Why are women so unapproachable?

[ZepFan16]

Why are women so unapproachable?

[MarkyyG123]

Alright, good question.

Well, their not. Now, there is an exception to this. There are a bunch of, although rare, women who are completely against guys who approach them and/or enjoy giving them hell when they do. But, like I said, rare. In every circumstance and situation there is oppitunity, the question is and the difference between success and failure, is how you do it. I am in no way saying that every girl you approach is going to talk to you or be friendly because they aren't and if that happens, wish them a nice day and be on your way. There are numerous ways and tell tales signs of how to approach a woman and when, it's all about the timing and how you go about doing it. Get that right and it's a walk in the park... :)

[Mesonfielde]

Because you don't know how to establish a social relation with members of the female sex because you are too preoccupied with the idea that they are female and thus every step you make counts and then you end up being full of self-doubt and break and your social relation ends the moment it begins because people are like "wtf".

[Earlobelover]

Some women may be unapproachable but it's not fair of you to generalize and say all women are unapproachable!!!

The truth is that you're too CHICKEN to approach women and you never ever approached a woman in your life. So in this case, you can't say they are unapproachable because you never approached one. So, how would you even know?

Stop blaming the women when you're too chicken to even approach one!!

[ZepFan16]

They could at least smile and be more inviting instead of having that eww you're gross look

[Rcjh1987]

Sometimes were just having a bad day or we don't feel good... Try talking ask a open ended question as opposed to a yes or no

[ZepFan16]

Whats an open ended question?

[Applefan1]

@ZepFan16 An open ended question is a question that cannot be simply answered with a yes or no answer. It requires conversation such a question might include "Tell me about your interests"

[Rcjh1987]

Thank you @applefan1 for answering I went to bed

[Applefan1]

@Rcjh1987 no problem.

[XRabbitHeartX]

You're just going after the wrong kind of women clearly.

[kep79]

so, how can a guy approach you?

[XRabbitHeartX]

I'm a very straight forward person so I'd definitely appreciate a guy just coming up to me and saying hey. That's the easiest way to approach me.

[ZepFan16]

@opinionowner what if the guy is ugly like me would you get upset if he said hey?

[XRabbitHeartX]

No I wouldn't. I'm friendly to everyone.

[ZepFan16]

I dont mean to be friends but to date

[ZepFan16]

I meant hey as like to ask out on a date not hey as in i want to be friends

[James0]

Maybe; it's the way you belive women are unapproachable;

[MoonMice]

Not all are. There are plenty of approachable women.

[killerboots]

Go to parties or better yet, go to the clubs. They should be a little more approachable

[misscocobutter]

Probably because in the back of their minds they are scared u will rape them

[ZepFan16]

Thats a horrible accusation.. How could you say such a thing

[misscocobutter]

I'm sorry. I just meant if u are approaching women cold on the street or as strangers then most women will be unapproachable because they are not sure they can trust u. I didn't mean this as a reflection on u personally

[ZepFan16]

I meant approach like to meet and ask out

[misscocobutter]

Are u approaching women who don't know u, who are strangers? Or are they already familiar with u? All women have an inbuilt sort of shield to unfamiliar men, it's just self preservation. If u can break through that they will be more willing to interact with u

[ZepFan16]

Guys approach strangers all the time.. How do you explain people hooking up who are strangers

[ZepFan16]

Every one starts off as strangers

[misscocobutter]

U are missing the point but that's ok

[misscocobutter]

I am just answering why u are perceiving women to be unapproachable. If a strange man approached me I would have to build up a sense of trust with him which for me occurs over time. I don't know how other strangers pick each other up, perhaps those men have more "game" than u no offense

[ZepFan16]

How do u know they have more game than me when I've never approached a woman before

[misscocobutter]

Because a guy with game is confident and doesn't ask these sorts of questions

[ZepFan16]

Im asking cuz im trying to learn

[Maazin]

You were trying to give sarcastic response but not many understood your tone !!

[misscocobutter]

Again u are missing the point. U won't learn because u don't listen to people who know what they are talking about

[cl_517]

maybe it's the way you aproach them

[ZepFan16]

I've never approached a woman before.. They always look mad

[cl_517]

then you're meeting the wrong kind of women

[ZepFan16]

From my experience they only want to be approached by attractive men

[misscocobutter]

U are defeated by your attitude

[ZepFan16]

@misscocobutter what attitude?