I have been talking to this guy for a while and went on 3 "dates" with him. The last 2 was at my place, and it was pretty "innocent" in the sense that we just binge watched netflix. On the 3rd date though, we started making out and I felt that he was expecting more than a makeout session (as we were slowly moving towards a physically, different position...) but I stopped him from going any further (as mentioned I am still a virgin, and not sure if I do want to lose it at this stage of the relationship). We haven't talked about our relationship per se, but I do like this guy quite a lot. I guess its quite complicated too - he's graduating college and moving to another city soon. So i guess my question is more like what do guys actually expect from a third date? I turned him (sex?) down on the third date. Relationship-wise, I'm quite sure he's not looking for something serious at the moment, but how do I even start to address the conversation with him? On one side I want to be exclusive, but with the circumstances given? i think i am slightly falling for him, which I am afraid of.
Most Helpful Guy
It gets to the point where I say, if you want a true relationship... get married! Without marriage, there's no commitment which is why people can have sex so easily after the first few dates.0
Most Helpful Girl
Have sex when you are ready. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 3 hours after going on the first date and first time meeting him. We have been together over 4 years. If you aren't ready just wait. Go at your pace1