i've decided to stop approaching women. and if i like a girl that i know, i won't be the one donig the asking out either. i think the only reason women expect men to approach them is because they've been conditioned into it by guys coming up to them their whole lives. the worst is when a women hints that she is interested in a guy by smiling or making eye contact but still won't actually approach him. i feel that i have more to offer women than they can offer me so if they're interested in me, they can the first move. now i know what you're thinking - it will be hard for me to meet women this way, but i think staying true to what i believe is more important then meeting women. however i'm not completely closed-minded on this. if someone can give me a good reason why the guy should make the first move, or at the very least why women won't make the first, i'd be willing to continue approaching women. what i'm asking is, are there any real reasons why the guy 'should' or is expected to do the approaching?
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I don't think there's a good reason to do it, and I admire your determination.0