I'm 24, she's 18, is she too young for me?

[Anonymous]

We love each other but I told her until she's 20 we'll abstain but she got angry

[btbc92]

Not necessarily but they may be some conflict. She's angry because in the end she wants what she wants which is basically you. But at the same time she may not be mentally there to fully understand what you mean by that because you're a bit more mature in a sense mentally than she is. If you say that you want to abstain and wait until she is 20 then I don't see what is the problem. It sounds like to me you better be careful with this individual because she's going to make you feel bad for something that you're just being realistic and rational about. Two years should be enough time for her to figure herself out and do at least grow up and to have some type of freedom before she decides if she wants to settle down. But if she's reacting that way without no logical reason it's probably a good reason for you not to bother and you may need to pursue someone else. You don't need somebody that is not mature. You have to also remember that as a man most women like that once all the men simply because you're older. Not because they are mature enough to handle a serious relationship. They just want to act like they're more mature for the age even though they still have the mindset of a 14 year old. The only difference is that they're 18, and they're legally an adult.

[Poppykate]

I think she has a lot of growing up to do. This is her first relationship?

[Tyrael]

No that's definitely not that big of an age gap. She's an adult, so are you. Nuff said.

[KrisKris81]

No. Personally, I don't begin question age difference until it hits 10 years.

[zagor]

LOL not by a long shot. Six years is a lot when you're 15, not when you're 30.