Girls, is calling a girl fat really worthy of a kick in the balls? (Page 2)

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i said it to a girl out of anger, it was a bad thing to say i know and i felt bad, but only for like 5 seconds because thats when i felt her foot come up between my legs and next minute im breathless on the ground in the worst pain ever. Surely she went over the top?! why couldnt she just slap if she was that mad

koalabeargirl · Answer

Calling anyone fat is not acceptable. Just don't do it. Whether or not she should have kicked you depends, I guess. If you have a track record of insulting girls and it's frequently her, then you probably deserved it. If it was a one time thing, a slap would have been sufficient. You have to understand though, it hurts when you call a girl fat. Words hurt. She probably wanted you to hurt because your words hurt her.

contulmiau · Answer

Yes! It's disrespectful; it shows a lack of social manners and the fact that you weren't able to control your anger tells a lot about you - that's not something that any girl would find attractive/desirable in a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Since you say you said that to her out if anger, she probably kicked you in anger too. Not necessarily just because you called her fat. I feel like this might be an escalation of whatever else was going on at the time.

PierceTheAudreu · Answer

She did not over react one bit. It's not right to call a girl fat no matter what. You don't know what's going on in her head. You probably caused her the same amount of emotinal pain as she caused you physical. But unless she was skinny then she didn't over react. If she is skinny then you didn't deserve it

beautifulangel76 · Answer

Calling someone fat is not worth getting kicked in the balls in my opinion. The most she even should have done was like slap or punch you but not kicking you in the balls.

BaileyisDarcy · Answer

Definitely over the top. If she was going to resort to physical violence due to such a harmless comment, then slapping you at best should have sufficed. People need to stop being so sensitive.

Ygritte_snow · Answer

No one like being called fat, but it's not worthy of a kick in the balls. If it had been me I think I would have come up with a sick comeback. 5 hours later. x)

LolliesChan · Answer

Not worth a kick in the balls but she may be more of a kicker, having a hard time punching. I would have kicked you on the shin or slapped you, or both, or just start crying my eyes out.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. The physical pain will pass but nothing compares to the depressing harrowing sadness from bullying. I'm still affected from bullying from 10 years ago.  You're a horrible person

Anonymous · Answer

No. Violence shows a lack of character. I don't think anyone should resort to it unless they're physically threatened and I have a raging temper. Controlling yourself is what makes us better than animals.

LeeLFC · Answer

Because there are some girls out there who are really sensitive about their weight and body. That's like me saying "Yeah well you have a small dick" to a guy who is really sensitive about his penis size.

RationalLioness · Answer

I kind of expected the reaction, but she shouldn't have assaulted your balls. If a woman says something horrid to you, are you free to punch her in the face? No. She was wrong.

miserybusiness · Answer

Times like this when I'm glad I have a vagina. Would be getting kicked in the balls every day if I was male.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

I wouldn't have kicked you in the balls. I would've laughed at your weak attempt to insult me.

MarilynHepburn · Answer

you don't know what the girl struggles with and that could've pushed her over the edge that day.

Niere · Answer

I feel sorry for you dude, she went too far indeed, but you also need to control your anger and select your words carefully.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing a guy says is worthy of a kick in the balls, or any form of physical abuse. It would be the same as hitting a female for "saying" something.
It's just words and should never be reduced to physical violence.

Anonymous · Answer

Well... is it safe to say you won't call a girl fat again?

Anonymous · Answer

If she started the dispute with very negative behavior, I might see where you're coming from. But you shouldn't have said that and she shouldn't have kicked you in the balls. Lol. If you wanna talk shit about someone, talk about their character first. Save the "fat" "ugly" comments for last.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on her personality. If she can laugh at herself she wouldn't have done this. But she might be more sensitive. Its her problem if she concerns about it. And also the situation has importance. If you two were in a row it is really offencive from you to say that

StarryNocturne · Answer

below the belt is off limits, big no no! calling a girl fat is a big nono. I think a slap would of been okay though.

anniD20001 · Answer

Definitely not deserved. While calling a girl fat IS a big deal, the most a lot of girls I know would have done is punch or slap you.

Becca13-13 · Answer

I think its 100% worth it because girls have a low self esteem and keep trying to get it higher and then when guys come around and say those things they hurt girls bad in the heart and there self esteem goes way down.

wtwht · Answer

What about not calling a girl fat? Obviously she was upset. It's all your fault dude!

SilenRose · Answer

No. It was over the top. It's like a guy kicking me in the VJ for calling him fat.

crystalt70 · Answer

Probably not, but you kind of deserved it. You shouldn't mistreat people.

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

No that's just going too far. You shouldn't have said but she sounds like a psycho bitch.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the situation and how you said it. Girls are sensitive about their weight so although it might not seem like a big deal to you, it could've hurt her a lot.

jessiie06 · Answer

More like a punch in the face to break your nose and take all of your teeth out :) You shouln't call a girl fat.

Anonymous · Answer

you deserved it! I would have kicked u in the balls/kneed u in the balls then upper cutted u

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