I have this friend who apparently is said to be a 7 out of 10 but he’s depressed and has no job but he gets so much attention from women and he’s like full on depressed and anxious. I have a decent job and women don’t want to date me. Why? Like he talks to women that are like 22-25 and I can’t talk to any women cos they just dismiss me. Why is this? What’s so good about depressed guys?
I went with option A. Nothing is good about depressed guys, and in generally I can't say that I have ever observed women wanting to date them. In fact, many of my friends decided to break up when their boyfriends got depressed.
Women most likely find your friend appealing because he is good-looking and probably has somewhat decent social skills.
Why women don't want to date you is hard to say without more information about what you look like or how good your social skills are, but having a job is not in itself enough to make you more appealing. It's definitely a plus, but unless you hang out in really specific circles most people have a job. It's not much of a qualifier, is it? Also if your friend is extremely depressed, him not having a job at the moment is not really a disqualifier either. If he's severely depressed, you wouldn't necessarily expect him to be able to work, would you?
If women dismiss you, you need to work on your social skills and/or improve your looks.
Maybe he’s charming and shows his vulnerable side a lot to women? Some people do have a “savior complex” in which they’re hoping to be the one who “saves” the other person from misery.
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