I think you need to get your own self together before you worry about something else. Money isn't everything, but it is important. Being able to handle your basic needs is much more important that hooking up.
Mature Girls are biologically geared to desire successful guys. A hot guy is genetically successful. A smart guy can be even more hot. A rich guy is hot too, because like the others he can provide for children. Once girls start figuring it out, they are drawn to stable guys who can provide for a family.
You also have to worry yourself, if your unable to manage your own life yet, the girl you get may not be a great match. You don't want to get dragged down with a loser bitch that ruins your life.
Start by working on yourself. I knew this fat dumpy loser in high school. He got his crap together and by the time he graduated he was dating the hottest girls in school. In 4 years he went from this greasy, nerdy guy, who didn't shower regularly, to a hot stud who felt bad about turning away several dates to the prom.
Get yourself together first. Get a plan. Get responsible. Get a job. Get some cash in the bank. The girls will show up like magic. Success attracts success... and desirable sexy girls seek out successful hard working guys who have their shit together.
The next time you see a hot chick with a rather plain guy, you can bet he is a good provider.
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Have you tried applying for some of the grants that they offer to disabled vets to help them start their own businesses? That might be an option for you. Or maybe try meeting girls at parks, libraries, churches, volunteering, book stores, etc. There are lots of places where you can hang out for free and possibly meet a girl with your same interests. Thank you for your service, btw!
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Strong personalities don't have to rely on money to get what they want. Find ways to make yourself happy, and peacock out what you are good at, chicks are always attracted to that kind of man. Netflix nights can be fun.
Why not sell your laptop or smartphone then, or are you sending this question in via semaphore?
qph.is.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-733441067b466069d7f78145bf5fc908It's not a must to be rich of course. But I suggest that you let her know soon enough about your situation that she'll know that you're not doing this because of greed. And ensure her that you're looking for jobs already etc so that she'll see that you do have a future
i don't think its shallowness. historically, women have looked for men who can support them. women are able to support themselves financially now, but fear emasculating men for fully supporting them financially.
my advice would be to try to find a job. even minimum wage. get yourself on your feet first and then worry about datingI don't care about money, but it looks like you need to get your life together first before dating
not all women are only interested in money
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