I got tired of not hearing from anyone and just to experiment, I changed my "looking for" to casual sex & within 15 min I got 15 (sleazy) messages. Once I changed it back to long term dating I've gotten no messages again. Am I missing something here? Has OkC become a site for hookups nowadays?
Here's my profile pic by the way:
Most Helpful Guy
Here's what I think happened:
I tried that site with some success several years ago. This was back in 2009.
Over the next few years, online dating became more popular in the mainstream.
This led to a massive increase in the number of guys messaging girls.
This, in turn, led to many women raising their standards accordingly.
As a result, men who were average and below, or even slightly above average, tended to give up on online dating.
Only the very highly desirable men remained, and these are the men who can afford to have many casual hookups.
(Just my opinion)
Most Helpful Girl
Guys are always up for hooking up.. Dating, no so much.
Any free site is filled with guys looking for sex. There are some serious ones too. But you are going have to dig them up