We do have different work schedules and I get he has his stuff I truly do, but I just don’t feel a strong connection with him cause we only text twice a day and see each other like 2 hrs a week (no phone calls). I’m I being too needy? I just have had relationships where the person wants to at least call or see me more. Do I just need more from my partner to have a healthy relationship or am I too clingy?
In a relationship everyone has needs & everyone has wants & in a relationship if your needs & wants aren’t being met people usually part ways & move on. As for your relationship you two have been together for almost two years & to be honest he has to be doing something right or you would of left him already. On the flip side why are you still with him & do you still love him? If you still love him make your relationship work like you have been doing & if you don’t love him you’ll figure it out.
If you work different schedules can he change shifts?
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I spend more time than that with my trainer, and we're not in a relationship.
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No because after 1.5 years 2 hours a week is nothing. Is it that your schedules don't allow it or another reason? Like what is his excuse for not making time to do stuff together? I think 2 hours a week is really low for time spent with a boyfriend. Thinking back to past relationships I dated a girl years ago. We were both in school and had lots of work. We still made time to hang out despite both of us persuing degrees.
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Dosent seem much time for each other. What do you do in that time normally?
I would find a way to make the schedules work better after that much time.
Oh my goodness I couldn’t handle that
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