She Keeps Telling Me She Likes Me And She Acts More Mature Than Most The Girls That Are 16 That I Know.
I Just Feel Kinda Weird About it.
Will Other People Think Me Disgusting For Dating Her?
but I keep wondering if I'm 16 and she's 13 and its wrong.
How come when a guy that's 50 dates a 20 year old its not?
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This is a good question. First of all, I wouldn't do it. I don't think it would be worth it.
People probably will have a problem with this because at 16, you are a lot more mature than someone who is 13. There is a lot of development that happens between the ages of 13 and 16. Even if this girl seems mature, at 13, she still has a lot of emotional/mental development to do. One of the biggest problems is that you are probably going to expect a sexual relationship and a 13 year old is not ready for that because, like I said, she is going through a stage of development. Girls who become sexually active at such a young age often go on to have problems later in life.
Even if you guys don't have sex, it is probably not a good idea for such a young girl to get in a serious dating situation. Most people I know would think that she should either be casually dating (no sex) with different guys or being friends with different guys, not just one guy. Girls who are so young need to learn about men and it isn't good for them to have just one man in their life, influencing them.
It is mature and considerate of you to ask for advice about this. Of course, you should use you own judgement here. If you feel like this girl is mature and you feel like you can hold off on sex for a while, then maybe try dating her. There are people who started dating young and had great experiences that didn't damage them! Patrick Swayze, who just died, met his wife when she was very young and they apparently had a great relationship. But be very, very careful. Young girls often feel that they are ready for things when they are not. She might be physically grown up and ready for an adult relationship, but mentally, I doubt it. Good luck.1