Im a girl and guys try to fight me at bars some even have hit me… I don’t know why?

[Sunkingog]

So I’m a girl and I’m 5’8, I got to clubs often and pretty much the time I’ve gone i have gotten into a fight with guys. once this guy was mad at me because I told him to get off the table because nobody wants to see guys standing around doing nothing while we are in a club so me and my girlfriend got on the table and started dancing. He got mad and started taking. So I came up to him and said don’t be a douche and he punched me in the face. His punch was pretty soft so I just stood there in shock that he actually hit me.. then I started swinging and he ended up on the floor knocked out. Even his buddies were about to swing on me till my girlfriend pulled them back. Then security dragged me out and kicked me out.
About me:
I was a goal keeper so I do have upper body strength and maybe I just look more able to fight? I don’t dress super girly but not super masculine to confuse me as a guy. I have long hair and it’s obvious I’m a girl and not a guy. I also am with my girlfriend so maybe it’s cuz I give off masculine energy even tho they know I’m a girl? I just want to know why they choose to hit me? Or even try to start a fight with me. Thanks!

[Vegasrunner]

Um. Lol perhaps if you didn't go around starting fights people wouldn't hit you. I worked in the nightclub industry on the LV strip for over a decade and would see this all the time. A lot of girls when they get drunk like to start fights w/ guys because they know a guy isn't supposed to hit them and if they did the guy is going to be the only one facing any consequences. Telling someone to get of a table is out of line and you need to grow up. When girls would act like that what I would do is pay a couple of girls from the hood to come to the club and then I would just tell girls like u if you dont chill I'm going to call my sister over her to handle this. Once it's a fair fight most women like yourself tend to cower because u didn't want to fight to begin with.

[Sunkingog]

I wish guys were more like you, and tell girls they’ll bring their home girls to have a fair fight with me instead of punching me in the face ! 🤟🏼 Appreciate it

[Vegasrunner]

Fair enough. Because if you would step to them the same way, I'd have more respect for you overall.

[Tyrael]

Maybe just let other people live their lives in future and don't try and tell them what to do in a nightclub.

[RedStiletto88]

Oh dear. Nooo there is nothing normal about any of that in any way.


I’ve been to bars numerous times either with the girls or a guy I’m dating and it’s very rare if there’s any kind of physical altercation, usually it’s drunk pervs who grope and they end up slapped or kicked where it hurts.


I nor my friends ever instigate any kind of violence.

[AvaOneLasTime]

"has profile story of how she kicks men and even children in genitals (which since is adult, is considered sexual offence.)"
Not violent person?
OK...

[RedStiletto88]

Umm I’ve never kicked a child there as an adult.

Omg I’ve seen you post before. You have a disturbing fixation as you always only respond to the same thing.

But nice to know you’re more sympathetic to pervy gropers than you are to women.

Shame shame shame.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Seriously? Look at your profile history. And the topics you discussed. Advocating for kicking men and boys!
What do I do? I advocate for not kicking ANYONE!
because of you and people like you, I had to write three educational Takes and had creepy calls from hidden number!
I won't be surprised if its you or some of ur 'sisters' here.
By the way, 2 of the topics you discussed are now gone. Wonder why?

[RedStiletto88]

Oh dear.

I’ve answered a lot of different questions on soo many different topics on a variety of issues.

I advocate for not being harassed or groped or assaulted!

Let me know when you grow up omfg!

[RedStiletto88]

I think you’re beyond help.

Despite me being lvl 6 with 37% MHO and following and being followed by different people…

I think you are seeing what you want to see. Maybe some do have a fixation for what you say. I honestly prefer discussing other things but you looked through my answers and ignored everything else.

Take up your issues with the others if you’re sooo concerned and leave me out of your fixation!!

[AvaOneLasTime]

And we got to the 'leave me alone' moment.
I will. We can agree to disagree and part ways in a respected, civil manner.
Just wanted to remind you that we too can be 'kicked where it hurts' . And it hurts a lot.
unless your anatomy is different than mine.
and what I imply can go both ways.

[RedStiletto88]

Um I never ever have said it doesn’t hurt nor have I ever pretended such a thing so I really don’t know where or why you thought that up.

You still have an odd fixation and it’s more bizarre you accuse me of something?

[FiguringItOutGirl]

You're just tall and classless men will use your physical equality to justify getting into an altercation with you.

[Sunkingog]

I’m Definitely very classy haha !

[FiguringItOutGirl]

No, I mean you are tall and “men that are classless” will use that as an excuse to justify hitting you.

[AvaOneLasTime]

This is bullshit, sorry
I think I will start petition, for rank 1 users, to be unable to ask questions yet. Because when they do, it's about some their weird liking, obsession or fetish or something which can prevent you from sleeping at night

[Gwenhwyfar]

That’s really weird. I do notice you chose a masculine screen name (Sun King Og).

[Sunkingog]

Didn’t know what to put so I put my fav strain of marijuana

[Gwenhwyfar]

Nice!! No, for real, that is weird and kinda creepy that guys try to hit you.

[Abbielouise07]

I hate to be rude but if you’re going to confront people, they won’t like it. I would be super annoyed if someone told me what to do in a night club

[Sunkingog]

So you’ll hit a girl? Pathetic

[Abbielouise07]

Possibly he was drunk? Not condoning his behaviour but peoples inhibitions go straight out the window when they’re drunk. I don’t know. But you’re getting confrontational with me. You asked for an opinion and you got one.

[Abbielouise07]

And by the way, I’m also a girl

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I'm pretty sure you are omitting important details here.

[skyeee_]

damn... i wonder why either.

[Iron_Man]

They like you like a kid would a girl

[Iron_Man]

No perhaps you for making that rude comment

[Marin0wl]

Sounds like you're starting it.

[Sunkingog]

But I’m also a girl so… can guys not control their anger? Are you guys insecure?

[Marin0wl]

Guy rule: never hit girls.
Most guys follow this.
Alternative guy rule: never hit girls unless they hit first (hard enough)
2nd alternative guy rule: if a girl hits and has a guy around... he's been volunteered for an asswhooping because he couldn't keep her back.

Some guys feel that way (I'm rule #1)
Guys can control their anger, just like girls can...

But then there are also guys And girls who can't control their anger or emotions.

A drunk (possibly insecure) guy in a club... you're asking for trouble.

[Anonymous]

I'd stay away from those bars

[Anonymous]

so basically you're a guy dressed in drag

[Sunkingog]

Lol no I’m a girl born with a vagina dressed like a tomboy? I think that’s the word when you dress masculine but not too much