It seems that girls don't like being approached by guys they're attracted to but expect a guy she's attracted to to approach her.
So as an ugly guy, do you just sit back and wait for them to approach you? (which will never happen, unless she was really down or needed your help)
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Of course you should approach girls. Forget about the balance of the universe and keeping things "fair". It's not your job to bring justice to dating scene. You have to want to get pussy for yourself and nobody else.
Now as for being ugly, here's the deal. While there are certain guys that are clearly handsome studs, most of us don't have a firm grasp on what it is girls look for in a partner. My guy friends think I'm HANDSOME. That's a guy's scale. When it comes to girl's opinions, I'm REPULSIVE, because my features are not "masculine" and I'm mostly an introvert.
There's a disconnect between what girls want and what guys THINK girls want. Girls look at features like height, hands, shoulders, chest, and other features that exude power. They also want a confident personality, one that serves as a beacon of stability and reason amidst her madness. He must also be able to provide for and protect her. Money provides. If you make good money, you're a provider. If you have all of the features and characteristics listed above, you can protect her.
Now, you were saying you're ugly? Even if your face was slightly askew, all of those characteristics listed above make up for it.
I see "ugly" guys get some of the most attractive girls I've ever seen. Literally, one of the hottest girls I ever saw at the gym met up with her 6'4'' athletic/lanky boyfriend with goofy face and a huge bulge in his shorts. Guys would never go for the "female" version of that guy. You really have to give yourself a chance and see whether or not you're ugly, because you can't decide that for yourself.1