How shallow are girls that use tinder?

[justaregularguyy]

Is it just me or is this app only for incredibly shallow people? I can't even get a match after months of use and I'm swiping so many girls, not even being ultra picky..

[jokery56]

tinder is extremely shallow, its based off looks only and you dont see the same person twice. so if all the ladies in your location swiped no for you then its gonna look that way. so your best off talking to someone in person bro. try changing your appearance a bit and maybe putting something funny or sweet in the description part of tinder. best of luck

[justaregularguyy]

Well what's ugly? I don't know why I'm not good enough for girls. They reject me irl too..

[jokery56]

dude ignore those girls and talk to women in person. it will be worth it i promise you

[Axel101]

Lol, the purpose of Tinder is to slide people on appearance.. and here you are complaining there are shallow people on Tinder haha. It's like complaining at McDonalds for selling junkfood..

[justaregularguyy]

Okay so why is my appearance not good enough?

[Axel101]

Nah, maybe your standards are to high. Let's be real here, guys have it way better on dating apps. If you are seriously considering online dating (not hooking up) then I wouldn't recommend Tinder because even if you get a few matches you like then 9/10 will not respond or aren't interested in a serious relationship.

[justaregularguyy]

Why would my standards be too high if I'm not ugly?

[Axel101]

Because girls have a lot more choice when they are online dating then guys.. So you have less chance.

[justaregularguyy]

Why would I have less of a chance? Why am I not good enough for their choice? Again, I've swiped hundreds. Why hasn't even just one fancied me back?

[Anonymous]

Omg shut up! Tinder is for shallow people that's it. It's just a pic, what kind of people did you expect to meet? Every single person on there is there for hotness, just because you're getting desperate, don't make you any better.

[justaregularguyy]

Well why am I not hot enough to be considered by any of the girls on there?

[Opinion Owner]

From the pic you have up, you're hot. I don't know what kinda pics you have on there. Either way, you're not ugly. But you can't complain about shallowness on a thing made just for that reason. It wasn't made to match personalities or whatever.

[justaregularguyy]

I'm not saying it's bad it just seems weird since I think I'm decent enough that I've never had a match, you know. I'm questioning how realistic that app is and I wouldn't use it if I had success in real life haha. Thanks for the compliment. I hope I find more girls like you.

[Opinion Owner]

Yea some people are fake on there to. It's just a weird app all round to be honest. Don't know why people still use it. Also, lots of my guy friends have a lot more luck on sites that aren't really meant for hookups, just normal social networks like how MySpace used to be. Guys I know get tons of girls from sites like that.

[Rcjh1987]

That's the app based on picture right? It's all based on looks. . People aren't getting a fair judgment. What about their personality their likes doesn't that matter too?

[aamy811]

Honey everything about tinder is shallow. Basically you just look for a cute profile pick and hope to get matched up, that's about as shallow as it gets

[justaregularguyy]

Well why isn't my profile pic cute enough? It's the same as this one

[aamy811]

I don't know what other girls are thinking, and if your worried about your profile pic, then you know it's been shallow since the beginning

[justaregularguyy]

Well what do you think? I thought my profile pic was good :(

[aamy811]

Of say its good, it's not awful or anything

[JackKerouac77]

It happens.

And every time you swipe, IAC/InterActiveCorp (developers of tinder) get a fraction of a penny from advertising revenue/data collection. Combine that with millions of users and they've got quite deep pockets.

So why not just take a walk, talk to somebody real and stop giving them your change indirectly?

[musicbrain5]

Tinder encourages shallowness since it's pretty much just an app for hookups. Everyone who uses it is shallow in some way.

[justaregularguyy]

Well then what makes me not good enough?

[musicbrain5]

I have no idea. You'd have to ask the girls who are skipping over you.

[justaregularguyy]

I'm not able to do that so I ask here. I just wish I could understand why I'm so undesirable to girls :/

[zorro8888]

Are you in a college environment responses are higher there @asker

[justaregularguyy]

Yes, I am

[musicbrain5]

On Tinder, there's only a picture to judge the other person by, so maybe the particular picture you uploaded is not a good one?

[justaregularguyy]

I think it's my best picture of me :(

[Cafecita]

Not at all. If they look shallow, they might be, there's a ton of decent girls who are just looking to meet a guy. Maybe if you didn't swipe left so often and got to know them, you'd see that.

[justaregularguyy]

I swipe right for so many girls though! It's that I don't get swiped back :(

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

I'd imagine on there people are looking for the most attractive people they can find? Doesn't mean you're ugly, but they are probably looking for the best possible ones to hook up with

[justaregularguyy]

Well I find it messed up that out of the hundreds of girls I swiped, not even one of then thought I was cute enough?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't have a tinder so tell me, what else is on the profile

[justaregularguyy]

It's my interests and my main pic is the same for this site. I also have a pic with my cat and a shirtless pic of me in the ocean at the beach. I also have a smiling pic. I don't know what I'm doing wrong!

[Opinion Owner]

maybe they're getting bad vibes from the pictures or the way you worded your interests puts them off. You aren't ugly by any means.

[justaregularguyy]

Yeah I don't get it!

[Opinion Owner]

Tinder probably isn't the place for a real relationship anyway, yeah I know it happns for some but not most

[Anonymous]

They may not even be using Tinder anymore. Most people I know (younger friends) just downloaded it to see what it was all about and ignore it.

[justaregularguyy]

You can actually see how active they are because it says the last time they logged in. And most are fairly active..

[Anonymous]

If you can't handle it, don't have an account there.

[justaregularguyy]

I didn't say I can't handle it. Im just wondering why I'm not good enough.

[Opinion Owner]

Because girls only have a picture to judge from. When they get to choose like that, they think they are hot shit, and that they can get any guy they want. Therefore they only choose they hottest (or the ones with the best filtered pictures)

[justaregularguyy]

So why am I not hot enough for even just a small portion of them?

[Opinion Owner]

Is it you in your picture?

[justaregularguyy]

Yes.

[Opinion Owner]

Then I don't get it. You are really hot. Did you write something that could be off putting, or intimidating?

[Anonymous]

I met my boyfriend on there. Pretty sure I'm not shallow lol

[justaregularguyy]

So maybe I'm just not good looking enough then :/

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not going to lie it's a shallow app. Tons of shallow chicks on there. You shouldn't use it.

[larry69]

Face it women can have sex easier than a man can.. just fact

[justaregularguyy]

So why don't any want me? Why don't I have sex appeal?

[larry69]

It's the same for me. I have always been single and I am 45

[Anonymous]

Everyone who uses it is shallow. All you do is swipe right the person you find attractive and swipe left the not-so-attractive ones.

[justaregularguyy]

So why am I not so attractive to girls?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know either.

[justaregularguyy]

I feel really weird and hopeless about this, like I'm just not what they want. I don't know what to do anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't sweat it. Quit that app.

[justaregularguyy]

I've friend everything else. It's not just this all. Girls irl ignore me also.

[Athleticbroo]

Dude. Craiglist works wayy better than tinder if talkin about chicks

[Anonymous]

Well that's girls in general not just tinder

[justaregularguyy]

Tell me about It._.

[Klaatu51]

not ALL girls