Why don't girls like over masculine guys?

[Notabadguy]

Since girls like masculinity on boys, why don't girls like over masculine guys? Aren't they the epitome of masculinity?

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Dammn lot of body builders are here on GAG

[furiousrat]

Girls tend to like guys with muscle, but guys that take steroids aren't attractive because there is nothing natural about a body like that. Also just because muscles are a masculine trait, it doesn't mean that somebody with 20 times larger muscles than somebody else is 20 times more masculine than that person. It has to do with a lot of other things as well, like how the guy talks walks and acts.

I should add that I'm a big fan of the guy in the picture, Ronnie Coleman, but yeah I don't think a lot of people find that type of body attractive.

[SngBirdy]

Not bad reaching MHO 31%.
Everything you said is true, except: "but guys that take steroids aren't attractive".
Jeff Seid
Connor Murphy
David Laid
Steve Cook

[furiousrat]

Yeah, you are very right. I meant to say guys with the "300 pound bodybuilder" look aren't attractive, because that's the only type of guys that people think are on steroids. Hell even a lot of lifters think the ones you mentioned are natty

[SngBirdy]

I know lol. But i admit Connor Murphy could be natty, i included him anyways because 99% of people will never look like him without steroids lol

[furiousrat]

Yeah, he actually might be. I also used to think laid was natty until philion made his video on him discussing whether or not he was juicing. I still kinda want to believe davids clean but it's kinda hard to believe

[SngBirdy]

I think when it comes to the likeliness of these 4 being natty, its this order:
Connor Murphy
David Laid
Jeff Seid /Steve Cook

Connor is bigger than David. But david just looks too insane for his age. Its not 100% settled in my eyes, but just very very unlikely.

But lets not forget our biggest, grass-fed vegan natty bodybuilder: Simeon Panda xD

[furiousrat]

Simon pando is the nattiest lifter to ever touch a barbell

[Selina_Kyle_]

You guys should be a trinity with @xTom98 xD

[furiousrat]

@Selina_Kyle_ who says we arent?

[Selina_Kyle_]

things getting hot here, I better leave 👋

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Ill be a duo with furiousrat, but tom needs another 20lbs before he can join.

[SngBirdy]

And no im not serious

[SngBirdy]

Because im already a Duo with Henry

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy don't tease me with Henry now..

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Thats precisely why im donig it

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy and it is working pretty good.

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Then ill keep doing it until you go crazy.
Thank me later

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy don't tease the cat a lot, she may suddenly show her claws on u

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Well i have bad news for you. I like claws, sorry :c

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy not all claws scratch ur only back

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ HAHAHAH i didn't even think of that, you naughty girl.
I meant she showed her claws in a argument :D

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy how do u know I didn't talk about making u blind?;)

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy u've never seen the claws of Catwoman, have u? u r thinking of claws that a simple woman can have

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Okay you win, catwoman.
Tuck your claws back in, until next time i tease you. Deal?

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy hmm I can consider that

[xTom98]

20lbs more? I can't do that sadly, It would hinder my performance when running/swimming in races. You guys can be the trinity, Ill be over here enjoying my sandwich 😂

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 omg does it really effect

[xTom98]

ofc, its more mass that you have to move and it takes more muscle takes more energy out of you. Ever seen a Bodybuilder run a marathon or sprint? 😂

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 glad im not bodybuilding

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 but I have a good diet and a curvy waist 😏

[xTom98]

great, you'll need that if you plan on beeing catwoman #2 or a better version of her 😄

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 a girl can dream.. she has tits of Aphrodite that I can never have 😂 also green eyes 😑

[xTom98]

you're missing tits and green eyes and Im missing muscle and a batcave... were like the cheap Version of Batman and Catgirl 😂😂

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 u have blue eyes and don't have a thing u can't bcs of ur genes like tits. All u need is money

[xTom98]

I got money... just no cave under my house 😂 I have a underground garage tho, does that count? 🤔

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 u may eventually get them by wealth

[SngBirdy]

@xTom98 Are you sure. 20lbs isn't much. I see olympic simmers in the 190-220lbs range.
The most important thing is to keep your balls shaved.
Shaved balls = 30% more aerodynamics

[xTom98]

thats the first thing every swimmer does, its actually 32,2% more aerodynamic.

Im already 195 lbs tho 😂

[furiousrat]

@xTom98 what the fuck you're 195? you gotta be like 7 feet tall or something

[xTom98]

unless I calculated wrong Im not lol, 88kgs 188cm

[SngBirdy]

@xTom98 step up your game. im 190lbs and 5'1"

[xTom98]

a german guy beeing 5'1? yeah... no, that gave it away too easily.

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 aww Hitler seeing his race superior 😂

[SngBirdy]

@xTom98 Yeah, and thats with my height shoes.
Without them, im 4'9".
Yet 5 lbs away from your weight.
STEP UP YOUR GAME

[xTom98]

well, step down yours 😂

[SngBirdy]

@xTom98 I won't step down until i leave HUMANITY BEHIND.
I just checked again, im 4'7" actually, because i had my socks on.
And im 191 lbs, not 190lbs.
You are getting mogged by a midget bruh

[xTom98]

damn, its getting worse and worse for me. Please dont make me cry infront of all these people...

[SngBirdy]

@xTom98 Ill stop.
But ill come back in 2 months at 200lbs and one inch less of height (buzzcut).
Thats when you'll kill yourself.
And i'll kill myself because i thought i was 5'1" (perfect height), but in reality im just 4'4".
:c

[furiousrat]

shit dude im the lightest guy here? I'm 183 and 6"0

[SngBirdy]

@furiousrat u wot m8? Im 6" too, but 191 lbs.
How the fook are you just 7 lbs lighter than me?
Or am i not as big as i think i am?
I mean you are big too, but i would have expected a higher weight difference between us than just 7 lbs.

[xTom98]

no idea, I wouldn't have guessed that Id be the heaviest either lol.
You guys look abit bigger then me

[SngBirdy]

@xTom98 Yeah but you are tal, its understandable.
But me and furiousrat are only 7 lbs apart with the same height.

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy do you wonder my lbs? 😂

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Yeah tell me. I bet you are tiny. Like, i could throw you around, tiny.

[furiousrat]

@SngBirdy well you're quite a bit leaner than me I think
also the two pictures on the sides of my banner are from half a year ago when I cut down to 167, so yeah I'm quite a bit lighter in those pictures than I am now

[xTom98]

she could replace a dumbbell lol

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy just checked 105.82 lbs 😒my country using only kg

[SngBirdy]

Aye that makes sense. Do you have the same bodyfat at your current weight right now, or are you going full bloat mode

[furiousrat]

I have a bit more but not anything crazy, just a bit less definition

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_
I knew it lol, you are a baby.
Maybe i should make an olympic discipline where we throw selina as far as we can.

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy u r like both complimenting and mocking at me 😂

[furiousrat]

im in

[xTom98]

can I join? I dont wanna be left out 🤷

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 u r not talking about olympic discipline right?

[xTom98]

what would happen if I said yes? completly hypothetical of course.

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ " u r like both complimenting and mocking at me".
Mocking? I wasn't mocking. I could throw you several meters and would make it an olympic discipline.

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy And the cat would jump over wall to ur head with her claws!

[SngBirdy]

@Selina_Kyle_ Sorry but at 47 kg, i could overpower you with my finger :DD

[Selina_Kyle_]

@SngBirdy I am very agile and acrobatic, I would have dodged you like Catwoman would😏

[englisc]

They don't like it because it's unnatural. For a guy to get to the size of Ronnie Coleman, the guy in the picture, he has to take a ton of steroids - drugs. Women will find a man who is naturally muscular to be the most attractive, but once it gets unnatural it becomes a turn off to the large majority.

[Notabadguy]

But doesn't that make him too masculine and an epitome of masculinity?

[englisc]

Not exactly. I think that lifting weights is great, becoming strong and more muscular is great, but masculinity is about more than being big and muscular. I don't think that bodybuilding is a particularly masculine sport.

Masculinity is about many different characteristics, but basically it's about what you can do. It isn't just a look. Men traditionally trained and decorated themselves in order to look more fearsome as warriors, they didn't tart themselves up to get laid. Obsession with appearance is a feminine trait. Bodybuilding is all about appearance. Compare that to say MMA. Function vs appearance. Notice the difference in appearance - fighters tend to be muscular but not freakishly.

So, a bodybuilder focuses on appearance. In competition they dance on stage, oiled up, wearing only a thong, in front of a mostly male audience. Fighters beat the shit out of each other.

On some level I think women unconsciously realise this difference.

[kaiti_rose1]

I actually don't oddly enough. I go for cute/handsome more than overly masculine. I don't really like tons and tons of muscles, altho being fit is nice. I notice nice hair or a cute smile way faster than i'll notice muscles. sometimes i wonder if girls go for that type more out of cultural peer pressure more than anything. like guys going for the skinny beach babes.

[kaiti_rose1]

sorry, i read the question wrong lol

[kaiti_rose1]

i guess the main thing that puts me off about overly masculine guys is that an attitude always seems to come with it. they don't seem as sweet and humble, but I could be wrong on that one. mostly I'm just intimidated by them because they are out of my league. I feel like someone who has worked that hard on there body is not going to understand if I don't put as much work into looking good as they do.

[kaiti_rose1]

besides, too much muscle isn't fun to cuddle and it just seems like a lot of vanity to me, like who actually needs that much muscle?

[SngBirdy]

Well girl, you are being very honest here. Hats off to you.
But as you said yourself, its more about the attitude. So i think if someone looked intimidating to you, but he opens up to you and is sweet and kind, i dont think you are going to have a problem with that.
No?

[kaiti_rose1]

@SngBirdy yes, then I would be fine with it

[sarahhcmarie]

ewww that's so ugly
i like the amount of muscle tom holland has
it's basically perfect

[Selina_Kyle_]

Not bad, but for perfection 👌🏻https://giphy. com/gifs/body-cavill-socialite-3q6tNOQg4r5ew

[sarahhcmarie]

@Selina_Kyle_ i can't see

[Selina_Kyle_]

I know 😒

[furiousrat]

yo does he even lift?
what do you think swolebro @SngBirdy

[SngBirdy]

@furiousrat
"Tom Holland"
"The amount of muscle he has"
"The muscle"
"He has"
"Tom Holland"
"Muscle"

Something doesn't add up

[furiousrat]

yeah something is off here isn't it 🤔

[sarahhcmarie]

@SngBirdy He got the perfect amount of muscle.
It's not too muscley
FigHT mE

[sarahhcmarie]

@furiousrat ur just a jealous fat rat 😩

[SngBirdy]

Girls love masculine guys, but they are also intimidate by them.

That picture you posted is an ugly freak on steroids. What does that have anything to do with masculinity

[Notabadguy]

Cuz masculinity is defined by the amount of muscles, isn't that obvious?

[SngBirdy]

Muscles play a big role, but not when you look like roney roleman. he's digusting man.
And masculinity also comes from the way you talk, stand and move around your body while you are walking.
Nevertheless, girls love masculinity, but as i said, it can also be quite intimidating.

[winterfox10]

Imagine that you're a 5'3 woman. You're not especially strong, and your body is naturally smaller and pudgier than a 6'0 athletic male's. You are both drinking in a bar, and he starts whooping and hollering because his bro just did some "beta-male shit."

Wouldn't that be intimidating? Wouldn't you rather he snuggle in close with you, and speak to you in a gentle, quiet voice?

[Jaximus-Lion]

From all the over masculine men you could choose, you took the 8 times Mr Olympia legend Ronnie Coleman?

[Notabadguy]

My bad I don't know who he is, I just browsed the net

[Parkwayvwhitechapel]

Women like lean slightly muscular guys, not too muscular, but not too skinny either like this

this on the other hand is repulsive to women

[Selina_Kyle_]

Perfection 😍😍😍
@angelicempress

[AngelicEmpress]

OUR BABYYYYYYYYY <3

[Selina_Kyle_]

@AngelicEmpress those back muscles 😍😍😍

[xTom98]

lol, both of you have the same crush? 😂

[Selina_Kyle_]

@xTom98 yes and I would have never imagined we are in a sincere agreement of sharing

[AngelicEmpress]

@xTom98 Yeap cause we both have excellent taste!

[Selina_Kyle_]

@AngelicEmpress Awwww <3

[JCT666]

Masculinity isn't just about who has the biggest muscles.

[Notabadguy]

But doesn't media displays masculinity as who has more muscles?

[JCT666]

The media is not always correct, man. It brainwashes people.

[Taylor_C]

The guy in the photo hardly even looks like a human. I like masculinity in a guy, but this is like a parody.

[cancan73]

Cause it looks horrible,
It’s almost as bad as being obese

[Notabadguy]

That doesn't make sense, if girls like masculine guys then being more masculine should make them more appealing right?

[cancan73]

Not at all
Women like healthy looking guys not freaks on gear

[Mynamejef696]

I don't know I got slot more female attention after I gained some lean muscle mass I don't think they like the whole unnatural roided out look though 😂

[IlyaTheImpaler]

That's not simply overly masculine, that's leaving humanity behind

[SngBirdy]

"that's leaving humanity behind".
Kek, first time i see someone saying that

[Genie23]

Because they freak me out.

[Notabadguy]

But don't you like masculine guys lol? Doesn't make sense to me

[Genie23]

I wouldn't hug them because I'm afraid they will end up breaking my bones, lol

[Notabadguy]

So other than that reason you like over masculine guys?

[Genie23]

I Love muscular guys, yes. My ex boyfriend was one and my current boyfroend is also muscular. He looks perfect. But if he had more muscles. Like overly muscular body, I wouldn't have been attracted to him.

Anything in excess, is not nice.

[Notabadguy]

But that doesn't make sense, if girls like masculine guys then if the guy being too masculine be a good thing?

[Genie23]

How does that not make any sense?
If a guy says, he likes thin girls. Doesn't mean he likes overly skinny, anorexid girls. There is a difference between skinny and overly skinny girls. Just like that, there is a very noticeable difference between a muscular guy and overly muscular guy. I find the muscular guys attractive. I don't find the overly muscular ones thar attractive. It's that simple.

[Genie23]

Anorexic*

[SngBirdy]

@Genie23 "Masculinity" is so much more a vibe and a aura you give off, then the muscles itself.
The dude doesn't know what he's talking about

[Notabadguy]

@SngBirdy but doesn't the media potrays masculinity with muscles?

[SngBirdy]

No. David Beckham is considered masculine, but he's skinny as hell.
Muscles help, but they are not the definition of "masculinity"

[Genie23]

True. I think he was talking about Muscular guys.. lol.

You are definitely right about Masculinity. It's the vibe aura, attributes and behaviour that makes someone Masculine.

[Lance1965]

A lot of women hate bulging muscles. I have heard women say that many times.

[SngBirdy]

The dudes question makes no sense. He talks about masculinity, which is a vibe and aura you give off, and proceeds to post some ugly monkey

[TheHillsRAlive]

I think they're just fine... beautiful specimens to behold... how of the population do they make up? Maybe 5-10%

[RodneyRustless]

Protip: body builders are some of the least masculine men in existence. Just saying.

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

We do, but the guy in the picture isn't masculine
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[SngBirdy]

So you like me?
I knew it

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

@SngBirdy lmao MASCULINE
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[SngBirdy]

But i am. I only cry 4 times when i watch Lord of the Rings.
How is that not masculine? You should see my friends. I counted at least 2 more cries during each movie of the trilogy

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

xx
~ Mrs Manson

[CoffeeWC]

Too much of a good thing is bad.

[numerouno85]

King Ronnie! JACKED!! lol

[Shimy]

Not my type.

[Anonymous]

Yuck.. Nope

[denis94]

They dont?