Why don't guys like classy girls?

[Anonymous]

In my experience at least, guys don't go for the poised, sophisticated girls with class. They seem to go for easy, slutty & trashy ones.

Why is this?

[Mesonfielde]

Because "classy" girls have higher demands. While guys can easily waltz up to a girl (provided he is confident enough) and ask her to come sleep with him tonight, and she possibly actually will - well, you can't do that with a "classy" girl. And really - most "classy" girls get a few participants as well, but they get rejected. And after that, listening to their whining about how they don't have a boyfriend is ridiculously hilarious.

Usually those who fall for the classier girls are those who are not as outgoing, not as social, not as confident, etc. And they don't ask her out. And even if they did, they would just get rejected, because the girls always look at the guys who seem confident, and not those who actually care for them.

[Ns8ebtd]

Moron alert

[Gregs]

It depends what you mean by classy and poised, if you mean Scarlett Johansson warm and open classiness, then I have no idea, if your talking about the bitchy, my sh*t don't stink classiness, then it's probably because you are an annoying boring bitch and have your head so far up your ass you don't realize it...

[Asker]

Scarlett Johansson is a perfect example. I'm not talking about the second one. I think classiness is caring about other people's feelings and putting yourself on a level with everyone else, like you're not better, you're not worse, you're equal to everyone else. I definitely wouldn't call the snobby girls classy.

[panianna]

If Scarlett is OK to you, then I don't understand the question. I don't know a guy who wouldn't be interested in a girl like scarlett.

[Gregs]

Yeah, I get that a trashy girl might put out easier but I don't see why guys would not at least try. Every party I go to there is always a group of guys hitting on them, usually including me and kind to think about it, pretty much any guy that is single at the party...

[Anonymous]

because the easy slutty ones just throw themselves at them, and it makes them feel like they must be "hot" or something. The classy ones don't throw themselves at the guys, and the guys have to do the chase... so they don't want to put any effort in it in case they get rejected. that's what I think. Just a theory. who knows, it could be different with every couple.

[Asker]

That's what I was thinking too. And by most of the answers on here, that's most likely the case haha.

[Eyez-A-Blazin]

i agree with your answer.

[jessicafrigginmarie]

Some guys do that because, well chances are if you look easy, you are easy. Some guys are only looking for good times, not relationships. It all depends on what guys you are talking about, A lot of younger guys, are unfortunately looking for good times. There are a few mature ones out there, you just have to DIG DEEP.

[drummerdude25]

great answer!

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

Those are little boys, not MEN.

I am a MAN.

If I see a trashy, easy, slutty girl, as you put it, I don't go for them, because they are not attractive. I prefer those with class.

[Asker]

That's really good to hear! (:

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

Little boys just want a sure fire way to get a piece of action... Personally, I like to take my time and find commitment... Kinda like the story of the old bull and young bull...

Young bull: "Let's run down and f*ck a few cows..."

Old bull: "Let's walk down and Get em all!"

The point being, poised sophisticated ones are looking for long term commitment. The "skanks" are looking for a quickie here and there... I am one that is not afraid of commitment.

[jd0125]

lack of standards. maybe morals, think of

they themselves are probably only after one thing. Easy girls are advertising it everyday.

They might be scared to work for it.

I always thought I was outclassed, those women were out of my league in school.Was intimidated. Scared to approach and be rejected

[Anonymous]

why does it seem that every classy girl I would go for, seems to be going out with guys that look like they came from a trailer park? I for one love classy girls, but they never like classy guys from what I've noticed. its all about who parties hardest or causes the most drama. forbid a guy that has a future and was actually raised by a good, loving, put together family!

[misterbill71]

easy, slutty, trashy girls will have sex with them for little or no effort, while poised sophisticated girls will make a guy work for it... its really that simple.

[KillerrMike]

Because those "easy, slutty & trashy girls" are actually attractive and they do not have a problem showing their sexual interest in men, on top of that they are not prudish. "Classy" usually means she expects men to put up with some kind of bullsh*t. Real men don't take any sh*t from women or follow any of their "classy" rules or expectations.

[DocClassic]

same reason nice guys finish last I suppose. but also I think there is just something carnal about the slutty ones that makes them hot. and the sophisticated ones have this "holier than thou" kinda vibe

[unknown88]

I personally prefer a more poised sophisticated girl with class. Someone you can take out to your mates and family and have a proper conversation and be proud of them.

May just be me but I hated it when my ex had haer chest on show, when she would wear the shortest skirt known to man and stuff like that. I would have been a lot more attracted to HER if she had been more classy than I was to her body.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

I'm just going to say, you seem up your own arse quite a bit. That's probably why.

[Anonymous]

Lot easier to get sex from other girls than classy ones. Although being classy/ having higher standards will get you a better guy you will just have to wait a lot longer.

[snackeyg]

As foolycooly said they're easier and less stuck up.

[foolycooly1001]

why take the hard route

[foolycooly1001]

especially if by poised, you mean not flirty. why would anyone go after someone who seems aloof? you say easy like it's a bad thing.

[Asker]

By poised I mean not doing trashy things (in public, at least haha). It doesn't mean theyre less flirty.

[foolycooly1001]

that's good. but guys who just want sex will naturally go for easier girls.