I'm 18 and she's younger than me. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm 18 and the girl talking to me at the moment is 14 and that sounds really bad but she's extremely mature for her age for me this is a problem because we're both in high school but I know she has interest and I'm definitely not planning to make a move because I literally can't. She makes a lot of weird sexual jokes like she likes to be dominated by a dude and she'd like to practice how to 'fuck' well. She does as lot of physical touching and flirting and she said she wanted my number but the thing is I'm about to leave school for University in 9 months and by the end of those 9 months she's going to want my number. I don't really want to wait because obviously in that 4-6 years she's going to get a boyfriend and I really want her to experience other things as well. What do I do here?

[Lliam]

How can she be in high school if she's 14? Does your high school begin in 9th grade?

I can understand that she's mature. When I was in 8th grade, there were girls who had boyfriends in high school. Those girls were more mature than boys their own age.

When I was 16, the first girlfriend I ever had was 14. She's the one who initiated contact with me. Other girls her age had done so, as well.

Anyway, the two of us started going steady. After a few weeks, she invited me into the house trailer that was parked in her parent's back yard. She had been in one, short-lived relationship before we met, so she wasn't a virgin. She had also had a pregnancy scare from that relationship so was on the pill.

She was totally mature physically, and more mature mentally than was I at that point.

So the only problems I see with you being with her are 1) the danger of being accused of statutory rape, and 2) the danger of pregnancy if she's not on birth control.
The fact that you will be moving on after high school isn't that big of a deal. If she knows that and still wants to get together with you, it's all good. But beware of the dangers I mentioned in 1 and 2.

[strateguy632]

tell her you don't date youngsters. break contact.

[Yunakim]

As you said she is mature , ans she is hitting on you with these jokes , she is not dumb to not realise the upcoming events , give it a try it might work for both of your goods if not thats what is gonna happen even if you not try.

For once think if could consider your own feelings as well , its gonna be perfect for you.

[jahaims]

Cut your losses. You are an adult man old enough to go to war. She is a child.

[Iron_Man]

You do nothing she’s too young

[Jmmmfi4]

NOOOOOOOOOOO JUST NO