But once you add romance and men into the mix, it gets particularly volatile. Dominant men seem to try to make me submit which isn't happening, and that's also frustrating because nothing about me even seems remotely submissive socially. I'm always left puzzled as to why he went after me in the first place, wasting my time. The problem is some other guys want you to be their mother and run the relationship, make all plans and decisions, etc. which I'm also not interested in.
I'm thinking dominant girls like me may do better with someone in the middle of the spectrum. Definitely not super dominant/masculine, but an even mix. I view myself as a mix too, especially when I feel respected. I can't do that with dominant men because they try to control and lead, which causes me to resist and assert my own dominance. Ironically, I can be more easy going and submissive with a guy who gives me space and values/likes my dominant/"masculine" traits too. They're just harder to find and I don't like chasing men.
What do you think?
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