dude
@jack187625 nothing wrong with them to hookup with or casually date. Try marrying one though. Good luck bro. They almost exclusively make up the divorce rate. Virgin marriages have extremely low divorce rates. Your alimony your call.
TRUE! pleasure seekers almost always put themselves first. its an addiction, and a hard cycle to break. its also a gateway to tons of other bad behaviors, especially if those around you are lifting you up and justifying it.
Women who sleep around aren’t necessarily non committal, a lot of them can settle down eventually and find a long term happy relationship. In fact most women who “sleep around” aren’t the way you think they are. You’re not helping men at all. You always give such bizarre and irrational opinions, “bamesjond” 🥴
After reading this, I'd really like to copy&paste... you 🙈🥰
nice article, not trying to patronize you or anything but these are pretty obvious signs
Well not everyone is a brilliant genius like you. Not trying to sound patronizing of course. 😊
Red Flag #4 is too real, I was with a girl like that.
If I'm being 100% honest, a shit ton of girls are like that (not all but a lot).
Great list. #1 through 3 are insta-dump, #4 usually goes hand-in-hand with #3, and I won't date a RadFem. I don't mind if she is very conservative.