Can you wait till marriage to have sex with a virgin girl? And girls can you wait till marriage to have sex with a virgin guy?

[Anonymous]

I started dating this girl who told me she's waiting. I told her sex isn't that important to me but the longer I date her the more I'm starting to feel like this was a mistake.

What would you guys do if you met someone like that?

Yes, I can go without sex until we are married

No, I need sex

I can wait but I need oral to keep me sane

I'll persuade her/him that sex is ok and get her/him to have sex with me

[Browneye57]

If you're doing it for religious reasons then plan it together. Done deal.

Otherwise, I think it's a mistake. I used to think more conservatively, but now I really do think you should try someone on BEFORE you make a life-long commitment to them.
So live with them, have sex with them, make DAMN SURE they're exactly what you want. The real person comes out when you live with them. Day in and day out. See just what they're really like.
Sexual incompatibility is a leading cause of strife in LTR's. Frequency desire, level of kink. comfort, skill, etc. Make sure you find a match.

I made a huge mistake in my 20's. I settled for a woman and it turned out to be a disaster. That divorce cost me right at a half-mil.

People as why divorce costs so much. The answer is... BECAUSE IT'S WORTH IT!!

Besides, I wouldn't buy a pair of shoes without trying them on. :)

[MrOracle]

[MrOracle]

[nofunkgiven]

Yes I am ready to wait and in actually waiting until marriage. My guy is very understanding about it. He's ok to wait too.

[ChloeStarfire]

I absolutely can wait until marriage especially if I’m planning on breaking up with my boyfriend

[Anonymous]

I understand that some couples in this predicament agree to give each other hand jobs or oral sex or they agree to masturbate themselves in the presence of each other.

[Justacatlady]

I'd more than likely end the relationship if the person was set on waiting. I need to experience that with a person to know if our relationship is going to work long term

[Anon-ymous1]

Nope. And guys aren't virgins. Only girls are virgins. We just have a first time.

[Mihai_I_Daniel]

Sadly no, I just think that if you're not going to have sex because you don't feel ready after 3 months, you're to imature.

[AVeryEvilUnicorn]

Defining a person as immature because he or she won't have sex is actually immature. It's like teens being like "omg I am so grown up since I drink beer. Yolo!" Have sex or don't but please don't bash on other people's beliefs.

[Mihai_I_Daniel]

Well agian... Context, I mean I always specify that I want to have an sexually active relationship, if you just don't want to do it that's ok. I dig that, it's just that I wouldn't do it personally because I use sex as a mean to get closer to someone, to be more intimate, not just to have an orgasm and feel good for a while, and I belive that I didn't express myself quite well before, but I think that being scared of something like sex is imature, it's part of life, it shouldn't be taboo, well ofc you shouldn't brag about it, but to be afraid of a concept like sex, and not face your fears for the person you love is imature. Except if you abstain for religious reasons, that's ok in my opinion.

[Krazy-Retta]

Being a "virgin" just means vaginal penetration. There is always anal and oral...

[Redstang88]

Could, but won't