My boyfriend puts half naked pictures of himself online

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been putting shirtless pictures of himself online. I tell him it bothers me but he won't take them off Facebook an I hate seeing all these girls lust over him. It really hurts to see it but he won't take them down. What should I do?

[dtaijo174]

Some people have differing morals & values, this case appears to be one of them. You have asked him repeatedly to take the photos down and he appears to either not getting it or doesn't care. Either way, these are not good signs for a potential partner, best case he is a terrible communicator.

I would sit him down and tell him you need to talk. Express to him just how serious this issue is and that it is not acceptable behavior in your view. If he disagrees, tell him it's fine that you disagree, but you are still asking he do this for you. If he won't take them down, I suggest you end the relationship. The last thing you want to do is stay in a relationship where your SO ignores your feeling, opinions, morals, and values. Let us know how it goes & good luck!

[Phoenix1991]

I asked a question about how people felt on this topic, and almost everyone agreed on the same thing. When your in a relationship having a picture of you shirtless as a guy is people doing it for attention. If he won't remove them, I say walk away, you don't need a narcissistic guy for a boyfriend or even a friend. You can do better.

[iveth]

i agree but if you don't want to leave him then claim your property all over his fb hahaha

[Phoenix1991]

lol that sounds like a funny way to claim something.

[Anonymous]

Break up with him and tell him if he don't have respect for himself or you and he's putting up pictures to get other girl's attention then its over and tell him not to bother you until he gets rid of those pics if he deletes the pictures and comes back to you he cares and if not he's not worth it forget about him and don't let him hurt you or disrespect you that way

[Anonymous]

Leave him. He is intentionally being destructive to your relationship. Once you leave, he might take it seriously and try to get you back. But if he doesn't, he didn't have it in him to be a good boyfriend anyway.

[louiseee]

I would comment on them saying "Hey, babe. Am I not giving you enough attention or something?! Ha, if you want more compliments from me you could have said so instead of turning into an online p*rnstar."

[SuzieC]

He is looking for some new girls in his life.