So a few women (probably a lot) have given you the cold shoulder, treated you badly, and don't recognize you.
Ok, I get that
Or maybe you're pissed because they just didn't open their legs for you.
>I'm amazing, I'm fantastic, and I refused to be ignored all the time
That tells me all I need to know: you're the exact opposite. You're not amazing, and you're not fantastic. And why should you care because some girls refuse to pay any attention to you?
Chances are you fell into the trap of pursuing the girls every guy is pursuing, and not going after the ones YOU find attractive.
I've been single my entire life, the one woman I actually cared about played me for a fool and left me to hang, but you don't see me with your bitter "woe is me, women suck" attitude.
Sack up, shut up, live your life, and you'll find her32 Reply
Asker+1 yThe ones I find attentive tend to be the ones other guys are pursuing, and, yeah, we do have similar interests, but, FUCK THAT THAT DUDE'S TALL!!! Yup, they're all the same, fuck em all, and, haha, well, kudos for you, unwilling to tell the world to go fuck itself like you deserve to. I get angry when stupid people ignore me because I'm inferior to no one, I'm not the rucking insect, they are.
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Oh I already told the world Fuck you several times. I called that girl out on her bullshit, never spoke to her again
So instead of being bitter because I can't get laid, I focused on school and my career.
Guess what? I studied abroad, worked abroad, in the final talks for a few jobs back home, even have funds saved for a new car.
Besides you're 18, you think you know everything when you don't. I'm turning 23 in may and I wish I could go back in time and kick the shit out of myself for being so stupid at 18
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You are just butthurt from rejection. Unlike me, who became more and more confident everytime a girl rejected me. It's all about how you set your mindset and how you think about it. Two guys can go through the SAME exact situation, yet one of them will get stronger while the other will get weaker depending on how each person thinks. You obviously let those rejections put you down instead of the opposite happening. Hence why you are acting the way you are now.
Hope this helps you find out something about yourself. They say the most important discussions you ever have in your life are the discussions you have with yourself. Good luck02 Reply- +1 y
Well, same story here. Got rejected so many times. Kinda gave up on love and then this girl approached me and we talked for months and had the most intimate talks (you know, the usual) and out of the cold she drops me. I was devastated at first.
Now I'm working on a huge project for this company which means that I'm earning quite a lot of money and life looks great again, now she wants me back. I'm loving this because now I know that she's just a gold digger or and not interested in me as a person.
Still single but all frustrations I ever got from failed loves I just put in working out.
Overall, her stringing me along with lies and never having the intention to have an relationship made me stronger than ever. 💪
You're a little young to be writing women off. Wait until you go to college and you're around women not high school girls, also don't go into things like that with a chip on your shoulder, it's not good for you and it's not appealing to women, just so you know.
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Asker+1 yYeah well, 18 shitty years have made me pretty bitter.
Asker+1 yYou're whole life hasn't been shitty and you know it.
Asker+1 yMine has
Asker+1 yCan't help feeling bitter, even if I don't act angry or bitter in real life, you could not believe how much hatred there is in me.
+1 y"I'm amazing, I'm fantastic, and I refuse to be ignored all the time." Ahahah x) That's a good start for a happier life x)
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+1 yYa know what would be a laugh, if every girl ignored this, get it?
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y33 Reply
Asker+1 yYes, is that what you wanted me to say, idiot...
Opinion Owner+1 yOkay I'm an idiot
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You're never gonna get a girl with that mind set, the whole reason a girl likes someone is because they like you as a person. If you think, you're amazing, fantastic, or anything like that, then show them! Don't get mad if the girl isn't in to you, there are other ones out there. And if you give a girl your all and she still doesn't appreciate that, then you shouldn't feel bad about it, because she wasn't worth your time anyway. Now grow a pair, get out there, and stop beating yourself up when a girl doesn't feel the same way as you do, people have their own pefernces, yoiu can't MAKE anyone attracted to you.
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Asker+1 yYeah well, I'm sick of being stuck with the same stupid girls, all of whom I hate, who don't like me and never have, instead of getting to meet new people. I swear once I go to college I'll send a text to personally curse out every stupid asshole I know... or I'll do that on graduation day.
1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Don't confuse rejecting you with ignoring you. And rejection is the norm.
I get that you're hurt, and that's an understandable emotion, but don't turn this hurt into anger at 3.5 billion people.
Aside from saying your amazing and fantastic, what are you doing to make yourself attractive to the opposite sex?00 Reply
+1 yNo, you're not done. I almost went down that path, but then I realized that I was chasing after the wrong women. The women you're chasing after are the ones always depressed and crying about how they can't get a man in their late 30s.
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Asker+1 ySo should I date the fat ones or the ugly ones?
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No, you go out there and look for a woman that's attractive to you, not the woman everyone else is trying to go after.
ok well first off you need to expand your circles if your in hs no offense to anyone reading this but some hs girls can be catty bitches sometimes, you just need to meet a wider range of people, i found that helpful personally, but if you really are done then thats fine 2. not a big deal.
00 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Do u actually walk up to, and talk to women...
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... or do u longingly look at them from afar and disappointed because nothing is happening?57 Reply
Asker+1 yI can't get ignored if I don't talk to them, now can I?
Asker+1 yI do approach girls, and, after a couple days, they ignore me indefinitely.
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First off, make sure that you do your best to look as attractive as possible (hygiene, diet, physical activity, personal style).
I know how rough it is to get rejected by women when u finally pump yourself up to approach them.
Either your approach needs some tweaking (too direct, too passive, lack of eye contact), you're simply going through a dry spell... or you're not approaching enough women.
Guys that have "success" with girls, approach them in massive numbers. They build up a stable of girls that he is talking to, dating, and/or having sex with while he is single. It's a lot like sales. You need many prospects because you KNOW some will flake.
Asker+1 yI'm in high school, that limits things quite a bit for me
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High school sucks for dating because this method of "developing a stable of women" doesn't work.
Teenage girls tend to gossip too much.
If u want to "develop a stable of women", try to do so with girls at other schools, or with girls outside of school. Avoid multiple girls in the same grade, at the same school. ;-)
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yCause every single girl on the planet is a bitch... yeah :/ grow up. It's you not them
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Asker+1 ySilence yourself, child, yeah, they're bitches, did I say everyone, no, I said everyone I know.
Opinion Owner+1 yYou're still in highschool and you call me a child... wow someone is desperate to prove his newly found pubes
Opinion Owner+1 yAnd... this is why girls don't like you. You don't know how to communicate
Asker+1 yHaha, I'm still older than you kid, and no way more of the world.
Opinion Owner+1 yBy what? a few weeks maybe? I'll be 18 next week. Trust me.. I've been through way more than the average person. You on the other hand don't even know the difference between know and no
751 opinions shared on Dating topic. you are this now
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MGTOW21 Reply- +1 y
Yes MGTOW! That's the best thing that's ever happened to me! I live a life of celibacy and solitude ever since my divorce. I haven't been with a woman since. Because of MGTOW I've had my life back amd its fucking great! I have no children and I don't plan on having any. I have a Dodge Viper and an Audi R8, those are my babies. Just go MGTOW bro the hell with females and their wicked ass evil ass shady ass games. You will regret being with a woman cause she will fuck you over, my ex wife played me like a fool forb5 years, MGTOW won't play you, MGTOW will help you be a better independent human being. Being with a female will just sap the life force from ya, your money will be all hers, you will be all hers, you will be her pet, her toy, her plaything, she will just play you and 3-8 other guys while she fucks her ex. This happened to me, learn from my mistake go MGTOW while your still young, make a good life for you, not for some thirsty ass ho that's gonna play you like a fool.
The only opinion I have is be done with women they have no respect for a man and are not faithful and will have sex with women and men all the time meaning cheating so no women are no where worth giving your time of day to
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySo if you're done with girls... does that mean you're into guys now? ;)
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Asker+1 yThe real question is why I relied
Asker+1 y**Replied, dammit
Opinion Owner+1 yHaha you *replied* because you actually do like girls ;)
Asker+1 yI can't just decide to be gay, it doesn't work like that.
Opinion Owner+1 yTrue, it was more of a joke though ;)
I agree with what others said... wait until college where you can date women, not girls. Or maybe just try someone who's not from your school?
+1 yYou're probably one of those guys that will be popular with women in your mid to late-twenties. It happens
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+1 yMarriage rates are the lowest they’ve been in American history. Women aren’t women anymore I agree. Dating women is waaaaay too stressful and time consuming. Focus on yourself king.
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+1 yso whats your question exactly? If i do recall, this is a Q/A site
10 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. So if you don't get a job the first 5 places you apply will you just give up and resign yourself to your parents' basement.
00 Reply344 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah, If you can keep that mindset you'll be rich and stress free, but your little guys gonna win this argument
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yLess competition... JK. I'm a supreme alpha. There's no competition here... HOAHHHH!!
#SoAlpha
#GenticallySexy
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Asker+1 yKeep telling yourself that.
Opinion Owner+1 yI tell myself everyday. Motivation baby
#MotivationBaby
#GeneticallySexy
#AlphaAlpha
Asker+1 yAlpha Alpha?
its okay dude guys are hot anyway ;) aha
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Asker+1 yHahahahahahahahaha
Asker+1 yI know, that was just a foolish statement
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI'm amazing I'm fantastic.
Some complex you have there.
You think it may be your attitude?00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yFind yourself a woman, not a girl...
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Asker+1 yI'm in high school, lady.
Asker+1 yHaha, whatever, at least you had relationships in high school, bet you went to your shitty prom too, not me, I'm a loser, I don't even have a date for the prom.
Time to make some new friends!
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Asker+1 yFuck, I meant to say done.
+1 yI'm done with women too, bruh.
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Yeeee i feel u. Im done with men as well. Screw dem! ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
+1 yWhatever makes you happy dude.
00 ReplyOk, have fun with that lol
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Asker+1 yBlah blah blah
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYou gonna switch teams?
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+1 ysadly its impossible to remove this desire
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMmk, bye random guy.
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Honestly should I just give up on women at this point?
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