If we don't talk anymore, why does he still snapchat me on the weekends?

[Anonymous]

Well me and this guy started to like eachother. It was pretty casual though. We would have sex, drink, have sleepovers and cuddle or whatever and he kind of acted aloof with me 3 weeks ago, so I took that as a sign that he isn't that into me so I stopped texting him and stuff. He seems like the type who doesn't get girls often and he's been heartbroken a lot so he hasn't tried to talk to me. maybe his ego is upset or whatever but idc I'm not really into him anymore. I was the one who usually asked him to hang out and now he sends snapchats. Could he still be into me? I just don't see the point lol thanks.

[Anonymous]

I think he doesn't know what he's doing, he's still into you- he wouldn't bother with contact otherwise. You should let him know nicely that he's wasting his time.

[Asker]

Well he doesn't text me though.. Just snapchat sometimes. That's why it's a little confusing ha

[Opinion Owner]

I reckon he's being a bit timid and snapchat is a just more casual.

[Asker]

Makes sense.. I kind of wanted to hang out with him again but I'd rather have him ask. Either way I'm not bothered.

[Opinion Owner]

Guys don't do themselves any favors sometimes, nothing ventured nothing gained and all that. But learning not to give too much of a shit when you get knocked back takes a bit of practice. lol

[Asker]

What do you mean exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

If you're timid then girls lose interest for a number of reasons, anyway how are they supposed to know what you're thinking if you don't tell them? The more you get rejected, the less you give a fuck. lol

[Asker]

Well he acted like an aloof asshole and ignored me one time around his friends, when he usually never did that. I took it as a sign he lost interest, and that night he asked me if everything was cool between us and I didn't say anything. So I think he knows i'm upset by that, but he should expect someone to move on when a guy embarrasses you and acts like you don't mean anything to him.

I'm an attractive woman with a lot to offer, I can move on real quick haha

[Asker]

Well he kind of just asked "is everything cool?" or whatever at like 4 in the morning. Not feelin it..

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think he's got any idea what he's doing! lol

[Asker]

Haha yeah me neither. He's probably not all there in the head.