How can I be happy in life when I’m trapped at a low wage and too short to get anywhere with dating tired of feeling worthless?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

There is a saying 'When You Change The Way You look At Things, The Things You Look At Change'

You said: trapped at a low wage job' I saw 'employed with an income that helps me get by and gives me a little freedom'

You said 'too short' I saw 'potential to get stronger due to leverage'.

You said 'get anywhere in dating' I saw 'I need to find my true life purpose and not waste my time dating'.

The first step begins with gratitude. Then the next step is being vocal every day about all of the things you're thankful for. Begin with a healthy mind, then a healthy body, then a healthy life will follow. Opportunities only come to those who have gratitude...

I'm 5'7 and have no issues with attraction but I see other guys the same height claim they are too short. There will also be guys your height that say the same, and then there will be others that say the opposite. Therefore it is your perception that is important.

People are talking about a new job. But if your perception of the current job is the real issue, you don't necessarily need a new one. Try this for one week and see what happens. No matter what you feel about the job, be thankful for it. Say out loud how happy you are to have it, and tell yourself every single day how much gratitude you have for the job. if you can't do this then that's a further clue that your perception is the issue.

For death and life are truly in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21).

[jamesgoldman]

Quit rye dating, did that 6 years ago and am all the happier for it

[jeemm]

I'm no expert but change what you can change for the better, but not for someone else but for yourself. If you assign worth to your looks then change them in the gym, fashion, healthy diet etc etc.

Girls typically like self confidence even more than height so if you can feel good about yourself it's a huge step your goal of success in dating.

[melanieeeB]

Change the things that bother you as far as possible.
New Job, new clothing, working on self-esteem and confidence

[jennifer_bloom]

I look way better then the women who rejected you so stop wasting your time.

[Anonymous]

It seems like you are feeling depressed right now.
Have you thought about changing jobs?
How tall are you?

[Asker]

5’5 and I had a really hard time finding a job so I can’t quit unfortunately

[Opinion Owner]

5’5 isn't that bad. Some girls are only 5’2 or 5’3. Don't let your height bother you too much 😄
I've known women who have married women who aren't even close to their height.

I see. Times are tough out there. Have you thought about moving to where you can find a better job?

[genericname85]

well by not focusing on your properties that you think are bad and instead polishing those you think are already good.

[Twalli]

You're probably taller than me and I got a girlfriend.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Turn away from what you don’t have