Is tinder only for attractive people?

[Anonymous]

It seems as though the men who get laid through tinder are the six foot tall, six pack ab douchebags and that women only swipe for the "attractive" men. Sure men also judge women by looks but men sleep with any woman who approaches them whilst women will only sleep with or date men who meet a certain criteria (six pack abs, six foot tall, rich, big penis).

If you look at screen shots of those viral tinder messages where the two people get along flirting the guy is always the typical "attractive" white guy. If a guy who is ugly according to the standards women have placed on men said the same thing to women via dating app messages he would be ignored, branded a creep and blocked. Now if some girl no matter if she looked like a model or fat messaged a guy flirting he would flirt back.

This is why I avoid and refuse to use any apps, dating websites etc I even stopped using facebook and I don't like taking photos let alone post any picture of me on social media because I refuse to be the victim of bullying, ridicule etc for being ugly i. e having a crooked nose.

[Richareens]

Doubt so. Even girls with an unattractive face but whom are wearing provocative outfits can get a date. I bet if you have abs too, you can get one considering his superficial our society is in terms of looks.

[Asker]

Thats what I am saying even unattractive girls can get a date but guys have to meet a certain standard i. e he must be white, must be six foot tall, must have abs, must be rich, must have a certain penis size.

[Richareens]

Nah not all girls are picky.

[Asker]

Majority are. The only ugly men women date are rich i. e Donald Trump.

[Richareens]

You have a point. But hey, on the bright side, you aren't attracting shallow girls or gold diggers.

[Asker]

Im attracting zero people and I know you don't care that people like me will suffer and be virgins for the rest of their lives for being ugly.

[Richareens]

God, why would you call yourself ugly?

[Asker]

Because Im Indian (not from India and have nothing to do with India), I have a crooked nose, I don't have six pack abs, Im not 6ft tall Im 5ft 7.

[Richareens]

That's not even that bad! I have seen many many dudes with crooked noses who married decent wives. And your height isn't too short. You do know you can find really short girls. Not all short girls want a 6ft! Where I live I see even shorter guys who have girl friends and they're students! Cheer up.

[Asker]

Have you seen how Indians are portrayed? Apu, raj from the big bang theory etc. And what do women think about Indian men online? "they're all creepy they send me creepy messages".

And don't forget the accent, body odour, arranged marriages, and vegetarianism

[Asker]

Also when people think of Indians they think of gang rapes, scammers, tech support, call centers, taxi drivers.

When people have a negative perception of you you end up thinking negatively of yourself.

[Richareens]

GOD NO. Let me tell you that I've had an Indian classmate and I was the one who asked him out. He's not 6ft tall, doesn't have abs and is a student. I still liked him and was attracted to him. So it's just you. You have to work on your confidence dude. Not all people have negative perceptions of Indians. And not all girls are desperate about the guy's money.

[Richareens]

Yes Indians can have a bad stereotype but it doesn't mean every one buys that bullshit.

[splashofyellow]

"Now if some girl no matter if she looked like a model or fat messaged a guy flirting he would flirt back."

Eh, no. I can't even count the times men have simply not responded to my messages.

[wankiam]

cool but you will find real life is also like this... just learn to be more confident in who you are and who cares what others think