Whats really confusing is she's more of a tomboy than a girly girl and so she has plenty of guy friends so I don't know if I'm just over analyzing things. She's also a bit awkward, as am I.
Whats really troubling is she's told me, trying to comfort me, that she never has and never will love her bf, she's just trying to have fun as her last year being a child.
I guess I'm wondering what you think her intentions are at this point.
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okay! my turn to help you! honestly, she's probably just as confused as you! she liked you y'all hung out and then this other guy asks her out and she's lonely and wants a relationship so she said yes! now she's in this relationship which is going good but she really likes you and would like to be with you but she's afraid that things won't turn out or won't be as good as it is with the other guy and if she gives him up for you and finds out that she should have stayed with him she will never be able to get him back and that freaks her out bc she finally has this good thing going on and she doesn't know what to do with what she has: you wanting to be with her and the other guy obviously being with her! so what you need to do is be perfect! do things that you'd do if you were dating her and just be all around perfect! okay? show her what it'd be like to be with you and try to be better than the other guy! ask her about her day, support her hopes and dreams, protect her but don't overprotect her! just be there for her! maybe even try little things like if she's having a rough day leave her a little note in her locker saying that she's beautiful and no matter what kinda crap she's dealing wiht, you know she will get through it and that you're always there for her! or if she had a bad day the day before, get there first thing and leave a little gift like her fave candy or something and a note! you can even sign them with a pen name! (obviously make sure she's gonna know it's you! haha) this would be a good idea if she's as uncomfortable with people placing you and her together at school! that way, she knows and you know and it can't cause any problems between y'all and ur friends because they have no idea who it is! basically, take a possible relationship (minus the courtship physicality) out for a test drive! i wish you the best! <3 go get her tiger! ;)
omg thank you that is really helpful, like that makes a lot of sense. You're actually awesome :D, best of luck with your own endeavors
lol it says too soon to make most helpful comment, but I disagree
awe! thanks babe! and don't listen to those guys! trust me! she does like you! she's just confused! ik how she feels... im in a very very similar position... aka my previous two questions! lol! just go for it and see what happens! best of luck babe! :)
Thanks so much! I owe ya one ;D