How shallow and picky are girls?

[Anonymous]

Especially modern women

[ManOnFire]

In all honesty, I think their shallowness and "pickiness" is worse than what men's is. Them being "picky" is also not really any kind of conscientious decision-making with choosing a man but is often superficial expectation in men, and this is usually the case with your more well-to-do women or college-type girls, who have cliche Wants in a guy.

A lot of these women who also claim having "standards" or defend being picky are often the same ones who will have sex with badasses, or try to get one anyway, who are less educated, disrespectful, living cavalier lifestyles, or look like garbage.

No doubt, with physical matters, men can be shallow, but I think women's shallowness and being "picky" is on a different level of pigheadedness.

[OpenWine]

I know some butterface dude picking up the prettiest girls around all the time. dude is the definition of a faggot he even came to our workplace just to have me watch porn with him

[ManOnFire]

@OpenWine I actually know a guy like that at my own job too.

[Bandit74]

Probably more picky than men are yet somehow men are the one's who get stuck with the reputation of being shallow and having unrealistic standards.

[SoloTraveler]

Shallow and picky have different realizations as far as relationships are concerned.


Any person (male or female) who’s only after looks is shallow unless their solo goal of being with someone is physical intimacy, then seriously who would blame them?
Those people are not seeking a companion, a partner, or a mature relationship, all what they want is a body and they get what they seek. A person whose ultimate goal is to sleep around has shallow goals and thus it isn’t a surprise if they show shallow attitudes to achieve their shallow objectives.



As for the pickiness, it’s rooted in our biology; it’s natural selection.
If I’m good looking, compassionate, kind to others and/or at least never deliberately harm anyone, with excellent education, wonderful job, positive approach to life and society, good to be around, have never smoked or drunk, respectful, friendly, and open to all peaceful people around the globe regardless of their faith, race, gender, and orientation, and I am never after money, fame, or only looks in a partner, but I am still picky because I want someone who’s compatible with me.


I can’t be with someone who’s racist or misogynist or drink heavily, or is known for messing around, or with whom I have no shared interests at all etc. Why would that be a problem? Being picky is good because it saves you from being with the wrong person.

[Asker]

It could limit you too. I'm starting to wish i was something other than human. Humans are gross

[SoloTraveler]

Dude, don’t be that pessimistic. There’re millions of women who can be just perfect for you.

As for me, it may seem that I’m limiting myself, but I’m not. Yes, I have my standards in terms of compatibility, but I’m not limiting myself to people of my same country, etc. I’ve learned that from my travels. The world is huge, so why we would limit ourselves? There are around 3.9 billion males and around 3.8 billion females in the world. Yes, there are millions who are already in a relationship and millions who have different orientation than ours, and millions who are not within our age limit, and millions with whom we have no compatibility, but still there’re millions and millions of people among whom there could be our “one”. Haha. I travel a lot and I have met people from different backgrounds, maybe that’s why I’ve developed such approach to life.

[Asker]

I took the red pill and just see things for how they really are. Love and relationships are built on biological reasons. Love is a trick to get people to reproduce to keep the human race surviving. That's how i see it now

[MzAsh]

Most women I know aren’t nearly as selective as they should be. At least, they are selective about the wrong things. They care too much about looks, status, and money when they need to be qualifying a man on their behavior, attitude, and character.

[Asker]

I highly disagree about the not being selective. They very much are selective

[MzAsh]

So why do so many women end up with poorly behaved men?

[Asker]

Because he's good looking but his personality is shit so he bounces at the last minute

[MzAsh]

Yeah. And that’s another thing that women need to vet men more harshly in, personality.

[Reaperbot666]

depends on the girl.

however with the modern internet and online dating culture. more girls are noticing they have many more options. where even an average looking girl can have dozens of guys willing to sleep with them. but typically only a handful of those guys. want a legit exclusive relationship with the girl in question.

so if she just wants to ride the wave of free or easy meals and sex. during her best years "18-29" without settling down she has that options to do so. however after she hits "the wall" typically between 30-40 for most girls. is where her market value starts to go away. so that is when many of them try to find someone to marry. but at that point only guys who are willing to marry her are the simps and beta males.

plus in most cases she'll have a few kids. by one or more guys by the time she hits "the wall". so that is another reason why many guys tap out on her and go for a younger girl.

[Anonymous]

Humans are biologically picky, it is in order for them to pick a mate. Often argued that this is for reproduction, but also picking mates that assist in giving the highest survival to you... we are animals, and this is what all of then do.

That being said shallow is not the same thing, shallow is valuing societal possitive traits higher and using them to determine the building blocks for attraction.

With all that in mind, assuming the majority of women are shallow is not going to help you get a date...

[6suejsjsj]

Of course it helps. It helps you realize that women find shallow things attractive and might get you to ourselves these shallow things.

[Opinion Owner]

@6suejsjsj well if it helps you get a date, good luck to you... but not all women value the same factors. I for one value a person's natural charisma, look at whether they show compassion, show drive and whether we have anything in common. From this I can see, a) if the person and I would get along b) whether they have passion towards their own goals and c) whether we would make a possitive and strong partnership

[sagevalentineee]

What are you asking? Are you asking in terms of their selection of men?

In that case I think we're both 'shallow and picky' it's not secret men like a pretty girl and women like attractive men too. Anyone who insists they choose solely based on personality is a bit of a liar, that's not really how sexuality works. 95% of people evaluate each other on their sexual worth. And that's not something to be ashamed of, it's very natural, we are animals after all.

[Asker]

And the rest are outcast to society. I wish i wasn't human anymore. Humans disgust me & im just sad i have to be a part of a disgusting species

[Asker]

Think we're past due for extinction

[sagevalentineee]

Well, no offence, but that's too bad then. Some people have a delusion that we are meant to be purer than that and have some kind of mental ascension. The truth is we are visceral animals, and the sooner you accept the easier life will be.

[Asker]

Do you agree that we're evil to some extent?

[Asker]

And i hate to admit to this because i really don't want to associate myself with these guys but i do agree with a lot of things incels say about women and dating

[sagevalentineee]

What? But you're exactly like that too. The same men that claim women are shallow are pretty shallow themselves. We all judge each other based on appearances

[Asker]

I've been interested in all kinds of women. Even girls who weren't that great looking but i liked them for their personality and other traits so don't call me a hypocrite

[ztrok]

My main gripe with women's standards is the over focus on genetics like height and that's they usually expect something exceedingly rare yet they're some average pudgy girl who's slept with other guys before.

Her being a healthy weight doesn't mean she's in the level of a guys who's 6ft tall, makes six figures, has an assortment of interests, and somehow turns down every girls in his league for you.


It's definitely not every girl but some admit to absolutely ridiculous standards no human male can meet within 100 miles

[Anonymous]

I've known picky girls. One of my fiance's friends text her that she was genuinely considering breaking it off with her boyfriend because his dick didn't look big enough.

I've had a girl not want to pursue a relationship because she was "sexually but not emotionally attracted" to me.

But I know I've been equally picky, I went through a phase of liking a girl in the same way as Ted from HIMYM, the whole "yeah this girl is amazing, but she isn't Robin" no matter how great another girl was I couldnt like her because she wasn't the specific girl I wanted

[KeziL]

It depends what they want. If they're looking for a trophy boyfriend, probably pretty shallow and picky. If they're looking for someone they actually love and want to marry and build a life with, they're looking for the right person for them, no matter who that may be.

[Danny_dan92]

I’m not gonna generalize here


But they can be VERY picky.


I’ve seen girls that want


Tall


Handsome


Rich


Men.


When they


Are short af without heels


Ugly af without makeup


And broke af themselves

[AdithyaR]

Being picky and being shallow are two different things.

If one only dates someone cause they look like a model, then that's shallow.

Choosing to not date someone with a substance addiction or any unhealthy behaviour can be seen as picky.

[FatherJack]

Ironically it is mainly the fault of thirsty , simp men , inflating the egos of mediocre women to colossal proportions , resulting in them believing they are " goddesses " .

[Asker]

Bro i wish i would have given you helpful opinion

[Avicenna]

To a significant extent, this is linked to a woman's age. When she is a young adult, she is pretty much universally attractive, but by the time she gets to my age, she usually has different priorities and tends to be pickier about different things, although I can confirm that women in their 50s do still care about a guy's looks.

[MannMitAntworten]

I get the impression it is only a small fraction of women who lean towards the shallow end of the spectrum. Especially in seeing what some women settle for. Which is probably equally true of a small fraction of men considering seeing what I see some men settle for. As for being “picky”, in a lot of ways I think both sexes should probably be more “selective” and self aware so as not to simply settle as larger fraction seems to do.

[Daniel3035]

These two videos will tell you all you need out of 100 they are 10,000. These girls have equality and more power and they don't know how to use it responsibly nowadays.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/IU7vwi0Oodkhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/JlHD3PfZd2M

[Anonymous]

Long story short, that's all because of supply and demand.

If you or somebody else is looking for a for a solution, I suggest you look for women outside the Western hemisphere in my humble opinion.

I personally married a woman from my home country... A place where not every single woman is literally lusted after and chased by hundreds of horny 6ft+ attractive men... Which makes dating skewed for the average man who has average things to offer (for an average or below average woman).

I love my wife to the moon and back and she loves me too. My point is; she wasn't exposed to so many options to become shallow. A fate that's inevitable for the most part.

Note that:
. I consider myself to be average looking.
. I'm 5'11" but barefoot.
. I have a PhD.
. I'm a very monogamous person, never bother with casual sex or hookups.

Tldr; Travel more and I'm sure you'll find love. Best of luck anyway mate.

[FictionalCharacter]

a lot. Got to find the right clothes that could fit me and boost my confidence level. As for activities, where i go outside and have fun and not do heavy labor work that would exhaust me.

Gotta love life.

[Asker]

Did you read my question right?

[FictionalCharacter]

Yes.

[Cherokeehp]

I’m pretty picky. I think I’m pretty and I think I have a lovely personality. I’m very desired by dudes, and so I have to choose carefully. I only date handsome dudes who treat me well. Call me shallow if you want, but I refuse to date someone I’m not attracted to. Some people argue whether looks or personality are more important, but I want guy with both and I’m not settling for less. Fortunately my boyfriend is a sweetheart and I think he’s cute.

[Asker]

You're like that because of your brain. Your brain desires good looks. But girls think guys are ugly when I've seen the dudes and they're not bad looking at all. But girls think guys have to be models. And on top of that girls overrate themselves. Average girls thinking they're hot shit because they get some attention. It's like relax girl. You're average and nothing special

[Cherokeehp]

I don’t think all dudes are ugly, and I think most women would agree with me. We don’t think men have to be models.

[Asker]

Yeah most of you do. They did a study and found that only 20% of men out of 100 are attractive while the other 80% are ugly. Girls have the unrealistic standards here

[Cherokeehp]

If you say so.

[Asker]

Facts say so not me

[Asker]

And close observations

[Yads_Is_Back]

@Cherokeehp You're right. BE PROUD of it 👍 Not our fault men are up for any pussy who crosses them. We got the standards, girl 👌

[Cherokeehp]

@Yads_Is_Back men really get upset that women have standards.

[Asker]

Unrealistic standards

[Cherokeehp]

Yes because a moderately attractive man with a pleasant personality is sooooooooooooo unrealistic.

[Asker]

No it's that you guys need the guy to be a model or extremely good looking. We didn't choose our genetics. Trust if every could choose their genetics, we all would want to have model like genes

[Cherokeehp]

If you say so dude

[Asker]

Facts say so

[Cherokeehp]

Okey dokey.

[ranger3456]

Its been proven that 80% of women chase the top 10% of men.

Women are shallow by far.

[Asker]

I agree man

[BradFlipK]

No girl is going to answer this questuon honestly. At best, you'll get half-truths

[modelUN242]

Nothing wrong with being picky, that's how we select for the best genes to pass onto our offspring. Also, I'm not going to settle for a guy who's unemployed, a NEET, playing video games all day.

[Asker]

Who said they want you? And i feel people just use the genes things as an excuse

[modelUN242]

Lol I not saying I'm the best, I'm just saying that in our nature. It's not an excuse, look at animals, they do the same.

[modelUN242]

But you can still attract women without looks necessarily, confidence can also help. It really depends on the situation, everyone is different, but generally speaking, looks are usually what matters, I mean look at dating sites. You vet someone automatically if they have a physical deformity, man or woman. Men are also picky as well, especially if they're at the top.

[Asker]

This just reinforces the belief that the black pill is true to an extent

[Asker]

And guys are less picky though. We're more forgiving when it comes to looks

[modelUN242]

Do you personally have problems with girls being picky?

[Asker]

No but i just don't want to hear how guys are shallow or picky when girls are more

[brennanhuff]

well nothing wrong with being picky, but it does seem that women overrate themselves even more often than men. Sure there are fat, ugly or average looking dudes who will body shame women , which there is nothing wrong with them. They just don't have supermodel like body or looks, but such dudes will call them fat or ugly or something, when these dudes are chubby and nobody would touch them with a ten foot pole. But like you brought up with dating sites. There are A LOT of women who may be "cute" but they sure aren't dimes, but they will hardly have anything written but expect a man to look like jimmy garropolo and be the most interesting, funny, charming man in the world with his profile, meanwhile she shows little value herself. Or some who do write, they really aren't funny or that great. They just write what they like, which tons of other good looking guys can do the same thing, but would get swiped past. I get it, it's because women can, especially pretty women, but they kind of aren't helping themselves in the argument as far as being upset with men valuing women for their bodies and looks, when that's the only thing they are providing with such basic personality traits show, but expecting the wittiest remarks from the man, when she doesn't offer that zestful personality back

[Anonymous]

Being picky, as in having a certain standard, is a good thing. It doesn't mean a woman is shallow, only that she values herself not to settle for any random dick that points in her direction. Of course there will always be the angry neckbeard-nice guys who use the excuse of women being "shallow" to justify why girls don't like them.

[Asker]

But some are really redicilous and have insane standards or think most guys are ugly. And to be honest a lot of girls flatter themselves too much and think they're hot. It's like calm down you're not anything special. Just average at best

[Opinion Owner]

Then common sense says don't go for that kind of girl. On a side note, apparently I triggered a few neckbeards on here who think they are entitled to any woman they want, lol

[Hunter7754]

Only women are allowed to have standards. Men are shamed for having standards

[Opinion Owner]

That's not true. Men have just as much right to have standards. It's when these standards become unrealistic it becomes narcissistic. Just like there are shallow women, there are shallow men.

[Asker]

But shallow women are more allowed to be shallow. Girls are becoming the more shallow ones

[Hunter7754]

Define an unrealistic standard?

[Anonymous]

Go to 2:08 in the first one and enjoy the second one. Explains everything.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/hRVOOwFNp5Uhttps://www.youtube.com/embed/wlb-HWpDDx0

[CT_CD]

[Browneye57]

It is ALWAYS about the FEELZ.
And you better have your A-game. ;)

Love can't start 'till attraction does, and then there needs to be a conversation.
So bone up on those social skills as well.

[Yads_Is_Back]

^ Right. Here's a guy who probably got a lot of sugar mommas lol

[Browneye57]

@Yads_Is_Back - You mean older women than I? Uh, no. Not since I was 19 - I went with a 22 for a bit, she fucked like a minx. But also boring AF. So I dumped her for a younger prettier girl.

[Yads_Is_Back]

My bad, I misworded. I meant younger women :P

[Browneye57]

@Yads_Is_Back - Oh, you mean I'm the sugar-daddy. No, never done that either, but might be open to it.
But really, I think a young woman should have more self-respect. Fucking an old guy for money? Just seems disrespectful to one's self. OTOH, maybe it's just a way to get ahead.

It is well accepted that women will do sex for money - it's just a matter of negotiating how much. Even in a romantic or marriage type proposal, she's looking for the best provider, someone that can support her and the 84 children she wants to have with him, in the lifestyle to which she is accustomed.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Yeah. I meant it as a compliment, a way of saying “this guy knows what he’s talking about.”

[Browneye57]

@Yads_Is_Back - Thank you. Yes, an entire lifetime of knowledge and experience. Surely there's something to learn here on GAG, right? :)

[Unit1]

All you need to look at is 80% of the women chasing the top 20% of the men.

[G3tAClue]

I’m very picky but I usually judge a guy by his attitude and observe his behavior from a far before I decide if he’s worth my time.

[CuteNerd9]

Many of the women I know are quite picky and shallow, but so are men. I feel like many people these days have their priorities mixed up.

[amyba]

Just as shallow and picky as men... but men fuck anything that walks so they using the girl for sex... at least women don't lead anyone on she ain't attractioned to a guy she won't sleep with him.

[Asker]

But men are open about being shallow. And since we'll have sex with any girl, i guess that makes girls just a little more picky or shallow

[kencu67]

Speak for yourselves, fellas! Epic generalizing here)

[gotc147]

Women most definitely will lead men on.

[amyba]

And you are being a hypocrite because you are generalising woman

[amyba]

No woman have standards they don't just let any dick inside her most women have to get to know the guy and be attracting to him... men shoving their dicks in every vagina and asshole they see. That doesn't make them any better than woman. I prefer to be shallow and picky than to let anyone inside me God knows where they have been.

[Asker]

At least you're honest with yourself that you're shallow

[amyba]

Ha! Attraction is important in a relationship...

[Asker]

Yeah but if it is, then why do people say that looks are subjective bullshit? If attraction matters & you only want good looking or model type dudes, why is the looks are subjective thing always thrown out there?

[Anonymous]

You can't be expecting these women to tell you the truth!!! Women have way too much invested in the double standard they enjoy and the lie that men are the shallow ones despite the well-known truth that women (even fat ugly women) reject 95% of men who approach them. Not to mention the truth that while women claim they look for kindness, personality, and a sense of humor, they usually end up crying how the obvious asshole pretty boy mistreated them.

[Nicolette777]

As shallow and picky as guys... Only difference is that we voice is

[Asker]

Feel like guys are less shallow though. We're more forgiving when it comes to looke

[Asker]

Looks

[KupKakes]

@Asker You absolutely aren’t. Maybe you as an individual, but women can give you a more accurate take on guys, as we are the ones who have experiences with them. Not you.

[Asker]

@KupKakes Then explain why women rate most men ugly on dating apps and only 5% of men are the most attractive while men rate wonen pretty average to above average?

[KupKakes]

because women take care of themselves and make 200% more effort to look good. men don’t.

[Asker]

@KupKakes If that was the case there wouldn't be a body positivity movement for women now would there 🙃

[KupKakes]

damn just saw this 😂
@Asker Yes there would because there’s emphasis on women’s looks in society still.

[Asker]

@KupKakes Yet male body shaming is acceptable. Hypocrisy from body positivity movement

[KupKakes]

Lol who said it was acceptable? What are you on?

[Asker]

@KupKakes Society's actions say it's okay. Girls are put on a pedestal yet these are the same ones that make fun of overweight men

[KupKakes]

No. No one said it was okay, you literally just made that up and took that out of your ass.

Girls are put on a pedestal? How exactly?

[Asker]

@KupKakes Ironically you have your head up yours. Go look at how mainstream media glorifies overweight women and tell me if they do the same for men

[EyesOfGod]

The bitches that we hear about who are in their late 30's early 40's who ask where are all the real men are the only ones that annoy me.

[Anonymous]

Men see two ounces of fat and they immediately discard the girl. No one says anything.


Women see a bad attitude and they’re called shallow.


Please. We all know who the shallow ones are. Tip: It’s not women.

[Zeus_66]

Being picky or shallow aren't based on gender. They're based on personality traits. Not all women are picky or shallow. Just like not all men are picky and shallow.

[Hunter7754]

They're pretty picky and shallow tbh. But its whatever, people are allowed to like what they like

[rienna888]

umm im extremely picky because i'm a perfectionist... it's really bad I only fall in love with reallycute guys

[Asker]

I'm not mad or bitter about it. Your brain just desires good looks so it's scoping out for that

[beautifulllll]

I was very picky before my marriage even for little but after being married I Never go shopping I don't know why everything my husband buys even my undergarments

[scott04sa22]

The girls where I live are very picky and very shallow.

[nodnol32]

Not everyone is shallow. From my observation, girls tend to become less picky over time. My girlfriend was a bit picky initially but now she isn't.

[stickytoes]

Some are picky, others not so much. Of course girls are shallow... just like everyone is to some extent.

[Asker]

Just like we all have a little evil in us to an extent

[Anonymous]

I’m extremely picky. Doesn’t make me shallow at all

[Asker]

It does but there's nothing wrong with that

[Opinion Owner]

How does it make me shallow? I’m not choosing puppies out of a litter. It takes a while to know someone, their true intent. Feelings and interest and love and have to be reciprocated. Until I find someone that I care about so much that I want the best for them even if they don’t end up with me, that’s love. And I don’t always feel that way about people. Also, ever heard of the honey moon phase? Yeah, not trying to be with someone when it’s only physical

[Asker]

If we're going by the very definition, caring about looks is shallow but there's nothing wrong with since that's just how the human brain works. It cares about looks

[Opinion Owner]

I mean if he’s overweight with no intention of getting himself into shape and actually caring about his health, I can’t look past that. I can look past height.. I’m biologically programmed to be drawn to people who look more like me... never been attracted to any other ethnicity other than my own which confirms that. I think being picky also means you’ve experienced enough to know who you don’t want to spend your time with. So! That narrows that down.

[Asker]

Damn we're like robots with just guts and organs. Thr human brain needs a lot of things

[Opinion Owner]

Fine, I’ll just bow down to every single guy that crosses my path and worship the ground he walks on. He has a penis he’s still breathing there’s 350 days in a year... I live in the city... one new guy a day... shall keep ya tears at bay

[Opinion Owner]

You know, there are girls who have lower standards... they won’t test you nor make you wait. Stop complaint, and happy fishing ✌🏼😎

[Asker]

Why do you think so many mass shootings happen?

[Asker]

It has nothing to do with being entitled. Hell most guys don't feel entitled but the media blows everything out of proportion. It helps to just vent

[_SOARER]

If you listen to women they are only shallow and picky now because men failed at being Men.
Why would they value us? if we keep failing lmao.

[DiscomfortZone]

Well, it depends. The lower the number of men giving them cheap attention gets - the less shallow they tend to become.

[Brendan824]

As shallow and picky as men we might be different but there's a lot more similarities than people think

[queers]

I mean by definition, if you're asking about ALL girls, they are of average shallowness and pickiness :O

[Asker]

So i was right?

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

Very shallow, absolutely have no depth at all. Zero girth.

[An_Impulse]

they keep getting into ship with the cheating cunts and cry about getting cheated...

[Liam_Hayden]

Like all things of this nature, it depends upon the individual.

[Anonymous]

If you visit hell, it would make you feel better compared to living among such modern girls.

[Jacked_Jones]

looks dont matter, woman is all about money saftey status.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You don't wanna know what I think. Now look sad and say doh

[robocop666]

very look at this tv show their brutal

https://www.youtube.com/embed/18Cf-DdVuVA

[Anonymous]

Who’s asking the question right now? An incel? Lmfao at this

[Yads_Is_Back]

You already know it lol

[6suejsjsj]

Are you an incel? LMFAO at this.

[Asker]

Do you guys like to make fun of incels?

[GlitterFairy16]

Lol i don't get guys on here one second were cheating sluts and the next were shallow and picky

[Asker]

Are you okay?

[GlitterFairy16]

Yes im fine. Its not a personal attack against you, i know your not complaining, just asking a question but im just so fed up with the assumption but all women either are shallow and picky or were cheating and sleeping with everyone. It's like we can't do anything right. All women are different and a lot of men on here are so quick to paint women with the same brush after one bad experience.

[Asker]

Try over 70 bad experiences and you'll feel differently. Girls have a selection of guys to choose from while guys have to go on missions to find a girl who's interested

[cvmslayer]

Maybe you’re just unattractive, you’re not truly blackpilled yet but this site will set you straight. (Incels. co)

[6suejsjsj]

@cvmslayer wtf are you even talking about? It that satire? So it seems like women are shallow.

[GlitterFairy16]

Maybe if you've had over 70 bad experiences it's you thats the issue and not just women

[Asker]

Of those women could just really have standards and expect models to be approaching them

[GlitterFairy16]

I think it's probably because you would rather blame women for your issues then face up to it and take some responsibility to better yourself. I know plenty of women and men, all different bodies, races, backgrounds etc who are im perfectly happy relationships.

Finding love has nothing to do with how you look if its ture love. I know girls who are models dating chubby short guys and when people ask what they like about them they say stuff like "he makes me laugh", he treats me so good" etc. Girls don't care about looks unless you are fucking Jabba the Hutt trying to go after Naomi Campbell.

Sounds more like you are more focused on the superficial things than the women are really.

[Asker]

We could argue true love between two people doesn't exist since that love will always be conditional. And yeah maybe im the problem. But am i 100% the problem here? Do a lot of women make it hard for men in the dating scene? And a lot of women are focused on superficial things & there's a reason there's more single men than women in the world

[GlitterFairy16]

How is it logical that there's more single women then men out there... Have we all just became lesbians then?

[Asker]

Because they did a study and showed that there are more single men in the world? And 9 times of 10, it's going to be easier for women to get in a relationship

[Anonymous]

just as much as guys are.

[Asker]

Guys are more open about it though

[iFarted]

As shallow and picky as anonymous guys.

[DonCachondo]

No more shallow and picky than I am! ;)

[Yads_Is_Back]

BE PROUD

[Jack9949]

Its definitely not uncommon.

[In_Trance]

some are; some aren't

[Yads_Is_Back]

You make it sound like being picky is a bad thing.

[Yads_Is_Back]

WHY ARE MEN SO DESPERATE?
You can see it either way lol

[Yads_Is_Back]

by the way, Asker, to clarify the difference: Shallow would be if she's picky to only give a chance to the high-standard guys, regardless of love and excluding its potential. So, like, if it's just for being casual it's kind of understandable to be picky and not really shallow. But if she's going for love then she should go for just that, because I know from first-hand experience that you can end up falling in love with someone who would have never met your standards. That's when you don't be shallow and you let that wall down and give love a chance. However, not everybody goes for love; nowadays lots more people go for casual relationships just for fun and to have a thrill in life. Kinda depends on what she's looking for

[Asker]

I'm disgusted to be human. Humans are a disease and i think it's time for that killer asteroid to come already.

[brennanhuff]

yeah that;s if she's a catch herself. It's annoying when people overrate themselves, guys and girls can do that. But there are a decent number of women who may be pretty, but while they may think they have cute personalities, it';s rather dull. But they expect or have the standard of wanting, the tall, handsome, but more importantly really witty, funny, smart, charming guy and shows it... while she lacks that herself ha. My opinion is, nothing wrong to want that IF you have those qualities yourself. If you're demanding that, but only have your looks going for you and a mediocre personality, than you are too picky. Girls can get guys even if they lack that and such guys can be all that, but it's not really so much that the women are a catch to such guys, but just how thirsty guys are and will fuck women they simply find pretty. It might be a reason why such girls may have a hard time finding such top man to want to have them as a girlfriend though

[Yads_Is_Back]

@brennanhuff Very true and 100% agreed. Being a hypocrite about it makes it ridiculous

[Asker]

How am i being a hypocrite?

[Yads_Is_Back]

You’re not. I was referring to his post about women who are like a 4 thinking they’re a 9 so asking for a 10. He has a point.

[Asker]

a lot of girls who are 6's think they're 8s or 9s. The attention they get goes to their heads

[brennanhuff]

well it's not just a girl being unattractive or average though as far as looks and body. you said 4 thinking they are a 9 and asking for a 10. Unless you meant overall. What I'm talking about is girls who are otherwise "pretty or cute", physically attractive, but not 10s, They however are wanting men that are like 10s not just by looks, but 10s on personality, talent, intelligence, humor, charm. If we rate those like we do looks, then men who are like top 10 or complete package across the board. But these women may be pretty, but not models, and they are 5's on all the other traits, with humor, wit, etc, but think they are 10s there. However, everyone else and their grandma can see these women have rather basic personalities, but want handsome men with super charming, intriguing personalities, when the women lack that themselves big time.

[brennanhuff]

Pretty much, I don't give a fuck if you're hot, but you're personality is dull. I will still think you're overrating yourself if you want all of what I said, but lack all the other qualities other than looks. I'll be like you're asking that from me? Why do I have to take such effort and time to be so amazingly witty when you got some boring ass profile lol, I know I'm witty and fun, but you have to select me first and then you find out. I just am not a joke teller and have to warm up a little, but can do so quick depending on who it is and then comes some unadulterated wit coming at ya ha ;)

[Yads_Is_Back]

@brennanhuff That’s good of you! The thing is, most guys aren’t smart like you in that way. They’ll take a woman just because she’s a woman or ignore the things you just mentioned, then they wonder women are so stuck up. They’ve let them take advantage of the little or no standards. You’re right. If every guy had the standards you just said you have, women wouldn’t be able to get by with it so much. Teach your fellow guys, my friend. You have your head on your shoulders.

[brennanhuff]

Well I guess it’s knowing you’re value. Pardon my French, but I know I’m a fucking catch. If a girl wants me to spend the time to be Ultra entertaining when I feel I don’t need to prove that. Just talk to me for a few minutes , and you’ll see how fun and witty I am ;). But she doesn’t have the personality herself. It’s like ok I got the personality now your turn back.

[brennanhuff]

And even tho I’m not zoolander but I’m apparently fairly handsome too. Enough so that I’ve been designated “cute guy” at places I’ve worked at by women despite many other men working there. Had a girl co worker with a crazy crush on me (I wasn’t physically attracted to her). This is not good she did this, part of me as not thrilled she’d make something up and tell other girls. I guess it bothered me less because they didn’t believe it. But she fricking told other girl workers? That she and I had sex lol, oh man, wtf. I know because the girls wouid keep looking at me with a look of curiosity until one day they told me and i said no and the found it amusing but felt quite sure i didn’t or would have. But I guess they had to find out for sure. But you don’t say that stuff unless you know or feel your peers feel the person you like is hot as well. It was interesting because that’s something boys would do to get praise I never thought a girl wouid.. I was simultaneously like annoyed she did that but did kinda feel flattered too ha

[angeliquedevereux2]

Not very

[Asker]

a lot still are though. Compared to guys, women are just a liitle more shallow

[angeliquedevereux2]

Lol someone hurt you

[Asker]

The observations hurt me. And that's such a cliche response. Have anything better to come up with?

[angeliquedevereux2]

Thats a butthurt thought that all women are shallow. Telltale sign that you got rejected by a girl and are still pissed

[Asker]

I've been rejected more than 80 times. But i just see things for how they truly are now.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I've been rejected a million times too bruv. But it's a part of life. Don't generalise or spread your clearly botched voice. It's just stupid.

[Asker]

You'll find soneone though. Maybe there were guys who liked you but you didn't like them back. You still had people interested. Me, i never have.

[angeliquedevereux2]

You'll find someone though. Maybe there were girls who liked you but you didn't like them back. You still have people interested. Me, i never have.

[Asker]

Nah never have. I guess true forced loneliness is a real thing for a lot of guys.

[angeliquedevereux2]

Everyone has people liking them at one point in their lives. Ever heard of boy crazy?

[Asker]

No but not everyone does. Or some don't love long enough to find a person that does

[angeliquedevereux2]

So you're pissed that no one likes you, so you're calling all girls shallow? Maybe blame your appearance or personality...

[Asker]

Yeah. And i can't blame the face i was born with. Or should i be blaming my genetics?