Sorry, you have to tell him. He'll be all embarrassed about it, but presumably he's young and he's probably very nervous about kissing. He probably thinks he is supposed to do something but he doesn't know what.
You need to get him to relax and then show him how you want to be kissed. Next time you are going to make out, have him lay down and you can kneel over him. Tell him to open his mouth a bit, close his eyes, and relax and do nothing but lay there and be kissed. Now you show him how it's done. He will never forget this moment.
"Hey baby, when we kiss, could you maybe not use so much saliva?"
Literally that simple. I'd MUCH rather a woman tell me I'm kissing her wrong than keep kissing her wrong. I want to make her happy, want her to want my kisses.
Lol just tell him to swollow his saliva while he's kisses you, i get the same way but i stop for a second and swollow it then go back to kissing ^_^ i don't want to put off a guy and stick to lip kissing no tongues, i've learned this from guys who are too sloppy, using tongues is the worst way to kiss with these guys and since i get the same way i don't want to drewl on his face ether, this is just a natural reaction to arousal (it's why they always say we are drewling over someone lol), not everyone gets it weirdly enough though.
just tell hin that you dont really like to kiss that way if he can kiss another way maybe tell him you dont like bug kisses only short ones and then go slowly for larger ones and fell hin the thing about saliva when your relationship is more strong.
Tell him. It is just going to get weirder and weirder for you. Just tell him in a subtle way starting like "I really do not want to make you feel bad about this but..." I don't know. Tell him that is uncomfortable for you. That's it.
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young lady, that is a tough one. I had a girlfriend who would kiss me and would being there speak both of my lips in her mouth sucking all over my whole face. I hated it. But I let it pass for so long it kept frustrating me more and more if I was mean about it. I'm not telling you to be mean but if you don't like it you have to say something. I know its not much but I hope it helps a little.
Yep people drool when they have something they like. Tell him. Don't be insulting, but don't expect him to be insulted either. If I were drooling all over the place and not noticing this, I would value friendly feed back. Especially if it is bothering you.
Kissing is definitely an art. Show him how you liked to be kissed. If you feel him unleash his tsunami saliva pull away playfully and teasingly and correct him. And if you see him get embarrassed and discouraged give him some reassurance and help him be confident
Is he just sloppy at kissing or is there somehow too much saliva in his mouth? Because if he's bad at kissing you can try to teach him like have him close his eyes and start kissing gently like not necessarily his lips then have him kiss you... Really unless he's super sensitive you should be alright like just telling him to close his mouth a little or like if his mouth is getting full of saliva just tell him you need to take a breath
Do you drool when you think about me or just when you kiss me. Everything is great n all. I'm just not a fan of saliva. And I don't think any other girl is either. We don't buy drool in a can we buy water in a bottle.
Simple... do it playfully show him how you like to be kissed... Act like your teaching him about how to please you, tease and when he does it wrong... Pull back from him slowly, put your finger on his lip and say no with a smile and some what of a sexy expression. Guys love a tease so he will cooperate... Then you show him just how you want him to do it
Tell him in a nice way with respect! Don't just go harsh like many comments suggest! If want to keep him - you must tell, but, make it nice by suggesting that you fill better with dry kiss and less saliva. Simple.
Simply say: I don't fill comfortable with so much saliva, can you manage it please?
If he loses it again, just pool back and remind.
How else should he learn what you like?
Just saying... xD
Literally just tell him he needs to work on his kissing, if you offer to help him work on it then i somehow doubt he would be annoyed
It might be because he thinks your yummy or he can't help it. If he is aware of it he will be self conxious about it so be gentle or just do the not so wet thing that made me laugh
Years ago I dumped a guy for this. I feel your pain. I never knew how to tell him. His spit stunk, too. Not his breath, just his spit. It was icky. :P
be blunt, just tell him. Look people understand it hurts a lot more when you let stuff like that hold you back from your relationship.
Give him a lopsided grin, wag your finger at him and tell him not so wet.
Then kiss him some more.
Show him rubbing your lips in weird way, I think he'll understand by these signs.
Spit in his mouth and ask him how he likes it? I don't know
Yell at him till he understands your painnnn!!!
Just kidding, gently instruct him in the art of kissing.
Maybe suggest kissing in a different fir a change to liven things up
Tell them you're already getting wet enough on your own.
I have the same problem in like the exact same situation, I know this comment isn't a help but just to let you know you're not the only girl out there struggling with this!
Him being so moist must make you not so much so! Lol. Suggest to him that it's a bit too wet for you and then proceed to experiment some more with him
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