My crush has an ugly girlfriend. How can I deal with this?

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Okay, so I have a crush on guy in my school. I think he is really cute. I just found out that he recently started dating with this girl. I don't think she's good looking in my opinion. I don't understand why he would chose her over me? I never got a chance to ask him to hang out while he was single and I feel like I ruined my chances. I don't understand why he's attracted to her. What does she have that I don't? I am way prettier than her!

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

It doesn't really matter what you think, obviously he likes her so there's nothing you can do about that. It sounds like those are just feelings of envy coming out. I'm sure you're a nice girl but there's no reason to put down this other girl just because the guy chose to date her. It seems to me like you're just saying those things to make yourself feel better which is understandable, but irrational. Maintain your dignity and move on and find someone who genuinely likes you.

thechica · Accepted Answer

Hey just because you don't see her pretty does not mean she is ugly. In his eyes she is pretty. Maybe she is kind. Who knows. But you should be happy that he is happy. Maybe it hurts you, because you have a crush. But come on. Be happy for him!

LastGirlScout · Accepted Answer

It's got nothing to do with you, and you don't sound that nice to me: I'm prettier than her, she's ugly, why choose her over me even though I never made an advance.  :Pppppppppppppppppppppfffffffft.

zorro8888 · Accepted Answer

Beauty is in the eye of beholder From the looks of it you're not even factoring personality or anything that actually matters

meatballs21 · Accepted Answer

Kick her ass on a minigolf course!

ArabianPwincess197 · Answer

Er you don't have a nice personality - who are you to judge her? Just cause your jealous - don't insult her to feel better. The logical thing to do is move on - he's taken.

Have you ever thought - he might be with her because of her personality or he likes her?

Blue2 · Answer

just because you think your prettier than her doesn't mean that he likes her for her looks maybe there is something more to what he likes her for than her looks and you just don't know it. You had your chance and you messed up. You should find someone new.

rthomas43 · Answer

What does she have that you don't? Maybe a good heart.

Emilie90 · Answer

You probably are prettier than her as you say- the others on here are full of bull: most guys care little about personality. But this is a lesson that you should have made a move sooner. He probably settled for her because you didn't say anything. You could either say something to him and he'll change his mind and dump her, or you can wait until they split (which they probably will) and then make your move :)

Mgoods · Answer

You can deal with it, by minding your own business. Very effective.

jeanbean · Answer

Okay, here's how to deal with this situation:  You back off, forget about the guy, and give their relationship some respect.

bombamboum · Answer

You might not think she's pretty but he might find her pretty. Also, she must be nicer than you because your attitude isn't. Let him do what he wants

BlackAthlete · Answer

Get over him, got find somebody else, fuck. I don't get why some of you women get caught up with ONE dude, there is tons of other guys out there. Move the fuck on the the next one.

CatInLove · Answer

You have to get over that. He's free to choose. He chose her.

SuitAndTie · Answer

You don't deal with it. He's got a girlfriend now. Move on and don't try to get involved or meddle in anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Face it she is just better then you. Its not about looks. from what i hear u care more about looks then anything. So yeah i think he made the right choice :)

DontDropIt · Answer

Quit being a hater. That's a good start.

xXiTacoXx · Answer

Maybe she has a good personality.

bubbletrouble · Answer

Maybe her personality is better than yours

Anonymous · Answer

Looks like you're already dating yourself

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