I've given up on women. Good idea? Bad idea?

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I have given up and I don't take any of the blame for failing with women as it's not my fault that I was born with a disability that makes my automatically unattractive to women. However, I'm not going to wish women the best in a relationship with another man either given the amount of attacks I have received because of my disability overtime. I didn't ask for this this disability that has made my life a living hell and I don't expect for those who are perfect/don't have a disability to understand my perspective. Consider all of you blessed that you're not me.

If you feel deep down that I shouldn't give up on women then make the case for why and prove to me that I can finally have someone who will love me and not hate me.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

You having poor experiences and disabled is no excuse for being rude and bitter. It is your choice to give up. I won't stop you. But if you chose celibacy like me, then make sure it's the right decision for YOU. Not for anybody else. This is your choice. Not ours. Some are meant for relationships, others are not. And there are others like me who are celibate by choice for the kingdom of God. Depending on the severity of your disability you may not be fit for marriage. And relationships often lead to marriage if both parties want that. Nobody should be rude because your disabled. But understand most people don't have the capacity or patience for that. I won't get into the spiritual side of it. But I will tell you again, it is no excuse to be bitter. Because it's very clear to me that it's far more than just your disability that makes women go the opposite direction.

BellePepper · Accepted Answer

I think it's silly to think you won't find anyone who liked you when there are like... 3.5 billion people you could date.

I understand how it can be hard to meet new people and invest in a relationship but like if one fell into your lap where's the harm?

rgb008 · Accepted Answer

Okay then. Thanks for the announcement Anonymous 45+

Aksamlar · Accepted Answer

It can be a good idea, it depends on your situation, but there are people whom you may like, and whom are very good matches. Though, at your age it might be more difficult. Go to more places more often, meet more people, and you will have a larger chance.

bartoszNoBsxd · Accepted Answer

if you have a disability it's not because you wanted it there is someone out there who will love you for who you are and never give up

Mindob · Answer

serious recommendation... stop pitying yourself.
I used to do that and it never got me anywhere
but if instead you start being confident about yourself and see the positive side of things, a woman will eventually come

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

It's all up to you, some women have given up on men

MakingMeHiiiigh · Answer

Pick yourself up, you're all right. Just work on yourself and get em

Anonymous · Answer

don't give up on anything just because you haven't gotten what you wanted

Midget_Hug · Answer

What is your disability?

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