so i've been feeling depressed bc bad stuff happened and everything..
if i show my sadness and just distant myself away from the guy i like, would he be disgusted or something by me being sad?
he doesn't seem to care lately anyway.. it hurts. :(
it's happened before. but last night he said he's worried about me. but other than that we've barely talked for the past two days. like only a few words.
do guys be freaked out or just hate depressed girls? or will they try to take care of them until the end?
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Being around depressed people can be incredibly draining, especially if you're close to depression yourself. Think of it like swimming, and the other person is drowning, flailing, and grabbing at you. If you're a strong swimmer, you can hold both of you afloat, but it's a lot of effort. If you're barely making it yourself, the other person can pull you under.
That said, I totally get how difficult it is to deal with depression. The one thing you need most is loved ones there for you, and when they're not, it makes it worse.1