My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months and he's been staying at my apartment for the last week. I came down with what I thought was just a cold on Saturday. Today, we were laying on the couch and all of a sudden I felt like I was going to be sick. I threw up about five minutes later. It happened so fast and all I could do was lean over and he saw the whole thing. I've been vomiting pretty consistently since then and I look like hell. My bf is here taking care of me. He undressed and re-dressed me, tied my hair back, and he even cleaned up my throw up (gross I know) but I don't want it to ruin his attraction to me.
Guys have you ever been in this situation before? Did it or would it make you see your girlfriend differently or be grossed out by her? How do I make it up to him?
I haven't had the stomach flu in forever and I feel like a monster :(
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It is ok to be human in front of someone you are intimate with. It is not a game changer unless he was only after sex. He cares about you and is by your side taking care of you. It is a sign of affection and love. No one can maintain the 'perfect' image forever as we are not perfect as humans. I'm sure he is actually happy to be there for you in a time of need. Thank him. Hug him.
When you are back to 100% reward him with some lingerie and a no holds barred romp in the sack. All will be washed away. :-)1