I see my boyfriend once a week, is that enough for a healthy relationship?

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We’ve been together for a couple of years, but only see each other one night a week because he works away. We mostly text and rarely call, but it often feels distant and awkward. In person, things are so much better but when we’re apart, I sometimes feel like I’m single.
Anyone else in a similar situation? How do you stay emotionally connected when you’re apart?

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

It's doable. Once a week is so much better than once a month like me and my ex. We would only see each other once a month which made things much more difficult in the end. But once a week is enough especially when he is away at work. I would just maybe try to communicate more while you guys are apart. Maybe do some video calls or phone calls more.

I'm in a similar situation but it doesn't feel awkward because we communicate a lot. Communication is key.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

REPORTED. ... DUPLICATE .

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As your flirty relationship guru, I'm here to help you navigate the love lane! 😉 Seeing each other once a week can work if you're both committed and communicate regularly. It seems like the sparks fly when you're together, but the distance can make things tricky. Keeping that emotional connection alive is key—send sweet texts, share playlists, and surprise each other with virtual dates. Just make sure love isn't fading into a dull friendship or ghost-town vibes. Keep it spicy, and you'll keep love alive even miles apart! 🔥💌

Rosexøxø · Answer

I would say regardless of terms, length, and/or condition of the relationship/the bond between the partners, on paper, and directly at face value… this is good. For a START. But it wouldn’t be good if it stood that way in the long term. If either or both are hoping to carry it further or fully commit- not having a plan or any plan and going with this flow for as long as possible, is potentially bound to run into some rough patches. May not even make it to long term committed status depending..

RingOfFire · Answer

When I was at the peak of my career, I was dating someone and working like 80 hours a week. The only time I could see her was to take her out to dinner on Friday nights even though we both worked in the same city just a few blocks apart.

Like you this went on for a couple of years. On rare occasions we would do something else like go to a wedding together or some other activity or meet for lunch. But for the most part it was once a week and that's it.

She told me that her family used to tease her and call me her "Friday night man."

I think we both cared for each other a lot, but this can only last for so long. She was extremely frustrated that we weren't taking the next steps and pretty much expected marriage by that point.

Frankly, I do blame myself since I prioritized my work over her and she had every right to call that wrong.

It's not a healthy relationship. He's got to make up his mind what the priorities in his life are. You deserve that.

Kabluie · Answer

I see one poly girlfriend once a week basically, they have another boyfriend and go to school during the week so it can be a lot. But that could be something to consider and why I think poly is one of the better options because you can fill the empty spaces with more relationships and still love your partners the same.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It certainly can be! How often a couple should see each other is kind of an individual thing. Most people seem to do best with a few times per week.

It's enough time to miss each other and have new things to talk about. Not enough time to get used to not having each other around.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

You two have been together for a couple years and only see each other one night a week. On top of that when you two are away from each other it seems awkward and distant. Only communication when away is by texting. You two need to sit down together and you need to tell him how you are feeling and go from there because if you don't the way you are feeling will most likely eat away at you.

BDRick · Answer

That is super dependent on you and your viewpoints in particular; some [ep[;e desire constant reminders that they're loved by another while others just want a go-to individual in a relationship. Heck, there are even individuals who have a relationship on the side, if not just to have

beenherebefore · Answer

If it’s been working for the both of you then it can be healthy but I would definitely mention this to my partner face to face. Tell him how you been feeling and what expectations you have for the future of your relationship.

glennos89 · Answer

Once a week is not enough to sustain a Healthy relationship. You are already feeling disconnected when your home alone so eventually this will reach a point of no return and you guys will separate if things aren't going to change

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not in this situation but wouldn't want to be either.

You only see eachother once a week and you say it's awkward and you both rarely call.

Those are signs right there.

You don't know if he's seeing someone else?

It seems like a wasted relationship.

I would end it and find someone in your town.

WhitneySnow · Answer

That’s enough, but it’s not good that your interactions when you’re apart are distant and awkward

PeachyPie93 · Answer

It can be, but you should try calling more often to keep the connection.

spartan55 · Answer

Trying to sustain a relationship by text never works.

MrChinaski · Answer

It's fine for a short time, but after 2 years you should choose what you want for you and let the chips land where they land. IMHO.

Babebytheshore85 · Answer

He's not your boyfriend and he doesn't like you . You chose to call him boyfriend. I'm sure he's dating women he likes

mojito · Answer

I think seeing each other once a week is too little, I wouldn't get bored if I saw each other every day. However, for a healthy relationship, it is essential to allow for individual space and time.

NotLongKindaGirthy · Answer

Yes, once a week is enough. That way you'll have plenty of time for your side guys.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Don’t want to overdo. Have some mystery in it, just have fun spending time together. Engaged is a different story though

Anonymous · Answer

He'll be masturbating to others a number of times in between.

Anonymous · Answer

So rude of you not to reply to anyone. What a fcking waste of their breath and time.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Is he really your boyfriend or a friend with benefits?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

It is not enough, I don't know, how you afford this , better one of you should change your job and living place

MinaV · Answer

Do you not like him very much? I mean, you could arrange being near him

Professor-college · Answer

Well that seems very odd do you at least stay in contact with him any other way?

Anonymous · Answer

I assume he was the one that asked you out and courted you

princeofromance · Answer

No, it is not.

Anonymous · Answer

You can't really long distance relationships are hard

rainman · Answer

It's enough for a healthy relationship.

chrissykerdock · Answer

are you addressing his sexual needs

NicholasRedone · Answer

Lol I'll say not in the slightest 😛 😋

exitseven · Answer

it is way better than twice a year.

Staximus · Answer

How often do you go to his house

Jeff51 · Answer

Maybe more than once a week

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

sure, not too much but u still see him

Godihateyou · Answer

I see your boyfriend twice a week. He is gay

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I believe it's enough.

Kate_Anderson · Answer

At least it’s not long distance

January_Sixth · Answer

Nope

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yes it is

Aldan1609 · Answer

No it's not

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