I've given up on women. Good idea? Bad idea?

[Anonymous]

I have given up and I don't take any of the blame for failing with women as it's not my fault that I was born with a disability that makes my automatically unattractive to women. However, I'm not going to wish women the best in a relationship with another man either given the amount of attacks I have received because of my disability overtime. I didn't ask for this this disability that has made my life a living hell and I don't expect for those who are perfect/don't have a disability to understand my perspective. Consider all of you blessed that you're not me.

If you feel deep down that I shouldn't give up on women then make the case for why and prove to me that I can finally have someone who will love me and not hate me.

Good idea as you weren't meant to be with women to begin with

Bad idea because there's someone for everyone. Just kidding!

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I don't see how I have a choice when women don't give me a chance. The consistent rejection is a clear message from women that I don't deserve someone otherwise I would have receives at least 1 yes.

[btbc92]

You having poor experiences and disabled is no excuse for being rude and bitter. It is your choice to give up. I won't stop you. But if you chose celibacy like me, then make sure it's the right decision for YOU. Not for anybody else. This is your choice. Not ours. Some are meant for relationships, others are not. And there are others like me who are celibate by choice for the kingdom of God. Depending on the severity of your disability you may not be fit for marriage. And relationships often lead to marriage if both parties want that. Nobody should be rude because your disabled. But understand most people don't have the capacity or patience for that. I won't get into the spiritual side of it. But I will tell you again, it is no excuse to be bitter. Because it's very clear to me that it's far more than just your disability that makes women go the opposite direction.

[Asker]

I don't see how I have a choice when women don't give me a chance. The consistent rejection is a clear message from women that I don't deserve someone otherwise I would have received at least 1 yes. At least men want you.

[btbc92]

So go travel somewhere else if you have problems attracting women in your area if a partner is important to you. That's what smart people do. And no, men aren't chasing me because I'm not letting them. I just told you I'm celibate. Plus. they only chase me for things I don't approve of or want, and that is sex and lust.

[BellePepper]

I think it's silly to think you won't find anyone who liked you when there are like... 3.5 billion people you could date.

I understand how it can be hard to meet new people and invest in a relationship but like if one fell into your lap where's the harm?

[Asker]

I don't see how I have a choice when women don't give me a chance. The consistent rejection is a clear message from women that I don't deserve someone otherwise I would have received at least 1 yes. At least men want you.

[BellePepper]

maybe it would help if you didn't say the exact same thing to all of them

[rgb008]

Okay then.
Thanks for the announcement Anonymous 45+

[Asker]

I don't see how I have a choice when women don't give me a chance. The consistent rejection is a clear message from women that I don't deserve someone otherwise I would have received at least 1 yes. At least men want you.

[Aksamlar]

It can be a good idea, it depends on your situation, but there are people whom you may like, and whom are very good matches. Though, at your age it might be more difficult. Go to more places more often, meet more people, and you will have a larger chance.

[bartoszNoBsxd]

if you have a disability it's not because you wanted it there is someone out there who will love you for who you are and never give up

[Mindob]

serious recommendation... stop pitying yourself.
I used to do that and it never got me anywhere
but if instead you start being confident about yourself and see the positive side of things, a woman will eventually come

[SunnyCaliGirl]

It's all up to you, some women have given up on men

[Asker]

I don't see how I have a choice when women don't give me a chance. The consistent rejection is a clear message from women that I don't deserve someone otherwise I would have received at least 1 yes. At least men want you.

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Pick yourself up, you're all right. Just work on yourself and get em

[Anonymous]

don't give up on anything just because you haven't gotten what you wanted

[Midget_Hug]

What is your disability?