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Stop looking for strangers who are going to want premarital sex with you anyway. You don't set the standards or truly know yourself. When you set the bar high you will scare off the wrong men, and the right men will eventually come along who is on your level. They only see the face, the body, the desire, etc. They don't know YOU. When you stop basing your validation on a man, then everything begins to change. The problem even more, if you are having premarital sex outside of marriage then they already see you as somebody who isn't worth respect. I'm not kidding. Yes, there are few who have premarital sex and may still treat you right BUT. That is overall a person who should have been waiting for marriage along with YOU. Everything that you saying says you lack healthy boundaries, standards are too low, you too accommodating, lacking some self-esteem, and lacking direction.
If you want a loyal man, you have to be loyal and truly value you for you. You have to look at the core of your heart and figure out what do you really WANT. Align it to what you truly NEED, And stop settling for less. I grew up going through the same thing. And I had to learn to truly love myself as a person and stop accepting guys 'compliments' about my looks or body. It means NOTHING. When you get older, it will fade with time. A guy who truly wants to get to know you, get to know you for the spirit and the soul. When you become whole as a person, then it will prevent most guys from trying to come your way who are seeking those like you to use and abuse for the sake of what they can gain out of you.
Well if it's u in the picture there's definitely something wrong with your choice of guys. Now I ain't no virgin or nothing, but I hear that guys who get to... uhmm... u know... too fast will be running away after cause they think u cheap. I made my boyfriend wait for it until... we could no longer, and he sure stuck around, and I ain't prettier than you
It is likely the men you are meeting. You are plenty attractive going by that photo. Looks alone I donMt get it but like I said, it is probably the men you are meeting... I mean, especially the ones telling you what you want to hear then bailing after sleeping together. I mean, even if you were hypothetically dull in bed that wouldn’t necessarily be reason for a guy who has genuine interest within you to simply skip on you. Besides, that can be worked on.
Build a bond and see if that keeps them around longer. A guy who finds you worth while will stick around. Not sure why they are doing what they are... it definitely is not your looks.
you look great and dateable to me personally, i just think those who want the filling but not the pie crust when they know for certain someone actually wants the whole deal to be inconsiderate... if they didn't want anything serious then they should look for likeminded partners and go from there, not go after and continue to pursue those who want something more meaningful
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It's because you think that giving a guy sex will buy his commitment. It is the complete opposite. No man wants to pay (commit) to something another man got for free. If you actually put a standard that you'll wait for sex till xxx time being in a relationship, then you will see much different results. So if I get sex from you, why in the hell should I make you my girlfriend? You're already free game.
There is no such thing as pretty enough to bone and not pretty enough to date. The role of physical attraction is to make the other horny. There is nothing in a person's attractiveness that says something conclusive about their character and personality.
You can expect that a good looking person is confident, but that's all it is: an expectation.
the key here is to stop focusing on guys and focus rather on yourself. Work on yourself, whether that be in the gym or your career or whatever, make yourself a more marketable woman. Don't even worry about finding a guy, if you are at top level woman you will not lead to look at the guys will be coming to you
Well if you're having sex with guys who are conventionally speaking more desirable than you/guys who have a lot of options then it could definitely be true that you are good enough to fuck those guys but not good enough for them to give up their other options and commit solely to you.
Because that's how guys are. The rest are just bullshitting that they don't want to fuck cause they're too pussy to admit it (fear of what others think of them)
"oh no i'm not like the other guys". (eye-roll)
Even if you try to make them "work for it" most will just move on to a hotter/younger girl.
It's up to you not to give it up so fast
It sucks but most guys just want to have sex nowadays
You need to abstain for at least 6 months of dating and talking
If a guy doesn't stick around for that long he isn't worth it
by the way: you are so worth it! God made women to be the perfect gift to men! You were also created in Gods image. You are perfect.
It's up to you, to abstain and be chaste until the right man comes along.
it has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with your personality.
If you give a vibe that you are easy or just DTF , then of course every guy is gonna fuck you and leave
You need to change the way you interact with people , so that they don't think you are easy or that kind of girl
you aren't showing them you're high value and men are basically all animals that think with their penis 99% of the time. I hope you aren't actually sleeping with them, cause if you sleep with a man without being in a commitment with them, they will leave you, THEY WILL LEAVE. FACTS.
Work on your screening process. I think you're girlfriend pretty. Also upgrade your style when you go out. You want to be classed up just enough that the f-boys see you as unapproachable, but the good men see that you're a quality girl. If you dress for attention from just any man, you're gonna get attention from just any man.
That was never my goal but girls that could make me feel that way are girls I would have normally found attractive... BUT had tattoos or piercings... so they could never have been long term interests... I hate tattoos on women.
Stop having sex and start going on dates. If a guy shows interest don't hang out with him. Tell him to plan a date and ask you out.
Well if that's you in the photo, I think you're pretty.
I dont know why those guys don't wanna date you.
Maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet?
Keep looking, he's out there somewhere.
its not that you aren't good enough to date, its that you seem to choose the people that dont want to date and you still give them the cake, take away the cake and you'll see the ones that would want to date
Some guys are like that. You're cute, and I'm sure the right guy will come along. May you need to change what you're fishing for
I bet you've never sat down and ascertained exactly what it is you have to offer, beyond the sex they all appear to be seeking...
I don't think a lack of prettiness is the problem. I imagine it's just that you're going for guys who aren't looking to date.
By that picture, you definitely don’t look fuckable. Since you look cute and modest. So yeah, you definitely deserve a loyal gentleman for yourself.
This is very common these days, and not just with guys I might add. So you can't take this personally. It's not YOU as a person, nor is it about your looks. It's simply these guys you're seeing don't want a relationship. That's it, nothing more.
Choose better guys.
A woman that has sex with me reels me in. That is the kind of guy you want to meet.
When you’re dating don’t ever put out because Once they get it they then lose respect for you and move onto the next girl. You’re finding the wrong kind of guys
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