We only live about a half hour apart. We both work, but I'm done between 5 and 6 Monday - Friday, and he works landscaping, so his hours depend on the weather, but he's usually done by 6ish and he only snow plows in the winter. I've brought up multiple times that he doesn't have to limit his time with me to strictly weekends. I work from home 4 days a week, but my office is 10 minutes from his house. He's left things at my house before, and I've offered to return them the day I'm in office for work since I'll be close by, but he always says no, that he'll get them whenever he sees me next, which is usually weekends. 99% of our communication is via text. After 2.5 years, he's called me on my birthday once. I had surgery last November and it took him 4 days to come see me (of course he had to wait until a weekend). I've tried telling him a 99% virtual relationship makes me feel secluded and lonely, and he started making an effort more. . . For a couple months. Now we're back to square one and I don't know how to bring it up again.
My boyfriend of 2.5 years only sees me once a week. Is that normal?
