Do you think seeing each other once a week is enough, or should I not get my hopes up? :/
Is seeing each other once a week enough to build a relationship?
Do you think seeing each other once a week is enough, or should I not get my hopes up? :/
Does your guy friend know that you would like to see him more than just Sunday from time to time? Maybe tell him something like this..."I kinda like ya, lets mix up the routine and hang out late Sat one week and Monday the next? What do you think?"Lol. Before you know it, you guys will be stringing those days together ;-)
1-2 times a week is actually very healthy. You won't get burnt out so quick like people that see each other everyday will. Gives you more to talk about and also makes your time spent with each other more valuable
Good point, I definitely do miss him the whole week till we meet up again. I just wish we could see each other even one more time per week :/
Yeah (: as long as you guys are in contact throughout the week it can work !
No :( but if that's the best you guys can do, then make the best of it
It doesn't seem ideal to me either :/ But both our schedules aren't changeable right now, so we do make the most of our time. I just miss him the whole week till I can see him, and since it's the beginning (only been a couple of months), it makes me wonder if it's worth investing my emotions :( I really, really like him though! :S
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I've been there, it's worth it if you want to work for the relationship. You will cherish the relationship that much more just because you both are working on it.
That's definitely true, thanks! I guess because it's only been a couple of months I still have those unsure thoughts on where we stand/scared to get too invested in case :/
sure :) as long as u spice up the date and do something fun and unique every now and then ur relationship should be fine
Thanks! I guess it's just difficult, especially since it's the beginning, of knowing where we stand. It seems like we are at a good place right now, and I don't want to pressure anything. I like that we do different things every time (walking by the water, cooking at his place)... but it also makes me miss him more :/
It s a good start, maybe you 2 can talk to your bosses and see if you too can get your sechduals looking better so u can see each other more often.
I wish :/ Our schedules aren't changeable right now; he works at a bar and I work at a firm - but maybe eventually things can change... I hope lol. Thanks!
If he feels the same way, once a week is plenty :)
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