Great question, I am literally going through this as we speak.
Well, I met this guy and I fell pretty hard before really getting to know him... I wanted for my friend to set us up but it's been weeks and still nothing. I have started to lose interest, but I think that if I see him soon enough, I'll just go back to liking him like before.
Now, if it's someone I've known for a long time, the same rules apply. While they're away, I miss them at first a lot etc etc, when I don't see them for a long while (like a year or so) I start to lose interest. But if we reconnected I'd start liking him all over again
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Crushes are just crushes. They don't last that long at least in my case anyway. Crushes are usually just a physical attraction. She could develop crushes on other guys in that time period. You may not be the only guy she has a crush on. If you like her, you should let her know and see what that leads to. The crush usually subsides once you get to know the person.
Most of the time, I hardly ever got to talk to my crushes. So I got over them pretty easy. Happened many a times to me (can't count).
If I had talked to them or interacted with them, then it might take some time to lose interest in my crush. Happened about three times.
It happens if it only your testosterone which made someone want. Seriously, you may understand it by yourself someday.
The more you talked to your crush, the more unlikely it would be for you to lose interest.
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Good question , but mine is from my side! I like someone he likes me back , he was the one to approach me and start everything. We been talking almos 4 months but not we will not see each other for 21/2 months, so i was wondering if he will forget me. Or lost interest. Not on my part i like him very much. And no if you already interact a few times , everything was going fine, then she will not lost interest. Text her once to let her know you thinking on her.
I guess it's different for everyone. Personally, I don't EVER get over a crush. If I've ever had a crush on someone, as soon as I see them again no matter how much time has passed I still get a spark of what I used to feel.
As for forgetting about someone, that all depends on if I've found someone new or not.I think it's harder to forget when the chances of meeting him again are still high... but even when you lose all hope, it probably takes more than a couple of weeks, depending on the person?
I'm under the impression guys forget faster though? =Odefinitely not, cause distance makes the heart grow fonder. Especially with girls, in my opinion. When i don't see a crush or hear from him in weeks, it definitely makes me constantly think about that person
It depends on many factors - how strongly I crush, do we interact with each other during that time.
But it also depends on what I think he thinks about me - if I think he has crush on me too, then I usually don't lose interest.This is a good question. I think if I really like him, my feelings for him wouldn't change just because he needs space or such. Honestly, I would just be kina sad and be hopeful that he calls.
Well apparently I'm going through the same thing as you are and I have no idea what's going on. Guys are hard to read
In my case, yes, absence does make the heart grow fonder. I guess I just always want what I can't have.
Depends on how much I've interacted/known them. The more I've known/interacted with them, then it's likely fade slower. Of course, I can't speak for all girls.
If you really like someone, you never forget about him. I wouldn't say it neccesarily makes the heart grow fonder, but it also doesn't make you forget each other.
well i would be thinking of him every sec of the day. and yes absence does make the heart grow
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