Girl rejected me and keeps texting me b/c she says she enjoys talking to me and I'm sweet, but won't even hang with me just as friends, advice needed?

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So there's this girl that I tried to be in a relationship with. I took her out once and we texted every day for months, we stayed up late, we said things no normal friends would say to each other. She convinced me to go to a concert with her and her friends. We enjoy practically all the same stuff. She is everything I want in a girl and she knows she lead me on when she finally broke the news to me she's now dating some 6'2" (I'm 6'1") football player that she was friends with when she was little. I gave up because I felt so broken, but the day she saw me after that she starts texting me again. I respond because I legitimately really enjoy talking to her. I've asked her multiple times if she thinks we could ever lead to something more and not once have I gotten a straight answer. Regardless of what I say too she keeps texting me, but (and we go to school together) when I asked her why she didn't want to hang at school she says she couldn't handle what my asshole friends and her asshole friends would say because everyone knows something happened between us. When I talk to my guy friends, they say prove myself the better man (whatever that means) and when I talk to my girl friends they say they can tell how much I really like her and they say she must care for me a lot to keep talking, etc but have no clue what to do. Her boyfriend doesn't go to school with us by the way and to me it seems her biggest issue was not knowing me that long because she's only been with people she's known for a long time. She also has a bit of trust issues.

Whats really confusing is she's more of a tomboy than a girly girl and so she has plenty of guy friends so I don't know if I'm just over analyzing things. She's also a bit awkward, as am I.

Whats really troubling is she's told me, trying to comfort me, that she never has and never will love her bf, she's just trying to have fun as her last year being a child.

I guess I'm wondering what you think her intentions are at this point.
Girl rejected me and keeps texting me b/c she says she enjoys talking to me and I'm sweet, but won't even hang with me just as friends, advice needed?
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