Mainly they are young women and they are experimenting with their identity just to discover who they are or who they want to be. I think it's fine to experiment diverse looks, activities and such while young (not only for women but also for men. Even if it the end you choose what it's traditional, it helps to make you sure you made your elections in life because you wanted and not because you thought that's what's expected.
About exactly why a woman would like to look masculine (or the other way a man would like to look femenine) maybe is because they use looks as a way to slowly get closer to a personality improvement as a human they desire. Humans personality traits divides in femenine and masculine, also some people call ones ying traits or yang traits. There are femenine traits that are positive for humans and also others that and same story with masculine traits. Plus, usually a masculine positive trait is opposite to a femenine negative and the other way, a femenine positive is opposite to a masculine negative.
The greater aim of any human beign is to learn to develope both femenine and masculine positive traits and to get over negatives humans traits of both sides. However I think trying to get those traits which are mainly psychological through forcing looks is naive and kind of childish. That's why I see playing with looks and identity something to do when someone's yet young.
On the other side it could also be a test, in the sense that they don't want to look sexually attractive, that way if someone approaches is because they are very interested in something out of her look.
Just to end, Cara Delevingne is either lesbian or bisexual (as she has have some girls as a partner in the last year's) so, she doesn't care that much about showing femenine traits so they attract a beign that lacks of femeninity (because you know, we are usually attracted by the traits we lack of, and the more guys lack of development in their femenine side the more they like exaggerated femenine girls).
And too many paragraphs trying to give a different perspective. I hope it serves, and if it doesn't so sorry for this long piece of trash I wrote.
everybody knows men are superior to women ( testosterone being superior to estrogen ) despite how they try to create an illusion of equality. women know they can never be like men so they are helplessly filled with envy because they are stupid and delusional. they think they will look better if they copy and imitate men. but they only look dumber.
on the other hand there are females like me who love accept the reality and the order of things, and instead of trying to compete with men we love men for being so great and it makes us happy.
i dont understand you logic... "beautiful the way they are."
they aren't naturally born with makeup, waxed legs, manicured nails, etc... but im guessing that is fine by you?
shaving their heads doesn't make them any less of a woman... they just literally have less hair lmao. why not its way less work and it looks fucking fire. i dont think cara looks more masculine at all in that photo too. its a style and a choice... so many men grow out their hair to be long nothing is wrong with that either...
It think it has to do with Feminism & LGBTQ+ because i think its like a trend in this communities to show some type of that they are stronger then men. I don't understand really why they need that. Because most guys i think don't care. I think its because of there ego or there some type of fears or feeling not strong enough could be related to there family or past usually. Probably they had abusive father or was living just with a single mother i think thats mostly the case.
If any girls read this. You are beautiful the way you are you don't need to be more masculine or have tatoos or have short hair. Most guys like femine women opposites attract. Why any guy would want to have a girlfriend that looks just like a guy.
I think you’re reading into it too much. If a woman wants to have short hair why shouldn’t she do as she pleases? A lot of women prefer short hair too cause it’s easier to maintain than long hair. It could be as simple as that. And I’m sure there are men out there that really don’t care what length a woman’s hair is and will date them regardless. Also... who says they do it fair men and not themselves?
Girls dress up for men. That's a fact. In the old times, when there was no mirror, still girls used to dress up nicely. Why? To attract good quality men.
I got long hair but I also got a combined 15 years of martial arts experience, workout (lifting and HITT), drink like a fish, and am good at male oriented tasks. It’s just who I am 🤷🏻♀️I don’t care what guys think about it and I’m sure those women also don’t really care.
Are you saying this all based on their hairstyle choice? I personally wouldn’t cut my hair but I don’t see anything wrong with women choosing to rock shorter hair. It must be pretty freeing. Do you realize how much work goes into maintaining long hair? Lol.
I don't find buzzcuts or very short hair attractive on women either, but it's their right to do it and I'm sure some have their reasons, like it may look better to them or just be easier to manage.
Despite all that however, people do need to understand that if you do something that's kind of unusual for people of your race or gender, then some people won't find it attractive, especially if it's bold or outside the box, because people are allowed to have preference.
Because feminists say that if you grow long hair, wear makeup, shave your arms and legs, wear dresses and heels, etc. then you are not a strong powerful woman. You are a slave and being oppressed by the patriarchy. So these girls adopt the feminist label thinking that all this bullsh*t is true. They are infected with cancer.
Theyre trying to make a statement. Long ago girls were expected to have long hair, wear dresses and to stay home to look after the children and to clean the house. Now woman are shaving their heads, wearing boyish clothes and getting more manly jobs to show men that woman can do anything that guys can do. Its kind of a big fvck you.
"to show men" LOL! Unless the answer is that is just what they like, that is what appeals to them than it is a stupid answer. "to show men" being the reason for anything is an idiotic reason... LOL!
Why have you framed your entire life so? "TO SHOW MEN!"
I feel like it’s something women have always wanted to do - but being that society forces us to have longer hair and look pretty, we have to keep that image. It’s all taught. I feel like a buzz cut would make my life easier. It’s so hot in the summer with long hair 😭 It also depends how you were raised. I was raised to never cut my hair and being a tomboy is a no-no. So here I am.
Society doesn't force. Society teaches you. Why does it do that? So that you can live happily and attract a good partner. Feminine women are more attractive.
Exactly - the reason why they’re more attractive is cause it taught you to think like that. Sexual preference, what your ideal is everything. So if a woman wanted to fit into those standards she has to look / behave like that.
It's not what is taught. It's biology. Why did women grew boobs? To attract men. That's biology. No other mammal has all time full boobs. Only women does, why? To attract men.
Yeah, I'm also not understanding why you believe that it's "society" which tells women how to be in order to attract men. Masculinity is drawn to femininity; femininity is drawn to masculinity. Fundamentally. Animalistically.
It seems you believe that humans are "blank slates" after birth, just programmable machines. But none of the science says that, to my knowledge.
For a fundamental argument, neuroscience tells us that humans primarily run on instinct, and our logical center, the frontal lobe, the most evolved part of the brain's main purpose is simply to rationalize baser instincts [Dr. Steven Novella]. i. e. Humans are mostly just really smart animals.
And when you look at animals, no one has to tell them how to behave. There are social standards, still, within, say, a group of chimps. Rules each member has to abide by, for social cohesion. But, instinct knows what it wants. No one has to convince a monkey to find some traits more attractive than others. They already know. Innately. Instinctually. And, since humans are mostly instinct.
If it were purely cultural, wouldn't you think there would be much more massive differences among different societies? It seems relatively the same, to me.
For instance, women aren't committing most of the murders in any area in the world. Why are women more peaceful? Is it just all those different societies all successfully convince women not to commit violent crime?
In any case, what role do you think instinct has to play?
Some girls prefer to look a certain way. It doesn’t matter what a guy thinks, if I felt like cutting my hair just to try it out I would. And it’s not necessarily to be more masculine, it’s more so breaking gender norms and trying new things and styles
I mean that’s what the friends of mine with short hair have told me in the past. Not from personal experience. Why does it matter anyways tho, there are sooooo many girls who like to be feminine still and have long hair.
Because from the feminist point of view men are the gold standard for strength. They hate themselves & their gender and don’t even realize it. They think being masculine is the only way to be strong.
Many of them also foolishly believe that men give af. Men don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who is trying to compete with him constantly. Nor do men value the stuff in women that women value in men like her career/degrees/ability to fart louder than an elephant.
They just have this weird thing where because they've been taught about feminism, "societal conditioning", "oppressive" gender roles etc. They think that they should do the opposite to rebel. Normal women don't do this though, those women tend to be damaged in some way.
Why are men becoming more feminine? It's culture man. Like it or not the culture is changing again as it always does.
Also explain what you mean by masculine. Because tomboys certainly exist and they have always been accepted as long as I've been alive. Why is this at different?
What? I love tomboys, what are you talking about? Tomboys are cute dude. Especially when they still retain their femininity but merely dress more boyish.
Because being beautiful or feminine isn’t the only criteria for being a woman. We also don’t need to pander to other people. If we want short hair, fine. If we want long hair, fine. Tattoos? Body mods? Big muscles? Fine. Who gives a shit, seriously?
If a non feminized woman somehow upsets you, either shut up about them and move on with your life, or grow a pair and accept different views on the matter.
I asked "why are women trying to be masculine?" You answered that woman can be whatever they want. But I didn't ask whether women can be whatever they want or not. But the dumb kid can't understand that 😂
I’ll use small words so you can understand. The answer to the question, why are women trying to be masculine, is that they can be whatever they want to be. That includes masculine.
When I shaved part of my head I didn't do it to look masculine. I did because I wanted an new hairstyle and I like the half shaven look. Besides short hair is much easier to take care off and much cooler. Long hair can be a pain in the ass.
@Agape93 honestly though, this guy thinks dresses, makeup and heels equals masculine look just because you have short hair. Like wtf kind of logic is that? Lol
@twenty2 and short hair accompanied by a dress, make up and heels is feminine. Yes you are ignorant and apparently so much so that you can't even realize. That's the sad type of ignorant.
@twenty2 how much do you want to bet that if a guy with short hair wore dress, make up and heels you would say he looks feminine and not masculine? Why the double standard? Dresses, makeup and heels have been considered feminine for many many years now. You can say whatever you want too as well, you're still ignorant.
No what I'm after is you realizing that you can still look feminine with short hair. Emma Watson looks feminine even with short hair and very good still too. We get it, you don't like short hair on women. You like long but that doesn't mean you can't have short hair and still look feminine.
@twenty2 if she wears feminine clothes then yeah she'll look feminine. And so what women can only be attracted to masculinity? Ever heard of bisexual or lesbian girls? Damn your ignorance is high
@Twenty2 Ya Emma Watson is feminine as hell. Also cutting your hair short is doesn't make you a men. You don't grow ball beacuse you shaved your head. Women do it because they like the look not because they want to be men.
Never wanted to LOOK masculine, but have had to become like a man to carry 100% of burdens cause those around me were weak. Chicks that wanna look like a dude are usually lesbians.
Because they want to and realize that they don't have to be subjected to prejudiced standards of beauty that can degrade self[-esteem and cause depression if internalized. I think that in itself is a beautiful thing.
I just talked to the 🙂 and realised something. It's not men who are pushing you 🙂, it's you. You're not good enough, well, you're not social at all. You are keeping yourself at a pedestal that only you know how high is. It's not men's fault that they don't like you.
In this case Cara shaved her head for a movie role playing a cancer victim. I don't think there is one simple answer. Different people have different reasons.
stop making generalizations. girls can do whatever the fuck they’d like with their appearance. it is up to no one else but themselves. we honestly don’t care about your preferences.
So you're okay with telling me to not make generalization yet you're saying that anyone can do whatever they want. WoW! P. S. it's alright if you don't care. Move on.
if you used your brain you’d notice that i said girls can do whatever they want with their APPEARANCE. and you’re being sexist by saying women must be feminine in order to be accepted. so shut your hypocritical ass up.
Women have a right to be as hedonistic as they wish and to dress however they wish. However, they shouldn't complain if men do not find them attractive as a result of this.
You're saying it's not my place to criticize but it's their place to do whatever they want! That's SEXIST. I just asked a question, never said that they should do this or do that.
LOL! That girl looks about 105 pounds and as if she couldn't even lift 50 pounds over her head. I think I might be able to touch my index finger and thumb together around her arm. She looks really tough.
I don't know maybe because all the "women are just as good/ better than men" stuff is being pushed so hard. And people are sick of it? I really don't know hopefully it's not that though lol, that would be sorta backwards.
The way we look is gender specific. Do you know women grew boobs to attract men? It's a visual thing. Girls and boys appear different so it's easy to differentiate. Nowadays girls are doing whatnot to be like men, Look like men. That's not good.
Physical features such as breasts are gender specific true enough, but hairstyles aren't. If neither gender engaged in grooming our hair wether male or female would grow long and look much the same. Hairstyles are about as gender specific as shoes
Most men go bald. Women have chose bald men throughout history more than full head of hair men. Its genetic. Its a masculine look, because feminine is long hair.
@bamesjond0069 actually historically men always had long hair, short hair is a fairly modern thing. And you were talking about gender specific hairstyles so the hair onto0 of your head, how does facial hair effect hairstyles?
I'm not saying women always used to cut their hair short I. Saying hairstyles are not gender specific and that long hair isn't a feminine trait. I notice you dodged probing your point so just a baseless opinion then
Again you get it wrong, a gender specific trait is biological such as male facial hair. If men and women stopped getting haircuts both would have long hair, the unique traits would be racial in terms of colouring, curly/straight etc but gender would make no difference. If your referencing social trends then in the short term men have tended to have shorter hair in some (largely western influenced) cultures but historically long hair was always viewed as masculine and a sign of health and virility hence why stories such as Samson exist
Samson is biblical story where the power was in his hairs. Read Bible ffs. And people can cut their hairs for a long time. So why didn't women shave their heads before? Why long hairs? Because it's a feminine hairstyle.
The story of Samson is rooted in the historic view of male hair length being a sign of strength health and virility. Your referencing recent culture and societal views which fluctuate a lot, it doesn't show a gender trait just a societal view for a period of history
Samson story is rooted in bible. I am not christian so idgaf. But you still didn't answer my question, women would have cut their hairs before too. Why didn't they? Because it wasn't feminine to cut the hairs.
Historically most men have gone bald. Its genetic. Not a hairstyle. Less men go bald today due to medications and surgery but about 80% of men will go full or partially bald without medical intervention. So yeah. That was the typical male look for a man in his 30s and up through most of history.
If you're bringing in biblical stories, would you like me to bring in Hindu stories? 😂 Let's have a religious debate. Because that's what you're doing.
Nope I was having a cultural debate. Religion is a part of culture and is influenced by it. Religious texts tend to be a helpful insight into older cultures and societies.
Yeah, some interesting references to long hair being a cultural thing for Hindus, referencing male and female sporting it and it being linked to a male deity
Cutting and shaving of hair were in vogue (in vogue means in fashion). Scissors, razors and knives are mentioned in the Vedas.
LONG HAIR was regarded WOMANLY (SB 5-1-2-14). This shows women had long hair and they prayed for long hair. In the Mahabharata Draupadi vowed not to tie her hair until Dusshsana was killed and his blood is smeared in her hair. Women don’t dress their hair when their husbands were away.
When a woman was pregnant the ‘seemanta’ ceremony is done and lot of bangles are given to the woman. This seemanta means parting the hair. Kataka Samhita 23-1 mentioned this parting with the thorn of a porcupine – ‘salali’
Yeah as I said some references to woman having long hair, along with references to men having long hair as well and in a single faith. In Sikhism, Islam, Christianity, paganism, long hair was traditionally male and in some is still seen as
To the men having long hairs, you're referring to Hindu God Shiva. He was a Yogi. Yogi are saints who don't care about the fashion. They either go bald or don't cut their hairs. In Sikhism, it's prohibited to cut hairs. The pagg (turban) that they wear is containing hairs inside. Women are also prohibited to cut the hairs. So do you understand how long hairs were always feminine?
Read your article again it referred to males with long hair, not just gods that are linked to hinduism. Nope you have made a couple of points about long hair being a cultural thing in the past in hinduism, not that it is feminine and you keep acknowledging men having long hair in many other cultures or are you calling all those cultures feminine?
It also says that long hairs were feminine. And it doesn't speak about other cultures. It speaks about Hindu living in Iraq. They used to make dreadlocks. Shiva hairs are dreadlocks. And it was never that women used to cut their hairs. Long hairs was regarded WOMANLY. And the people who are told to have long hairs are all saints. Rama is a God but he was on an exile and lived in forest for 14 years. Don't think he had the time or resources while on exile to take care of his hairs. The Sikh, well, in their texts it's prohibited to cut the hairs. Still only men wear turbans. Why? Because long hairs is womanly and turbans are pride of Sikh men.
So a couple of references in one culture and you think it dictates global femininity? This is helping me understand why indian men have so much trouble with woman online, this sort of thing is culturally oppressive and largely designed to control people
LMAO 🤣 you were the only one bringing in culture. First you brought in Bible, then brought in Sikhism and now are trying to attack me on a personal and national level. Irrespective of all that you said still the truth is truth. And long hairs are womanly/feminine. And you can't change facts.
I never said they are, I said aspects of one culture from the global collective said they were. Do you not understand that one or to quotes from hinduism don't represent the world?
Do you know Hinduism is the oldest culture/religion? And do you know that shiv lingam was found all over the world!😆 So I believe it was a pretty global culture once upon a time.
Come visit India! Every aged woman will tell you the same thing. "Baal aurat ka gehna hota hai" this means hairs are the jewel of a woman. This saying is very common. It's not an opinion. It's a fact.
A saying is an opinion not a fact. Trump supporters say he's the greatest ever president. Saying it doesn't make it fact. It's been interesting chatting to you, but I think we shall have to agree to disagree
It's still an expression of opinion not a fact. I have a friend with very short hair, she is relentlessly harassed by indian men online who think it's sexy as hell. As I said before I think this is a point where we agree to disagree before it stops being an interesting, fun chat
Pretty sure we were talking about the old days and the fact that long hairs are feminine. Your friend might be a hot girl. But still that doesn't change the fact that long hairs were considered feminine and are considered feminine. P. S. horny boys don't look at hairs, they look at something else.
You started this talking about modern women's hairstyles so no it wasn't just about the past. When the pic is of her hair there isn't much else to look at. So your really not going to acknowledge us each having the right to our own view on this then?
The question is why are women trying to be masculine? And my example was that women are going for buzzcut/shaved head. You said hairstyles WERE (were is past tense) never masculine or feminine. You took the argument to the past. I just proved you wrong. It seems you don't have the guts to accept defeat eventho you clearly lost.
You used one culture from one part of the world and used subjective opinions with no facts whatsoever. This is what I hate about this site, so many people who can't accept that differences in views will exist or that their culture isn't the only global view on a subject and so many people that utterly fail to understand the difference between fact and opinion. It's juvenile at best and dangerous at worst. I offered you a way out that kept things amicable and you instead want to oppose your view on me? That is oppressive behaviour. I never tried to impose my view on you. We debated and I ended saying we each have the right to our own views which I'm sure comes from our different cultures. I respected your right to your own view and your trying to force yours on me in return?
Um you have right to your views but we ain't playing the make feel good game. Literally everywhere in the old times girls used to never cut their hairs because long hairs were a feminine thing. Men were the only ones who used to have short hairs. Some men used to have long hairs but women never used to have short hairs, why? Because long hairs on women were feminine.
Because some want to is why. Cara looks great in that cut. Yeah it might be considered a traditionally masculine hair cut but that doesn't mean that's the goal of the wearer.
You never considered its actually just simply a much more managable hairstyle? N besides, who says you can't look feminine n gorgeous with it too. You clear ly ohcked t he wrong picture, Cara Delevigne, to illustrate your point. She just looks even hotter!! N the funny thing is my boyfriend agrees with me! Bwhahahaha hahahahaha Geez lolol. 🤣😂🤣😂😅😅😂🤣🤣😂😅🤣😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
Because since K-12, and college, they have been indoctrinated with man-hate and have been programmed to out perform men. Karl would be amazed how easy it was.
Yeah! It is @Miristheiss It's about "we are women, we are strong" bullshit. I am not saying they aren't strong. All I am saying is men are men and women are women.
"You sound so sad? I could as you men the same thing? Why not try to more masculine instead?"
We do, and we get accused of having 'toxic masculinity'. Yet if we don't display the same traits associated with 'toxic masculinity' we get shamed and told we're too feminine.
And that's a problem. Because they are finding comfort in being a man. Something they are not. They are not a man. So what's the reason why they find it comfortable being a man? Something to think about.
How are they finding comfort in being a man? You can dress a certain way without wanting to be a man. You can be and feel very feminine with short hair and whatnot.
Is having muscles, six pack abs, short hairs quality of female sex? I don't think so. A healthy female will be chubby and that's because of the amount of estrogen in her body.
You can still be feminine with those qualities though. Look at celebrities with shorter hair, they still look very womanly. (Lisa Cimorelli and Emma Watson, for example.)
A healthy female will be chubby - Uh, since when? So what, I'm unfeminine and unhealthy because I'm thin? Being chubby isn't healthy.
It's fine to have preferences for long hair and whatnot, but I think we need to just let people live and dress how they like.
Emma Watson is feminine?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thanks for the laugh. Chubby not according to American standard where chubby means morbidly obese. Chubby in the sense, more fat and the right places, ass and boobs and thighs.
My dude, the reason why some girls cut their hair short is because sometimes long hair gets in the way. Like in the mouth, getting in your face, the wind blowing it around like crazy. And also maybe they find it cute! I've seen girls with short hair that I thought looked super cute that I wanted! It isn't because they trying to be masculine, not is some cases anyway. ITS NOT BECAUSE THEIR TRYING TO BE A MAN! Your taking this way too far dude. Plus, these girls are giving you the answers and your blowing things up out of proportion and telling them their wrong? No matter how much you hate it, their still going to do it. And there are even dudes who grow their hair long and I like it! I know two dudes with long hair and they look awesome. And why do they do it? Maybe because they love it and it looks awesome, not because they're trying to be feminine. They are in no way feminine. You need to learn some respect dude.
There's a difference between buzzcut/shaven head and short hairs! Pretty sure I said buzzcut/shaved head in my question 😉 I am respectful as much as I need to be.
Some people find androgynous beauty very attractive or empowering. I’m gonna cite Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night like an actual loser but yeah— androgyny has been considered attractive by many for centuries.
The women that are tending to being a bit more masculine are simply expressing themselves. I personally find this very sexy as women who are confident in their sexuality are the sexiest. Live and let live.
Maybe that's what they like and when they go to get these styles they're not thinking about the opinions of guys. Maybe they're doing what makes them happy and feel confident.
That's a misconception. Women and men dress to impress. Way before the mirrors, the females used to dress nicely. Why? To attract a high tier male. Dressing up is always to impress.
She looks in the mirror and likes what she's sees and feels like she is being her authentic self. Looking and feeling your best doesn't always have to be centered around getting attention. It might be that way for some people but not everyone.
I am sensitive about women losing femininity. There was a time when gay were frowned upon, now they are celebrated. They are celebrated so much that recently I read a question by a kid who was getting confused about his sex. He was sure that he's hetrosexual but there was something that was making him uncomfortable about himself. If this continues, girls will be uncomfortable in being feminine.
So you care more about yourself and people you found attractive, rather than them being comfortable and loving themselves. Idek what being feminine means? Is it liking the color pink? Like? Why does it matter? Life isn't about you.
wouldn't you if you were one of them? Social norms aren't nearly as rooted in biology as people think they are. It just happens that society has nudged people into certain behaviors and away from others for arbitrary reasons and people are finally starting to break free of it to a degree
Because its in womens nature to destroy. They are beautiful and men want them so they say "hey, how can i make myself as undesirable as possible?" So then they destroy themselves. This is the nature of woman.
I think it's cool to be honest. Do what you want to do I think eh divide between genders is so big when it doesn't need to be we are more similar than most people think but we divide ourselves so much purely on gender. Who cares if someone want to shave their head?
I'm sorry I don't get how wearing boys clothes and cutting your hair equals trying to be a boy. Like why can't people just dress how they want? Who are they hurting?
Okay but you are making an assumption that every girl who dresses masculine believes that. I guarantee there's very little people who actually believe that. And nowhere in your original post did you mention anything about that belief.
You said I jumped a few steps. This post is to make people realise that girls are actually leaving femininity and trying to be more masculine and soon this will affect the society on a large scale.
I promise you there's plenty of girls who want to remain feminine. And besides women shouldn't have to live their life just to please society. No one should. We should all be allowed to wear and do what we want as long as we're not hurting other people.
Interested in hearing how it's going to effect society though.
Recently I read a question here how a kid thinks he's transgender. He mentions that he doesn't want a pussy or tits but feel that he's lying to himself and is actually a transgender. Women who choose to be stay at home wives are questioned if everything is alright and are seen as if something's wrong. Society is leaving femininity. And is going towards masculinity, thinking it's cool.
Okay, so I'm assuming the person who asked that question was a boy who desires to be a girl? And how is that leaving femininity? Lmao.
Do you not think masculinity is cool? Or are you just threatened by the women who want to be masculine as well? I don't completely understand your fears on this one.
I feel we need other to work in a balance. If women become manly and men become feminine, it will be chaotic. And I feel it is starting to be like that.
It's about psychology. Not biology. Women are trying to be like men. Do things that men do. For what? To show power, authority. Because either they are feeling weak or feeling afraid of the other sex.
I just don't get what your deal is. You say it defies psychology and whatever, but who cares? If it makes people happy what's the problem? I don't feel inferior at all, and I don't even dress that masculine. You say it's "wrong" but why? Who's it going to hurt? Yeah we need "balance" or whatever, but girls can act and look masculine and still take care of children and be homemakers. And feminine girls can get high paying jobs and work. Why do you think there's only one way to go about life?
Recently I read a question here how a kid thinks he's transgender. He mentions that he doesn't want a pussy or tits but feel that he's lying to himself and is actually a transgender. Women who choose to be stay at home wives are questioned if everything is alright and are seen as if something's wrong. Society is leaving femininity. And is going towards masculinity, thinking it's cool. Read this again. This time don't think, just read and try to understand.
For the transgender question- the kid is a boy but wants to be a girl? Right? How is that moving away from femininity? Isn't that person trying to move towards it?
And yeah I suppose some people think it's odd when women stay at home, but that doesn't stop women from being stay at home moms. I still know quite a few. What's wrong with women working?
Your argument is kind of a slippery slope, as least that's what I'm getting from it. You think that women dressing and acting masculine is going to lead to a society without femininity. Which is honestly really unlikely.
The kid was afraid that he was lying to himself. He didn't wanted to be transsexual and don't want to have sex with a guy but feels that it's the society that why he's feeling like that but in reality he's a transgender. That's liberals affecting his mind.
I guess you're correct in saying that neutrality in expression is becoming more widespread. But why is that a problem? There's still going to be people who prefer to remain in their traditional roles. And you haven't really given me specific examples as to why this is bad for society.
Jennifer2019, you know nothing... Many women have hairstyles like including Right Wing Conservative women its, because there's more important thi gs to take time than taking care of hair everyday... I havr my hair cut shorter and shorter every year, in two years it will be that short and I'm not a Feminist, Demo, Lefty, or Lib, I'm 100% Independent, I know how to think and make decisions for myself!!! Those that Define themselves in any category is saying I'm a Follower can't make my own decisions need to be told what to do!!!
Because men have short hairs. It's a masculine fashion. Females have long hairs, that's feminine fashion. Same way, at this time heels is feminine fashion. Was heel always feminine fashion? Nope. Men used to wear heels in the past.
You don't understand man. Recently I saw a question about a kid getting worried about being a transgender. He knew he doesn't want to be a female but is afraid that he's lying to himself and is actually a girl. That's liberals affecting his mindset. If this trend continues, soon women will feel uncomfortable being feminine. Like nowadays girls feel this pressure to do a job and if they want to be a stay at home wife, they feel pressured from the society. This small things like buzz cut will take a bad turn.
Maybe because they think masculanity is sexy. So if they try acting more masculine they would turn more sexy... A woman who is confident in bed is more sexier than a shy woman, and confidence is actually a trait of men not women...
A difference in beauty standards I suppose? For instance I had a shaved head for awhile because of some hair loss related to some medical issues. To each their own
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