Why do exes play mind games?

Anonymous
My ex and I were best friends before we ended up dating and I recently came home from school after being away for a year and I go back in fall. she recently got in contact with me to say that she misses me and doesn't know if she she still has feelings for me.. she says she doesn't want to hurt me again so I said cool I wished her luck in her life and haven't heard from her in about a week now.. she has a boyfriend now but she tried to get my attention on 3 different occasions in a party while she was drunk by touching me and being a little to friendly for an ex while she was there with her boyfriend.. I also told her let's meet up and speak but she said no because it made no sense.. y is she trying to get my attention if she doesn't have feelings for me and why would she message and call me after partying with her boyfriend? I think she's a nut case but I would to understand her behavior
Why do exes play mind games?
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