My ex posted my nudes online, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

He posted full frontal nudes of me. We were together and I was going out with my girls, he didn't like the dress I was wearing, he thought it was too short. He demanded I changed and wore pants instead but I refused to change and went out anyways.

He broke up with me because apparently looked like a slut and he posted my nudes which were on my hard drive online and said "now you can be the slut I know you are" I'm so hurt as I loved him. I never knew he had an issue with me wearing dresses and things but to post personal pics online is cruel and degrading. I haven't stopped crying and I'm scared to leave my house because I'm ashamed and embarrassed.

[thecd1979]

The guy obviously never respected you in the first place if he is willing to go this far to shame you over something as trivial as a dress you wore. I have a feeling this is not the first time he has done something like this to shame and humiliate you and I am willing to bet also he was abusive, thats not love, he’s manipulating you to do what he wants. I think this should be a wake up call to cut your losses and get the hell out of dodge. It sounds like he posted your pictures to a revenge p*rn site of some kind so check out this link here. It should be a good place to start. I believe the laws for tis are different in each state.

www.womenagainstrevengeporn.com/.../c9fv

Best thing you can do is pick yourself up as best you can and not let him see it get to you, when you see him again, be direct and firm but don’t get angry because thats what he is looking for. I hope things work out for you.

[Asker]

He wasn't abusive- physically. But he was in other ways.

[Anonymous]

Just so you know if you live in the U. S. check your laws within your state this actually could get him some jail time. A lot of states have passed laws regarding this. Don't be ashamed he dumped you for a dumb reason. He betrayed you and is not worth your time. Try not to worry about it. I know you are upset but it will pass with time. Try contacting the website it was posted with an attorney and see if they can get them removed.

[Asker]

Thanks for your advice

[Opinion Owner]

You are most welcome. I hope everything is going well for you :)

[emmabee11]

No and no... uh uh... this guy is a total and complete idiots and he is trying to push down your confidence just to feel like a big man or something, how dare he share such private photos with the whole world jsut to humiliate you in front of everybody and call you a slut... how on earth can someone feel it's right to shame someone else's sexuality? they have their own sexuality, so i would get him and give him an ear full and tell him how would he feel if he shamed his sexuality in front of everyone?, what a douche... This is why i don't give guys any kind of naked photos when they ask or even let them video what we do because they respond very immaturely like this... don't like the a-hole make you feel this way.

[Asker]

Thanks, he's a dick. He never liked me having any social life which excluded him. Didn't like my male friends even my male cousins. I can't believe I felt so deeply for someone who could do me like this

[emmabee11]

haha i type too much when i'm mad, things like this genuinely make me feel angry because it's like saying "A guy can post naked and express their sexuality but a girl can't", total double standard.

[emmabee11]

i mean too many typeos ooohh calm down emma lol

[Asker]

It's cool I get it lol I can't take double standards either. Especially when they're I forced by small minded dickless men. I just hope he gets what he deserved

[Asker]

Haha don't worry about the typos I get the message

[emmabee11]

That should of been the red flag right there is his controlling attitude towards your social life, men like this will always take it 1 step further because they are very insecure little boys and probably his friends are the same way too, you are who you hang with, he just wants to seem like a big man, when i like a guy beefore i take it further i always check to see what his mates are like first and if they are always there at his shoulder telling him who to like and making horrible jokes that the only time women are quiet is when they are sucking them lol i back off straight away, no kind of joking or behavior like this is acceptable.

[Asker]

He's just an ass it's as simple as that. I'm gaming his ass to court so I will see who gets the last laugh. He's friends are all dicks too, one of them is very different and used to try to reason with him about the way he treated me but I should have stuck up for myself more and not been so weak

[emmabee11]

Yeh i've noticed that there is always at least 1 guy in a group of friends that they make fun of who is the reasonable one, in future i would go with that guy not the others, although i'm still always put off because of his friends anyway... they act that way just to cock block him and well... it works... i don't know how a good guy can hang with people like that even after what your "ex" just did... yeh... he seems really soft... so that's probs why i don't go for that 1 guy lol.

[Asker]

Lolol I know what you mean. They're all a bunch or dicks who cheats on their girlfriends and find it amusing so insecure butt heads. I met his friends so long into our relationship, it's like he kept them a secret, I always had to ask to meet them. Shady things I overlooked like an idiot

[emmabee11]

Lol i never ever take notice of a guy till i've seen his friends, there is always a window while they are hanging around before they decide to notice you, i haven't talked to guys online in ages, i tried online dating but i can't meet their friends that way, the last guy he pretended he was scared of blowing a kiss in front of his friends on cam and then blowing one when they weren't looking but really they were looking right at him sniggering :( dicks! lol. I was talking to one of his friends first who lives were i do, never date a muslim guy especially cos they have friends all of the place... not even funny... so if you happen to bump into one of their friends at random towns or places they start making fun of you argh!, i blocked both of them when i figured out all his friends are the same as him and well... but generally even other guys i wil probs never see his mates meeting them online so... it's risky lol.

[Asker]

Haha well I'm defo now in to meeting the friends because it does say a lot about them and who they are lol

[nygirl25]

I can definitely relate to this because my ex posted nude pictures of me as well without my knowledge and that was a couple years ago and I'm still angry about it. I would say in the future never share nude photos even if you're in a relationship with them and if you are ever intimate with someone make sure there are no video cameras or phones around. Since that happened to me I have become very paranoid about it. If you have proof that he has done it you can even sue him I think due to cyber harassment laws now.

[Asker]

Firstly, I'm you went through this too, it's the most violating thing ever. I didn't send him any nudes, he stole them from my external hard drive without my knowledge- his motivation? Because I wouldn't wear something he approved of when I was going out with my girls. Still both our exes are dicks

[Hannah591]

He sounds abusive, insecure, possessive and psychopathic, I hope he stays your ex and never dates again! You should call the police, what he did is illegal and try to contact the website to request they get removed. I'm sorry you have to deal with such a vile human being. Try and get support from friends and family during this time.

[Asker]

Thanks for your nice words, I will be seeing my lawyer tomorrow. i have an abundance of abusive messages from to too which I have saved.

[Hannah591]

I would recommend that you print them off just in case they get deleted or something happens. You need to bring punishment to that lad and next time, think twice before sending nudes, even to boyfriends. You never know when they can use them against you.

[Asker]

Yh I will be doing this. I didn't send nudes, he stole them from my external hard drive when I didn't listen to him and went out with my girls. He searched through my personal things and must have found tjem

[Hannah591]

Oh, that's another conviction; invasion of privacy! Tell the police that too! I hope things end well and that you never return to him.

[Asker]

O god no, I am so over this guy and who I thought he was- I'm done!

[HandsomeRaj]

1. The most misused apart from genuinely confused words in the dictionary are Love & Empathy. While the former is confused/misused with selfishness the latter is with sympathy
2. Whether and how he loved you or not isn't the point of concern or debate here, the situation is how to get those pics not only off the internet but also from his possession
3. Next thing to look into is to teach him a lesson and make an example of him to others
4. For one you can take the woman's protection cell of the police into the loop (depending on which country you are from & in), track the IP from where the content was posted & take it from there.
5. Which country you are in is most important.
6. Leave revenge and stuff out of this and conduct what you must and have to logically
7. If you don't want to approach the law enforcers owing to embarrassment (which is why I say 'woman's cell' which comprises of women) then know that the more that content is available the more people are going to access and share those :-)

[capncool]

Inconsiderate people... Where did he post the pics? You should be able to contact the site administrator and ask the pictures be taken down, and then after you do that contact the police. Sadly, there's no way to guarantee that there isn't some prick out there whose already downloaded the pics, but in all honesty it's not likely anybody is going to be able to trace the pictures back to you anyway.

It's not your fault that this happened, its his. Don't let it get you down, and remember, the only way to ensure he doesn't walk free is if you do something about it.

[Asker]

Thanks this is a good piece of advise. i will be taking his to court, not only for this but for the harrassment I have been getting from him

[Zango91]

There is very little you can do right now. The internet is a huge place. Once something gets posted there, it gets downloaded, shared and reposted to many other sites. If you know the site, you can contact them and ask them to remove it. You can sue him, but that will attract some media attention and will result in more people intentionally searching for your pics. Just don't let this thing bring you down. Don't give him the feeling that he has won. You are not responsible for the nudes that you DIDN'T post. On the bright side, there are millions of pics in the internet, so its a needle in a haystack. The joke's on him :/

[MaskedSanity]

Her pics are gonna get passed around regardless. If she does nothing, this asshole will continue being an asshole. If he has several thousand grand to pay for the damages he caused, he'll be too busy working his ass off to pay off his debt - that would be a fantastic lesson for this piece of shit.

[Asker]

It would. I'm seeing my lawyer tomorrow about this so I will update

[Zango91]

@MaskedSanity is right in a way. The choice is ultimately yours. Consult your lawyer and collect enough evidence before filing a case.

[Asker]

Way ahead of you

[7heDubz]

You loved that degenerate piece of shit?

Huh. Well then.

You try to find out where they are, email the owner (s) of the website that they take them down, and then go about living your life as per usual. Nothing you can do about it now sorry to say.

[Asker]

I just can't believe that someone who I could love could so something so low and cruel to me

[Mikasa]

Get in touch with the websites to take them down. Get a lawyer involved as well if you can to go after this scum bag. I notice that you said it was on your hard drive and that you did not send him these pics, which I think will work more in your favor if you go to court. Save anything on paper which proves his mean and nasty behaviour as well. Do not take this lying down.

[Asker]

Thanks, he stole them from me the night I went out. It's like he looked for a way to punish me just because I went out with my girls

[springocelot]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. He seems like a controlling guy.

Contact the websites where the pictures are posted and demand they take it down. Also do a google search on yourself and contact google if their is anything incriminating. Sue him too.

From now on, make sure any files or folders with personal stuff is password protected and not shared.

[Asker]

Thanks and I will. It's just a shame that future partners me being suspicious of them which isn't fair

[MaskedSanity]

Not too sure about the laws where you live, but as far as I'm aware, you can sue this asshole.

You did not give him the photos, you did not give him permission to take them or post them anywhere. He STOLE your property and distributed it without your consent.

Gather all the evidence you need and take his ass to court.

[Asker]

Thats my plan. I even have messages with him saying he took my pictures so it's clear I didn't give them to him

[MaskedSanity]

Good. Keep those messages, that's good evidence to confirm his actions and malicious intent.

[Asker]

I defo will be- thanks

[LousyLoudMusic]

that is so wrong, you can choose whatever you want, and he has no right, to even go to you're computer. I would try to call the website to get it down. And go to the police and do whatever you can to make him feel sorry. And I am sorry, and I hope it gets better.

[Asker]

Thanks for the support and advice

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

He doesn't love you if he did he wouldn't be making a big issue
out of what you wear when you go out. He is vindictive you need
contact websites be posted your pictures and it's so sad that he
would stoop so low to post your pictures but with Attorney and
law enforcement you may be able to get the pictures taken down
I'm sure this taught you lesson never send nudes to guys cause
you see what this caused to happen and again he doesn't love you
i know you do and it's so sad that guys got be little dicks with their
girlfriends and if he truly loved you he wouldn't be asking you for nudes.

[Asker]

I didn't send the nudes. He stole them from my hard drive. I did mention that above

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Well, whatever you did.. experience is the best teacher
i wish you well i am not being offensive but he was wrong
he had to hack your computer or you let him use your phone,
computer for him to get them pictures , never do that stuff with
no one i don't care if you knew the person for 17 years of your
life

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

We live in world where someone can be your lover now
and tomorrow be your enemy i had it happen many times
that's why i don't have many friends cause people are
back stabbers

[Asker]

I know it's so sad isn't it. Thing is he searched through my personal belongings the night I went out and didn't take heed to his demands of wearing something he preferred

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It's sad how can someone say they love you and
just turn like that in split seconds? Well hope you
can find a new guy and bring this guy to justice
i do wish you well and sorry you went through
all this crap wow i could never hurt girl that way..

[Asker]

It's disgusting that he would want to hurt me this way. I can't believe it and I loved him so much and now I just feel so confused and shocked and everything else that you can think of.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes it is disgusting, girls/ women are the most beautiful human beings
it would not matter what girlfriend of mine wore going out with friends
guys are immature and stupid. I see girls / women sexy in the eyes of love
i don't see them sexy just for sexual reasons only, oh that guy will pay
karma's a bitch ( sorry for my language)

[Asker]

It's ok 😊 I'm just shocked. I should be able to wear what I want to wear and hang out with who I choose to. It's not like I'm doing any wrong

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes i agree with you i wish you well xD

[Asker]

lol thanks

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You're welcome :-)) xD

[Blondiee2014]

Phone the police, he has no right to distribute pictures of you without your consent.
He is obviously a seriously jealous controlling asshole, turn that feeling into hatred, he deserves to be arrested for doing that to you.

[Asker]

I just can't believe it. I feel so violated and heartbroken. I have never been so betrayed in my whole life.

[Blondiee2014]

@asker yeah that's a major betrayal.
But for someone to do that to someone they was in a relationship shows he is truly evil.
You can't let him get away with this you have to tell the police, at least then he will be humiliated as well and be looked upon for what he is, a Nasty bastard.

[Asker]

I will report it. I thought he loved me but after he tried controlling what I wore and who I spoke to. He hit one of my guy friends in the face for complimenting my hair style one day

[Blondiee2014]

@asker Yeah he needs to pay and learn that's not normal behaviour.

[Asker]

I know, be changed so fast it's like I started believing the things he told me

[Klaatu51]

stop crying and give him a good beatdown for this. he deserves it

and as a piece of advice... i suggest you to NOT share nudes with ANYONE. wether it's your bf or not

[Asker]

I didn't share nudes hun, he stole them from my hard drive (stated above). I haven't sent nudes to anyone before and never would after this. He searched through my personal things when I went out with my friends

[Klaatu51]

that makes things even worse then... well... be free to beat him into a pulp.

[Asker]

I would love too, he would certainly kick my ass but I'd surely try lol I'm taking him to court over this

[footballfan993]

I would contact the host of the website, and the police, the host site should be able to take down the picture, and the police should be able to arrest your ex for something, such as copyright infringement or stolen property

[Asker]

Thank you. I'm doing this defk

[HorrorFan]

Sorry to hear about your situation. He sounds like a giant shithead.

Still, you have to try to not let it consume you to this extent. Don't hide in your house. Try to live your life as normal. Bad things happen to everyone and you'll persevere.

[Asker]

Thank you. I just feel as if everyone has seen me, I feel so exposed

[sarmac]

you should go to the cops if you really need to.
But be proud of your body, girl. Yes, i know it's embarrassing.. but what's done is done. Rather then showing him how much it negatively affected you…embrace it. Just channel your inner jennifer lawrence.

[LovesTVDx]

I am so sorry you ever went on through that :-( that's awful. Don't let him make you feel bad though, that's what he would want. You have no reason to be ashamed, he should except he probably won't because he is scum.

[Asker]

Thanks babe

[masm64]

You can sue him actually. He cannot post any photos of you online without your blessing.

[Asker]

Thanks

[BoudyRizk]

Sorry to hear that girl, there is not much you can do
All you can do now is contact the website administrator and ask for your pictures to be removed and speak with the police, they can advise you.
For future, never ever let a guy know that you have nude pics on your laptop nor send him any nudes

[beeturner]

Contact the web admin and/or the police. He could get jail time for this... I'm so sorry your trust was violated in such a disrespectful and disgusting manner. It's times like this where I wish I believed in karma..

[Ballerinasinger3]

just calm down and call the police. Get this addressed and the photos taken down. he'll get what he deserves dont worry, you did nothing wrong!

[Asker]

Thanks hun

[Ballerinasinger3]

no problem! seriously though, what he is doing is illegal and abusive and you do NOT deserve to be treated that way. Make that known by calling the police as soon as possible. This is harrassment!

[Asker]

I will report him and take him to court over this

[Ballerinasinger3]

good!! end the trend!!

[lovesyoumuch]

I am so sorry this happened to you. I would call the local sherif or police.

[Asker]

Thank you, I am taking him to court.

[lovesyoumuch]

Good for you. What a fuckhead.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to hear. Your ex seems like he acts on impulse. But yeah, do you know which website he posted it up on? If so, maybe you can contact then and tell them to get rid of those pictures. Best of luck to ya.

[Asker]

Thank, I contacted one site and I'm waiting for a response and I'm not sure if that's the only site.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. Hope things work.

[Asker]

Thanks

[XEmmaSigsX]

I'm so sorry:( don't be embarrassed or ashamed. Don't give the jackass any satisfaction. Don't worry about leaving they house. isn't it illegal to post nudes without permission?

[Asker]

I found that it is illegal so I'm taking him to court not only for this but the harrassment and threats I have been receiving. Thanks

[XEmmaSigsX]

Good for you girl:) glad I was of help

[Asker]

Thanks

[KHaskins]

Sue his ass off. What a piece of shit.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

[Asker]

I intend on doing this and thanks

[Anonymous]

Call the police. You have NO REASON to feel ashamed or embarrassed. You can dress however you please. He obviously has control issues. And also emotionally abusive.

[Asker]

Thanks, I still have the abusive messages he's been sending me saved so those should help

[Anonymous]

You could take the police route, but sometimes that doesn't help. Or you could fight dirty and tell the cops he beat you. If he's out to ruin your life you might as well ruin his :D

[Asker]

I will contact the police but I won't make up any lies, I will tell the truth- that's bad enough

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you. That's what I would do first, but if the cops or no one else helps you (sadly, sometimes that happens even though it shouldn't) you should find another way to punish him. Don't listen to that eye for an eye makes the whole world blind bullshit. People need to feel the consequences of their actions

[Asker]

I agree they should especially something like this, be is pretty much puting me in danger in some respect and making me vulnerable

[Anonymous]

What Happened To You Is Unfortunate, Don’t Be Ashamed Or Embarrassed, If Someone You Know Finds Your Photos, Stand Strong, Don’t Let Them Control The Conversation, This Happened To Me When A Female Friend Found Me All Over The Internet, She Threatened To Expose Me To All Our Mutual Friends, My Family And Employer, I Told Her To Tell Anyone And Everyone She Wants, I Don’t Care, She Got Mad And Walked Out, Never Heard From Her Again, And No One Ever Confronted Me… The Hard Part Is Online Posts Are Forever, This Can Never Be Undone, Your Photos By Now Have Been Saved And Reposted All Over The Internet Thousands Of Times… I Had To Learn To Deal With It, A Few People I Know From Friends And Co Workers Found Me Years Later, Again I Stood My Ground And Gained Full Support…

[Theknowledgebro]

Unless there is your face in the pictures, lie... if so then lie and tell people it's not yours... unless that's not ur personality... if your face is in it or you like being honest... you can report it to the police because it was private and illegal on social media... and then kick his ass

[genericname85]

First I'd contact the webhoster and tell then about the problem in order to have the pics taken down. Then I would sue the guy because it is illegal to do this.

[hypnicjerk]

This^^

[KillerTaco]

THIS is why I'd NEVER take naked photos of myself. For anyone. All you can do now is sue his ass.

[nert73]

Wow he sounds like a piece of crap. Sorry to hear it. But next time if you must send someone nudes, make sure he isn't going to do THAT. Wow.

[Asker]

I didn't send the nudes, he took them off my hard drive

[nert73]

Well then WOW. I don't really know what to say about him

[Asker]

He's a loser I can't believ it

[Blondiee2014]

@nert73 he is just a jealous asshole. I have nudes of my ex still and as much as I hate her guts I wouldn't show them to anyone.

[nert73]

@Blondiee2014 yep that's what I'm saying. He's just... what you said!
@Asker hope that never happens again

[Asker]

I'm just feeling broken and I'm going to the police I think

[nert73]

Might not be a good idea considering you had nudes of yourself. It's still extremely wrong if him, but they might find a way to blame you for it. I think @7heDubz is right.

[Asker]

He stole my nudes that's like a cyber crime posting them

[nert73]

Yeah, good point

[Anonymous]

Tell his mom, shame the little shit-cunt.

Then learn a valuable lesson about nude photo's: don't put your face in them.

[SomeoneImportant]

Sit there and be mad. You can't un-post something, once it's on the internet it's there forever. I'd find a way to benefit or profit off them.

[rachel_lee78]

I would fucking kill him. report the picture, because pretty sure that's not even legal.

[tina15xox]

Why even take nudes? I was thought not to do that when i was 13I trust No one with things like that my bf can see me in real life why do you need pictures?

[Asker]

He stole them from me, so he must have searched my personal things behind my back. Who would expect their boyfriend to steal from them or search through their things?

[Anonymous]

Tell everyone his dick is small and he likes to play with his butt while having sex and that he sucks at sex, hope it was helpful

[Anonymous]

What I don't get is why you had nudes on your hard drive if you've never sent nudes... what was the point on having nudes of yourself?

Either way, that was wrong of him.
Was it on a social media site where your friends and family could see them?

[Asker]

No it's a revenge site or a few and I have never sent dudes before, I took them a while ago because I was doing before and afters for when I finish my gym program.

[Opinion Owner]

So is it possible no one you know has seen them? Make him take them down! That's terrible!
And next time take before and after pics in your bra and underwear.

[Bossmorr]

He's dead wrong for that. That's immature of him to post your nude pics. But you should've also listened to him if that was your boyfriend, puttin on a longer dress or jeans would've been best. He felt as tho you went against him, and that you was trying to be cute for someone else. Insecurity is another topic. But as his girlfriend, making his insecurities secure, should be part of your duties.

[Asker]

My dress wasn't short (cut just above the knee) and didn't show any cleavage. I shouldn't have to wear pants to make him feel better. Him telling me what I should and shouldn't wear. So I should change my whole wardrobe just to make him feel secure? Yes, I was his girl and I was good to him. He was controlling, didn't like my friends, didn't like me even looking at dudes. Why would I reinforce this behaviour by playing along with it? I would be shooting myself in the foot. I wasn't even allowed to go out with my girls unless he came too. You think I should have stayed home then huh?

[Bossmorr]

Well since you got more into detail, I can understand where you are coming from. Changing your wardrobe for your man, is necessary sometimes. But in the case of him being overly insecure and possessive, you did the right thing. And no I don't think you should've stayed home, you did the right thing by going out with your real friends. He's a foul bitch ass guy and I'm glad you stood up for yourself. You should go all out, and make him pay for what he's done.

[Asker]

Thanks for understanding and I will make him pay.

[Ihav2fart]

You own those nudes, Be proud that many many men are fapping to your beautiful self! Own it up!

[kangy]

Duhz

[Anonymous]

Call the police. What he did was illegal. You may also have a civil suit.

[JohnScofield787]

Perhaps go to the police...

[Asker]

I think I will but I feel so humilliated

[JohnScofield787]

yes i am sure it is humiliating and making you feel completely vulnerable, but hopefully they will be sensitive and help you get it removed, in addition deal with your ex bf.

I am sorry that has happened...

[Asker]

Thanks for your help

[Shamalien]

My ex pissed me off royally the way she broke my heart and I felt so lied to and used…but I would never share her private pics

[Hajar_Whitestone]

Now listen and stop being childish, afraid, go to police suit him and make him pay for everything don't tell me I love him and all blah blah if u don't do that u will prove you are a slut as he said..

[Asker]

You're crazy. It's like you read the description and already had your mind made up of what sort of person I am. Perhaps you should read some of the replies I have given to comments left and get an idea of what is going on. Get back to me once you have done so 👍

[Hajar_Whitestone]

If you can't handle honest opinions don't post a question and please read my opinion over and over again tell you understand it if you can't understand ask someone to explain

[Asker]

It's not a case of honesty and being able to handle certain things. It's about you being small minded and thick. Have a nice day

[rondon06]

why would you take nude pictures of yourself in the first place if you do dumb shit be prepared to face the consequences just as your ex may have to face the consequences of his actions if you tell the police

[Asker]

I can do what I choose to do in private. I don't expect people I love to steal from me

[rondon06]

yh you can but if something happens like your ex stealing pictures from your computer or your pc getting hacked it won't turn out nicely for you will it?
Even if your not a slut and you take nude pics of yourself this can negatively affect a man's opinion of you

[Asker]

I doesn't have a negative effect on a mans opinion of me, you're under 18 so you have a lot to learn about men. Also they were not on my computer, it was an external hard drive with loads of pictures on, not just nudes also my private files etc. I don't expect someone I love to look of ways of persecuting me because I didn't do as I was told

[rondon06]

good for you all i'm saying is because you took nude pics of yourself in the end it has caused you a lot of grief and in hindsight it probably wasn't the smartest choice to make

[Asker]

I can understand what you're saying but nobody should be going through my personal things

[rondon06]

yh but we live in the real world so you can't always expect that people can be spiteful

[Anonymous]

Thats the problem of perverts these days ,, they use u n threw u like used tissue papers, n hunt for fresh ones,, but why u girls share your nudes with these assholes perverts? They may blackmail u as well... Just kick them in their balls... n dont keep your nudes in any hard drive or phone.. what is the need for it? Next time don't share nudes with any asshole pussy seekers!!!

[Asker]

I didn't share nudes and never have done

[babygirl41398]

1. there's nothing you can do
2. You should have never took em
3. I hope you learn a valuable lesson
4. You brought the situation on yourself by dressing like a slut

[LovesTVDx]

You are so wrong :)

[babygirl41398]

I may be so wrong but its the truth :)

[kain7th]

#4 is very wrong

[MrAtticusLebowski]

What a dick thing to say.

[babygirl41398]

You dress how you act and how you act is how you get treated

[Asker]

I wore a dress which came above my knee- no chest showing, not that it would make me a slut anyway. I can have pictures of myself on a private hard drive if I want to, doesn't give anyone the right to steal from me. Your logic for someone so young is terrible. You should be ashamed of yourself

[babygirl41398]

No i shouldn't be ashamed because im smart enough to know not to put naked pics on my computer unless its locked in a cloud also i know not to tell anyone there on there if he never knew they was on there they wouldn't have been posted

[cphiecekslee]

Why am I not surprised that this is a kid

[Asker]

They were on my external hard drive which means he searched through my things. You are a child as it says your under 18

[babygirl41398]

Im almost 17 and preferably im smarter than most women

[babygirl41398]

Your boyfriend or ex whatever he is sounds like a real jack ass

[LousyLoudMusic]

that is sick that you actually believe this

[Asker]

You're not smarter than most women, you're just an idiot- simple as that.

[MaskedSanity]

Not sure if troll, or biggest idiot on the planet.

Most likely the latter.

[Asker]

I agree with you.

[veronica44]

You would have to have no brain power to be asking a question like this on here. He does not like you, but what he did was cruel. Sorry to hear.

[Asker]

What? Lol "he does not like you" not you're missing the main point here that he is a controlling dickhead who I getting me back for having a mind of my own.

[Lizzy32794]

Never post your face in nudes..

[jjodllwedo]

learn not to take nudes. problem solved.

[Anonymous]

not that i would have done it. but you wanted to look like a slut anyway

[LousyLoudMusic]

what the hell, she did not go out naked, and paraded for everyone. And no matter what, it is not right i anyway to post naked picture of someone else out there.

[Asker]

@lousyloudmusic

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

going out naked, or almost naked... one is a slut and the other one os not? are you joking? haha

[Asker]

I wasn't almost naked and even if I chose to it still would not constitute as being a slut. Perhaps you should educate yourself on what being a slut actually is

[been_waiting]

She can look however she wants.
If she wanted to go out half naked she can.
He has no right to post nude photos of her.

Its like a tattoo artist tattooing a dick on your face after you asked for a tattoo of your initials or some shit.

You wanted a tattoo anyway though right? So you can't complain right?

[Asker]

Loool that's funny

[Opinion Owner]

@been_waiting lol what ever. im not the one who was nudes going around

[been_waiting]

You're also not the one who can type properly.

It isn't her fault a dickwad betrayed her.

[Opinion Owner]

lmao, who has, i ment.
its partially her fault, since she made him do it

[Opinion Owner]

not to mention, she should have not send them in the first place lol

[Asker]

What is your problem? Going anonymous to be yourself (loser). I feel sorry for the women who gets with you.

[Asker]

I didn't send any nudes, he stole them off my external hard drive which was clearly written above. Perhaps you should read instead of jumping to conclusions. I didn't send him it anyone dudes. What an idiot lol

[Opinion Owner]

if i didn't go anonymous, its not like you would know who i am or anything lol and you are anonymous too, so whats your point?
and im sorry for saying something that was incorrect. i did read your question but it was when i left my first comment. did not read it now...

[Asker]

I really don't care what you have to say anymore. You're wasting my time and yours, go and be a dickhead somewhere else

[Opinion Owner]

its my day off, i have lots of time to waste.
sure i will, go back to being a ho

[Asker]

Lol you're crazy

[Anonymous]

Kill him :D

[Asker]

Lol haha

[Anonymous]

I thought girls show nudes of their bfs all the time when they have them

[Asker]

That's not true

[Dєѕιвσу]

Just be a spectator.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Dєѕιвσу]

You girls don't want to visit police then what can we do?

[Asker]

How'd you know that. And what's "you girls"

[Dєѕιвσу]

This is not the first time i am seeing this type of victim in gag.
Have seen many up here and in real life too.

[Asker]

Well perhaps your perspective isn't great

[Dєѕιвσу]

Yeah i guess. I am tired of douches and i am tired of victims like you. So naive. Blatantly shares the nude with guys and not even think it's consequences even for a second.

[Asker]

You didn't read did you, or maybe reading comprehension isn't your strong point. I didn't send the nudes he took them off my hard drive which belongs to me. I wrote that above. I have never sent him nudes before it any other guy

[Dєѕιвσу]

Find a hacker if you know any. May be he can help you.

[Asker]

I don't know any hun

[Dєѕιвσу]

If you want to teach him a lesson, police is a best option tho.
In india public/family would have taken law in their hands. Lol

[Dєѕιвσу]

I HATE SUCH DOUCHES!

[Anonymous]

i like beyond

[Asker]

What does this mean?

[Opinion Owner]

sorry i posted this by mistake i wanted to say.. first of all call the cops and stay away from him cause he is a jerk and jerk is an underestimation

[Asker]

Lol no problem and thanks

[Opinion Owner]

haahha welcome