Why are college girls so picky and shallow?

[Anonymous]

Girls only look once at me and then never again (sometimes not even once). They never approach me or come talk to me. I don't even think I'm that bad looking. Actually I think I'm f***ing hot.

[MrOracle]

Most college girls have developed the ability to differentiate between CONFIDENCE (which you clearly don't have) and ARROGANCE, which is the combination of EGO and INSECURITY. Insecurity and arrogance are not attractive qualities, and neither is the sense of entitlement you have.

You'd do much better if you quit thinking you "deserve" girls, and start focusing on making yourself a better catch.

[Asker]

Thanks.

[MikeK]

College girls are twats - don't waste your time with them... go for an older woman ;)

[dudeman]

lol you take the older girls who wants them

[Anonymous]

Haha Maybe it's your attitude they don't like.

Maybe they heard from someone else something bad about you and they're staying away from you. Maybe you're just not their type. Maybe they're already taken. Maybe they ...

There are a LOT of reasons.

[CatholicVirginia]

Did you ever think it's your attitude? Or the girls you're interested in? Do you ever approach those girls? Like it or not, the way our society is these days means if you're interested, you have to go for them - girls don't do that work.

[Anonymous]

Well 1) College guys can be very shallow as well 2) Most girls don't approach guys period and 3) You have a bad attitude and blame women for your lack of success. Ever think it's YOU that's the problem? Get over yourself.

[Asker]

Guys are not shallow AT ALL. Just because a guy doesn't want to date a morbidly obese girl doesn't make him shallow. A guy will bang any girl he see's pretty much as long as she isn't extremely fat. Girls will only approach maybe 1 out of 50 guys because the others aren't good enough. Hell girls won't even look twice at 80% of college guys.

[MikeK]

QA is right

[Opinion Owner]

And if she DID find 80% of college guys worth "banging" she'd be called a slut and considered undateable by guys like you. You dig your own grave on that one. If guys would start dating/marrying sluts, more girls would be sluts and more girls would be giving more guys a chance. We're picky because we have to be.

[Opinion Owner]

& P.S. that's exactly my point. Guys are just looking to get laid so their standards aren't so high. Girls are pickier because most of us are looking for relationships, not just a quick lay. I'd say guys were the more shallow ones in this scenario.

[moviedude714]

why is it him that is the problem?

[Opinion Owner]

Well when the choices are between a) he's the problem or b) every female in the world suddenly got a brain condition that caused them to not be attracted to guys that ARE attractive...I'm going to say the answer is most likely A. there's a better chance he's just not doing, looking, or acting in ways that females find attractive, than there is that every female in the world is attracted to the wrong guy. The survival instinct of our species wouldn't allow all females to be so wrong.

[Anonymous]

"I'm f***ing hot so girls should approach me"...I am failing to see sense in your logic. The hotter you are the more intimidating, sorry mate but you probably have to do all the work. Although it's strange that these girls don't even show interest, maybe your not as hot as you think you are.

[Tentacle_Therapist]

What's so bad about having high standards? Why screw people you don't find attractive, just to avoid being shallow?

[PHLove]

Maybe they don't approach you because word's gotten around that you're a douchebag

[Anonymous]

Not as attractive as you think you are. A lot of guys tend to overestimate their looks so just because you think you're hot doesn't mean you actually are. You may just be average or ugly.

[Asker]

Way hotter than you could ever dream of. LOL

[zickzack]

veni, vidi, vici - more self.confidence and a bag full of humour, that is the recipe.

[Anonymous]

This is a suggestion and not an accusation but maybe your body language is coming off as conceded. Girls like confidence not arrogance.

[AliceMcKay]

Why can't you approach them?

[Blaxican619]

Your cocky. Most girls don't really like that.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they have more important things to do.

[moviedude714]

because girls do have higher standards